feeling dissatisfied with the state of my hair

my hair
@leny34 (8506)
Sidoarjo, Indonesia
November 25, 2018 12:52pm CST
hi myloters By the way, from childhood I really want to have straight hair like my friends have. but I wasn't lucky with that, because I was born with curly hair. I don't understand this, even though my mother's hair is straight and my brother's hair is straight, but why do I have curly hair ... I seem jealous of those who have straight hair.   I once thought of doing hair care to straighten my hair, but it didn't last long, after 2 months my hair will return to normal. and I'm bored because I have to do hair treatment every month, so now I decide to look with my curly hair, Have you ever felt dissatisfied with the condition of your hair?
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@hillhjill (23664)
• United States
25 Nov 18
Yes I have always wanted lose curly hair but my hair is straight as a board, but I'm happy with the hair that I have now.
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@hillhjill (23664)
• United States
26 Nov 18
@leny34 To tell you the truth, you really can't do much with straight hair, I got a perm on time and the next day it was straight again.
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
27 Nov 18
@hillhjill really ... yes I now don't want that anymore ... I will enjoy my hair as it is
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
26 Nov 18
wow good if your hair is straight, because i really want to have very straight hair like your hair
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
25 Nov 18
Hairdresser love people like you! People with curly hair want straight hair and people with straight hair want curly hair. Think of the money you save because you already have curly hair Btw, the way your hair falls is not as important as you think. People who get to know you will not concentrate on your hair but on your character-
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
26 Nov 18
yes indeed many say that to me, I also will not straighten my hair now because I am bored if I have to straighten my hair every month because it takes a lot of time and expenses ... thank you for your advice I am sure now with what I have now
@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
25 Nov 18
I really think that we should be happy with what we have and what we look like as that is what makes us.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
26 Nov 18
@leny34 I'm glad that you are rethinking the situation. By the way, you have beautiful hair and some would be jealous of your curls and some wish they would have any hair.
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
26 Nov 18
yes that's right, now I will think about it, and I don't want straight hair anymore
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
27 Nov 18
@1hopefulman yes thank you for your compliments, in my opinion my hair is not too good, because it is always messy sometimes and difficult to manage
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@wolfgirl569 (95225)
• Marion, Ohio
25 Nov 18
I would love to have some natural curl to my hair. But it is not meant to be.
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@wolfgirl569 (95225)
• Marion, Ohio
26 Nov 18
@leny34 No curl at all and it doesnt hold curl well either.
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
26 Nov 18
@wolfgirl569 I think it's very good if your hair is straight I like it very much
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
26 Nov 18
wow what if we just switch hair, LOL so are your hair straight?
@FayeHazel (40248)
• United States
26 Nov 18
Is that you in the photo? You're very pretty! Anyway I used to be like you, I have curly hair and wanted straight. Until I had my hair straightened once. It was alright - but it just didn't look like me. Now I lijke my curls
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@FayeHazel (40248)
• United States
26 Nov 18
@leny34 I think you're wise. Sometimes it is best to go with what you have naturally instead of fighting it
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
27 Nov 18
@FayeHazel maybe what you say is right, and from now on I will be proud of what I have now
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
26 Nov 18
Yes, this is my photo, I really want to have straight hair like them, but I don't think I want it anymore
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
25 Nov 18
That's common .we always prefer something we don't have .I also have curly hair ..I used to hate it In childhood ..but I'm happy with my curly hair now .
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
26 Nov 18
so you also want to have straight hair?
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
26 Nov 18
@leny34 no I don't want ..now I feel it as special trait I have :) from my father .
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
26 Nov 18
@Icydoll so you never want to have straight hair ...   I used to really want that but now I will be grateful for what I have now
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@rsa101 (37966)
• Philippines
26 Nov 18
Must have come from your ancestors that have the genes for curly hair. I think the hair is fine with you having it. You just need to maintain it every now and then so that it would not look disorganised.
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
26 Nov 18
yes, maybe so ... but all my brothers have straight hair, only me who has curly hair
• Philippines
26 Nov 18
I don’t get disappointed in everything I have. Your hair looks beautiful and you’re pretty.
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
26 Nov 18
yes but sometimes I really want to have straight hair like my friend
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@xstitcher (30309)
• Petaluma, California
26 Nov 18
I think your hair is pretty. :) I have wished I had a little more curl or wave to my hair.
