I Put Him on a Diet Last Week!

@DianneN (247080)
United States
February 25, 2019 8:03am CST
My husband loves food and so do I. He used to be so thin, but blames my good cooking for his weight gain. I blame him for stopping off while out and about and “treating” himself to extra bites of food. He does work out and plays sports and keeps very active, but can’t gain weight on what I see him eat at home or when dining out. So.....last Monday I put him on a diet! Less of everything. No quiches, bruschetta, cheeses, potatoes, desserts, breads, and heavy unhealthy meats, etc. The good news is that he lost 8 pounds! I am so happy for him. I want him to be healthy and live a long, long time. Even better news, somehow I lost 7.2 pounds! If I can lose a couple of more pounds, I can buy a new wardrobe! . My gym shorts were too big this morning. And it’s odd that I’ve been the same weight my adult life, give or take a few. Are you within a healthy weight range?
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• Valdosta, Georgia
25 Feb 19
I am a healthy weight and don't have a need for losing any. Matter of fact when I do lose weight my face gets more thin than I can stand-I look "sickly". Ew! Lol.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
25 Feb 19
@DianneN Well thank you! =) As a child I was very chubby and always got made fun for it. Since my first pregnancy, I have always been thin as an adult and grateful for that. I could use some toning-not enough to worry about it though. Lol
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
25 Feb 19
You are very thin and trim from what I've seen of you. Lucky girl! When I lose a few pounds here and there, I lose it all over and my face has never looked too thin. YET! I better not lose much more weight! lol
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
25 Feb 19
@LovingMyBabies . I can't picture you being chubby, but kids or whomever made fun of you were brutal and not very nice. But you got the last laugh!!!
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@LadyDuck (458458)
• Switzerland
25 Feb 19
I have been more or less the same weight since I was 30, I am 4 pounds more now. My husband eats well, he now even asks for cakes and pastries that he never wanted to have and he is incredibly thin. The doctor said he is as healthy as a horse, I am envious.
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@LadyDuck (458458)
• Switzerland
25 Feb 19
@DianneN I have to watch my weight, I am so envious that he can eat anything without gaining an ounce. He tried on his wedding smoking ant it fits.
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
25 Feb 19
@LadyDuck Grrr to him!
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
25 Feb 19
He's a lucky man! And so are you! I always have to watch myself, because I don't want to turn into a blimp!
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@rebelann (111223)
• El Paso, Texas
26 Feb 19
Define healthy ...... I feel I'm of a healthy weight
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@rebelann (111223)
• El Paso, Texas
26 Feb 19
Oh lordy @DianneN I haven't bought zippered jeans in at least a decade, the ones with an elastic waist are much more comfy. Oh, and they fit too, a couple of them are a bit big but better big than too little.
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
26 Feb 19
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
26 Feb 19
Within the guidelines and if you can zip your jeans. lol
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
25 Feb 19
I'm currently trying to drop a few pounds, under instruction from Mrs. WorDazza. I'm not overweight by any means but I do tend to gather momentum in the weight department. If I let things slip and put on a few pounds I can easily fall into a "who cares" mentality and the few pounds becomes a few more pounds which becomes a few more pounds which... I'm nipping it in the bud!!
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
25 Feb 19
@DianneN I learned a long time ago that the best way to shut her up is to listen to her!!
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
25 Feb 19
@WorDazza . You are a very wise man!
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
25 Feb 19
That was my husband's mentality, but he stopped nipping it in the bud. Now he cares! You are very wise and keep listening to Mrs. WorDazza. Wives are never wrong!
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• United States
25 Feb 19
Good for both of you! It's good you are taking care of yourselves in your retirement years.
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
26 Feb 19
Thank you! You never know when we will asked to be extras in an HBO movie. lol
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
26 Feb 19
• United States
26 Feb 19
@DianneN LOL! True!!!
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@dya80dya (33622)
25 Feb 19
I am underweight. I don't need any diets.
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
25 Feb 19
No, you don't. My father was underweight his entire life, but dieted to gain weight. It didn't work.
