Do you think that singing brings evil?

@Nevena83 I’m so sorry. That must be awful for you.

@Nevena83 Your son shouldn’t see that.

@DianneN Yes, it's very difficult. I'm tired of all this. Every day in my house is a fight, ugly words ... I have a son and I can not imagine that I behave like that to him. I am the most honest when he laughs, when I listen to music, I can not imagine criticizing him for it, it's not normal for me.

@Nevena83 wow I'm sorry to hear that.

@hillhjill Thank you for your understanding

She did not say that music was evil, but I was criticized for singing, as if I was doing something terrible. That's how it behaves even when I'm smiling.

I do not know, my mother always fights badly towards me when I sing, when I'm happy, when I laugh ... and when I'm sad, when I'm in the fight, she's calm.

@Nevena83 That means that the problem is not you, but your mother. Can you or a relative find out why your mother behaves like this? Has she had a hard life and is bitter now and jealous of you when you are happy?

@MALUSE My mother grew up without a parent in a family she did not know, she lived very hard, her entire life was fought, but I do not know if it's a question, because she behaves differently against men in the family, and different from me. Tonight she told me it would be okay for my son to sing, but not me. I asked her why it was normal to sing my child, not me. She had no answer. Even my brother is acting differently. And you've read about my father already. When I asked her why she did not react when my father was mistreating us and speaking ugly words .. she then heard.

@Nevena83 Nobody should stop you from achieving happiness, not even your family. I wish you mom would support your efforts to be happy.

That's wonderful. I love music and I like to sing, but my mom does not like me when I'm happy.

@moffittjc Thank you, but she will never do it, and I'm already tired of the experiment.

@Nevena83 Really!!?? She's your mother.A mother loves all her kids.She can even sacrifice herself to make her kids happy.And you say your mother does not want to see you happy.How is it possible ??

Thank you, she obviously does not like me to be happy.

@Shivram59 She only wants her son to be happy and, no matter how bad, she supports him.

@Nevena83 Maybe. Did you ever discuss it with her...maybe music and singing has a sad memory for your Mother. I think every Mother wants to see their children happy.

And I love music. But my mother does not want to see me happy.

@oahuwriter No, it does not have to do with music. My mother was always such to me, she always criticized me, she was never happy, if I were smiling, she would quickly make me cry ... But she was always different to my brother.

@Nevena83 Why does she think that singing is evil?

@1hopefulman She does not think that music is evil, but she just thinks I should not sing. He always criticizes me when I am well-behaved, so he does his entire life.

And so I think and I love music and I like to sing, but my mother always bothered me.

@Nevena83

I do not know, but definitely always behaves like he does not want to be happy.

@much2say

@Nevena83 I cannot understand why your mother reacts like this.

No, in the post I wrote that my mother always reacts badly to me when I'm smiling, when I sing ...

@LadyDuck The whole life so works. My brother is doing bad things and never sparked it, while I'm doing horrible things when I'm smiling or singing. He always rules the difference between us.

@Nevena83 Can't she see how miserable you are by her taking away what you really love to do?

@Hannihar She does not care about it, and my brother can be a loser, a liar, a criminal ... he will always have a justification for him

I do not know, my mother always acted like that to me. And I love music, I like to sing, but it's very bad for my mother, as if I'm doing bad things.

@Nevena83 Not at all. You are welcome.

Thank you for your understanding.

@WriterAI

@Nevena83 but my voice is horrible when i sing

@nawala123 It does not matter, it's important to sing

nomusic is the most beautiful thing

And I love music. Music makes me happy, but my mom does not like to see me happy.

@KOLAMsegaran1 That is very nice.

@Nevena83 My family really likes music, and they are very supportive

@Acefun Probably having the truth is that you said that if we do not react to the bad, that nice things will happen to us, but sometimes it is very difficult not to react to such things.

It was always like that to me. Whenever I asked her why she always behaved differently towards me, but to my brother, she always said that it was not so. She simply loved my brother.

@Nevena83 That is too bad. I have the same encounter too. My parents will keep quiet if my brother did say something wrong about me to them. Although my brother and parents did not say anything but I can feel they are having some secret conversations. I did not think much and react back, but just pretend nothing happen. I did not do anything wrong so God will not punish me. In our Chinese culture, it someone doing bad things at your back and you did not react back, they are helping you to reduce karma. Although it seems to be no scientific proven thing just hoping there will be something positive happen to me in future or after life. Think positive is the best way to solve your sadness about this. Probably you can be singer or part time singer in some occasion and earn some money. This is just my suggestion, probably you have a better work now. Cheers.

@Nevena83

No, it's not that. She just does not like to see me happy.

@SIMPLYD

@Nevena83 I'm sorry about that. I've been adopted by my Father in Heaven so I don't worry about what others think about what I enjoy. If it's not against God I will continue to do it.

And I believe that this is something that brings joy, but my mother does not think that, in fact, she just does not want to see me happy.

@LovingMyBabies You are right, but it's hard to live in a house with someone who's been hanging around your whole life and does not want to see you happy.

And I believe that music is something nice. But my mother does not mind music, but my luck.

@Nevena83 Me too.

@porwest

that is very nice. and I love music.

@Nevena83 yes. But you wouldnt believe it. I like music as old as my mom. Maybe she is a great influence on me when it comes to music.

@fluffy69 It's important that music is good and you like it.

do you like music?

@Nevena83 That is not good, we should all want to be happy.

And I love music and I sang in my room, but it always bothers me when I'm happy.

@CarolDM You're right. I am always happy when my child is happy, and she is happy only because of her son, and her whole life was stumbling around me and always criticized me.