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
26 Nov 18
really? Are your hair straight at this time?
@sallypup (57905)
• Centralia, Washington
25 Nov 18
I still have long, uncut hair even though I am no longer young. I've never thought about changing it; its just there.
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
26 Nov 18
yes maybe you have very straight hair?
@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
25 Nov 18
I have curly hair and always wanted straight here.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
2 Dec 18
@leny34 I buy hair products and use a flat iron to straighten it.
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
26 Nov 18
So what do you do to make your hair straight?
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@Teekaaa (11580)
• India
26 Nov 18
I still feel sad for my hair because I wanted to have a bouncy hair but mine is straight one :-(
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@Teekaaa (11580)
• India
26 Nov 18
@leny34 he he
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
26 Nov 18
@Teekaaa wouldn't it be better ...? ha ha ha.........
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
26 Nov 18
what if we exchange.? ..........LOL You want critical hair and I want straight hair
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
25 Nov 18
Yes it seems anyone wants a different style of hair than they are born with. Your hair is very pretty.
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
26 Nov 18
yes, I always jealous of my friends who have very straight hair and I tried to change my hair but it didn't get satisfactory results
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
25 Nov 18
My hair is curly and I love it very much. I never changed my hairstyle.
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
26 Nov 18
yes after I feel tired of my way to make my hair straight, I now give up and won't make my hair straight again
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
26 Nov 18
@Nevena83 indeed at this time I don't want to straighten my hair again, I will leave it like what I have
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
26 Nov 18
@leny34 You're very beautiful, you do not have to straighten your hair.
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@Hannihar (129481)
• Israel
26 Nov 18
@leny34 I understand what you are saying. I also have curly hair. When I was young I hated my curly hair and would straighten in and then grew up and really appreciated it and I love it now. So hopefully you will grow to love your curly hair.
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@Hannihar (129481)
• Israel
26 Nov 18
@leny34 Yes when I was very very young I hated my curly hair. Now, I could not live without it.
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
26 Nov 18
@Hannihar I also realize that now, what we have must be grateful for
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
26 Nov 18
yes I used to want straight hair, but for now I don't want it anymore how about you, have you ever wanted to have straight hair?
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@KarenAnne (257)
• United Kingdom
27 Nov 18
Whatever hair we have, we always want something else. Mine is straight except for a kink at the front which means I can never have a fringe (bangs) because if it is short it will always look uneven as if a maniac has cut it. I did have my hair permed (curled) a couple of times when I was younger. It was the fashion then but it isn't good for the hair and it ended up in quite bad condition and then I had to grow it out which took ages.
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
27 Nov 18
yes I also now don't want straight hair anymore, I will take care of my hair like this and I will let it even though I curl, I don't want to straighten it again
@Janet357 (75656)
26 Nov 18
My hair is kinda curly so i dont like it much.
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@Janet357 (75656)
26 Nov 18
@leny34 i just got my hair rebonded.
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
26 Nov 18
so do you also want straight hair, or do you make your hair straight?
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
26 Nov 18
@Janet357 yes I also did that but I feel bored because I have to rebonded every day
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• Philippines
26 Nov 18
I have wavy hair. I used to avail hair rebounding every year, but suddenly, I have realized I am wasting my money. So, I just ponytail my hair and do some hair treatment once a month.
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• Philippines
27 Nov 18
@leny34 Both. But hair rebounding is expensive. Plus, it can damage your hair.
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
26 Nov 18
so you prefer wavy hair than straight hair?
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
27 Nov 18
@freelancermariagrace yes right, I just realized that now, and now I don't want to do that anymore
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@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
26 Nov 18
A hair rebond is easy to get these days.
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
26 Nov 18
yes, but I don't want to always do that, because it can make a lot of time doing it and I'm tired of doing it
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@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
26 Nov 18
@leny34 Oh so at least you have experienced having straight hair.
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
27 Nov 18
@yoalldudes yes I've experienced that, but it's been a long time and now I don't want to make my hair straight again
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@nawala123 (20852)
• Indonesia
26 Nov 18
the women with straight hair want curly
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
26 Nov 18
yes they always want what they don't have ...   How about you?
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
26 Nov 18
@nawala123 yes maybe as a guy it would be very appropriate to have short hair because it would look neater with short hair
@nawala123 (20852)
• Indonesia
26 Nov 18
@leny34 i have very short hair, just one centimetre
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