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
25 Feb 19
@dya80dya I think his and your metabolisms are fast. Don't worry. Many people want to be thin like you without having to diet, and being thin is much healthier than being overweight.
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@dya80dya (33622)
25 Feb 19
@DianneN I wonder why it didn't work. I wish I could gain weight.
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@dodo19 (47082)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
25 Feb 19
Hey, I'm glad that he's been able to lose a bit of weight. Good for him. For me, my body doesn't seem to like to keep weight on. Whether I exercise or not, my body just finds a way to get right of it.
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@dodo19 (47082)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
25 Feb 19
@DianneN Lol. I'm sorry. Not trying to make anyone jealous. I'm glad that I'm not the only who is like me.
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
25 Feb 19
I don’t have a jealous bone in my body. Just keep being you - svelte! @dodo19
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
25 Feb 19
Thanks! I'm so glad he finally made up his mind. And you, don't make me jealous! I have to keep an eye on myself all the time. My dear daddy was like you. No matter how much he ate, he couldn't gain weight. They sent him away to camp for skinny people to gain weight for a summer in hopes he'd come home fatter, but no such luck. lol
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
25 Feb 19
Good food is so addictive but it can become a health hazard. Good that you are taking action to keep things in check.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
26 Feb 19
@DianneN All the best!
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
26 Feb 19
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
25 Feb 19
I agree! Thanks, Felix. It took a lot of coaxing, but he totally understands the situation.
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@much2say (53954)
• Los Angeles, California
25 Feb 19
I think I'm in a healthy weight range, though I am sure I weigh more than "before kids". But it's still "ok" - I'm just short and small, so I just might be getting away with it . Hubby on the otherhand can stand to lose a bit .
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@much2say (53954)
• Los Angeles, California
25 Feb 19
@DianneN Remember those skating clothes I said I couldn't let go of? I took a closer look this weekend . . . there's no way I'm going to squeeze into those body suits ever again (gawd was my waist actually that small back then ?) . . so I finally put them in the donation bag . I told Hubby (before he was Hubby) that he would put on weight if he stayed with me (just a funny, joking prediction - because we loved going out to eat). Well, til this day he always uses that against me - he says I was right . That's great your husband made the healthy decision!
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
25 Feb 19
@much2say I'm not much different from the weight I was when we got married. Well, a bit different, lol, but as we age our bodies seem to change for the worse. Clothes I wore a few years ago just don't look right anymore. I'm sorry you have to ditch your skating clothes. It must hurt to do so. Well, your husband can't hold that against you. He was warned. Thanks! I'm going to help my hubs in every way possible to stick to this.
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
25 Feb 19
I had no doubt that you would be in the healthy weight range with all the running around you do! My husband took a long time to decide to lose a bit, and it kept piling up. . This can take him a long time, but he's on the way!!!
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@wolfgirl569 (95349)
• Marion, Ohio
25 Feb 19
Glad to hear he lost weight. Taking the starches and sugars out of your diet can make a big difference.
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@wolfgirl569 (95349)
• Marion, Ohio
25 Feb 19
@DianneN Steadily losing a pound or so a week. Probably wont try a bikini this year But next year you never know
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@wolfgirl569 (95349)
• Marion, Ohio
25 Feb 19
@DianneN If you keep losing you might change your mind too
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
25 Feb 19
Thank you and I agree! How are you doing on your diet?
@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
25 Feb 19
Any excuse to go shopping! Women lol! How about some new gym shorts for him?
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
25 Feb 19
LOL! His belly is still big enough to hold his old ones up!
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• Valdosta, Georgia
25 Feb 19
@JohnRoberts Not all women-I HATE shopping!!
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
25 Feb 19
@LovingMyBabies John knows that I love shopping, but only when I'm not looking for something in particular.
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@Hannihar (129493)
• Israel
25 Feb 19
@DianneN Mazal Tov to the both of you. I want to lose more weight and then buy hopefully a jeans skirt that will not drag on the ground this summer hopefully.
