I lacked confidence (even on the internet)

United States
July 25, 2018 9:22pm CST
I first began forum-posting in 2009, via IMDB (the glory days!). Anyway, I was mostly a lurker (I would mostly lurk the threads, only replying on a rare occasion when I thought I had something particularly important to say). So yes, I usually thought my opinions weren't important enough. I'd go into chat rooms, intimidated the first few times, thinking, "What is this feed moving up here? Should I greet these people back, or should I leave instead?" I think it was 2012 that I began posting with confidence, not caring about the possibility of embarassing myself. So I posted confidently for 5 years, until (in February of last year) IMDB shut itself down, so to speak. For the remainder of the year, I just concerned myself with "how to replace IMDb." I think creating a Twitter, and posting more on YouTube have been a big help. The rest is history, and here I am. Greetings from Texas!
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
26 Jul 18
Welcome aboard Franco, I hope you'll enjoy here.
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• United States
26 Jul 18
Thank you, Frederick. I appreciate that.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
27 Jul 18
Welcome, I hope you enjoy this site. We post about anything and everything, just try to capture your readers' interest
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
26 Jul 18
Welcome to myLot and I hope you like it here and enjoy many discussions.
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• Philippines
27 Jul 18
Welcome to mylot. I hope you like the site. Have fun
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
26 Jul 18
Welcome to mylot my dear friend
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@Peach10 (1920)
26 Jul 18
Hi and welcome here. Just do your thing when you feel like it. Just stay cool and you'll be fine. See you
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@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
26 Jul 18
Oh wow! your post made me imagine how you were seated in front of your pc contemplating. But, yes i often get the feeling as well especially if there are topics i see online or here in mylot that I am not confident in. I would typically just ignore those topics because I just might make a fool out of myself. Thankfully I am mostly just trying to do more, share more, so I post more. Really glad you are here so I'll see you around! =)
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@Shavkat (137251)
• Philippines
26 Jul 18
I hope you enjoyed doing some activities on different social media. Welcome to mylot.
@Shavkat (137251)
• Philippines
26 Jul 18
• United States
26 Jul 18
Thanks, yes, I do enjoy retweeting and posting comments on music vids.
@MALUSE (69390)
• Germany
26 Jul 18
There is so much blatant stupidity to be found on the net that I really can't understand how anyone can be intimidated and feel too shy to post. Post away if you feel like it!!
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• Agra, India
26 Jul 18
Welcome. I hope you feel good here
• Agra, India
26 Jul 18
@FrancoZone most welcome. What other writing sites are.you working with
• United States
26 Jul 18
@amitkokiladitya That's a good question. I was hired by TextBroker, but they took so long to hire me (2 months) that I lost interest. I've been hired by BlogMutt, and intend to familiarize myself with the rules. I submitted a sample with HireWriters 5 days ago, haven't heard from them yet.
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• United States
26 Jul 18
Thanks, kokil.
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@kavinitu (5535)
• India
26 Jul 18
Hello! Welcome to mylot
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• New Baltimore, Michigan
26 Jul 18
You'll do just fine here. No need to lurk around or be shy. Stay out of chat rooms. Have fun at the 'Lot and welcome!
• United States
26 Jul 18
Thanks, Melanie.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
26 Jul 18
Hi! Welcome to myLot. Have fun here
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26 Jul 18
Welcome to myLot. I love the reviews on IMDB, they are very good. Enjoy your participation here, your opinions certainly matter.
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@snowy22315 (171169)
• United States
26 Jul 18
Hi and Welcome to Mylot. Most of the people here are friendly, so post with confidence..Some make negative comments..but the majority are fine.
• United States
26 Jul 18
I'm sure they're fine, also. The reason I was initially uneasy was that the IMDb Soapbox was my first forum. Enough said, if you know what the Soapbox was.
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@MALUSE (69390)
• Germany
26 Jul 18
Welcome to myLot. Enjoy the site! The first step for all newbies is to read the Guidelines to learn what is allowed or not on the site. Then you can write a post introducing yourself. Tell us a bit about yourself. Furthermore, read around as much as you can, Like and Comment on other members' posts. Only then will members come to your site and do the same. This is called interaction. Don't expect too much money-wise. If you reach $5 a month (the payout limit), you can call yourself lucky.
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