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
25 Feb 19
You have to have the right mindset. I've been harping on my husband for a long time. When I told him I was concerned that he would get ill, he finally understood and decided to do something about it. I'm so glad he is making wiser health choices now. I hope you can do it, too!
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@Hannihar (129493)
• Israel
25 Feb 19
@DianneN Yes I understand. I finally at the age of 67 or 68 to lose the weight I needed to lose and still am not done.
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
25 Feb 19
@Hannihar It's never to late and good for you!!!
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
25 Feb 19
It's wonderful news, but both of you look beautiful in the pictures.
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
26 Feb 19
@Nevena83 I wouldn't mind losing another 3-5 pounds. Those are the most difficult to lose for me.
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
26 Feb 19
You are too sweet. We both could stand to lose a few pounds, especially my husband!
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
26 Feb 19
@DianneN That's good, do you still want to lose weight?
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@Beaser (385)
• United States
25 Feb 19
I don't know if I'm within a healthy weight range, but I did lose about 35 lbs last year. I paid more attention to what I was eating, watched my portion size, and only had one helping - no seconds. After the initial weight loss, I read up on the Keto Diet and decided to watch my carb intake. I'm not strict about following the keto rules, but I do watch the amount of carbs I take in.
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
25 Feb 19
Congratulations and good for you! Those carbs can cause havoc with our weight if we're not careful. Keep it up and kudos to you!!!!
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
25 Feb 19
@Beaser Wow! Well good for you, and now I know why you don't jog. I'm sure you'll do very well keeping that weight off.
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@Beaser (385)
• United States
25 Feb 19
@DianneN - Thank you Dianne. I wasn't really trying to lose weight. I had knee replacement surgery and I think the pain meds helped reduce my apatite. Then once I was up and moving again, I had to use more of my body to walk so that may have helped also. Whatever it was, I've lost a bunch of weight and I intend to keep it off.
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@Missmwngi (12927)
• Nairobi, Kenya
25 Feb 19
Waooh keep up and before you know it the two of you will have lost enough
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@Missmwngi (12927)
• Nairobi, Kenya
25 Feb 19
@DianneN Ha haa i get you
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
25 Feb 19
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
25 Feb 19
I'm just along for the ride. . Thanks.
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@just4him (306523)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
25 Feb 19
That's totally awesome. Sounds like my diet. I'm working on it. I checked my weight this morning and I'm happy to say, I'm going down again. I've lost three pounds in the last week, so almost where I was when I had lost a total of 37 last year. Only two pounds to go to that goal again, then down I go for that last 100 pounds.
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
25 Feb 19
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
25 Feb 19
Good for you! I know he won't be losing as fast as he did this week. It's all water weight, but it IS a very nice impetus to keep going. He will have to make wiser choices when we eat out, but has already started, so that's a huge plus. Keep up the good work Val!!!!
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@just4him (306523)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
25 Feb 19
@DianneN That's great he's making wise choices in eating out. Thank you.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
25 Feb 19
Congrats to both on losing.
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
25 Feb 19
Yes, thanks!
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
25 Feb 19
@DianneN welcome!!
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
25 Feb 19
Glad you are both staying healthy. Yes I am at the normal range.
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
25 Feb 19
Thanks. We try. Glad you are in the normal range, too.
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
25 Feb 19
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
25 Feb 19
@DianneN Yes I have never had a weight problem thankfully.
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@didinedhia (8475)
• Algeria
25 Feb 19
you are so nice! take care of your husband
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
26 Feb 19
Thank you! I’m trying my best! lol
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
26 Feb 19
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• Algeria
26 Feb 19
@DianneN really sweet
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25 Feb 19
No I'm not trying hard to lose this extra weight I just had a a baby boy.
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
25 Feb 19
Congratulations! Your weight will come off naturally running around with a brand new baby boy!
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@DianneN (247080)
• United States
25 Feb 19
25 Feb 19
@DianneN yes it will thank you
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