This Isn't What I Signed Up For

@just4him (306853)
Green Bay, Wisconsin
September 6, 2020 9:10am CST
When I started on this road to better health and weight loss four years ago so I could lose weight and get my knee replacement surgeries, I didn't realize it would be so awesome and limiting at the same time. Right now, I should be at church waiting for the service to start. Instead, I'm here and soon I'll be on FB for the online service. Why? I got a stack of papers in the mail yesterday from the Orthopedic and when I got to really reading it last night, right on the first page it says I can't go anywhere now except for essentials and medical appointments. They don't want me exposed to COVID-19. I can understand that, but it just doesn't seem right to limit everything I do. I sent my pool buddy a message letting her know I won't be at the pool next week. I was hoping for at least one more week in the pool. The good thing about this isolation is that I'll have a lot more time to work on Vendetta. I might even get my notifications caught up. I'm behind again. At least by Christmas, I'll have a new pair of knees and hopefully, I'll be pain-free too. Someone at the pool told me it will take up to a year before it's fully healed. I've also been told by those who had the surgery how great they feel after they had it done. I want that to be my story too. How great I feel when it's done. Okay, that's my tiff for today. I promise the rest will be all positive. What's happening in your life you didn't sign up for? Thanks for reading. The image belongs to me. This is me when I started this health journey to get where I am today with knee replacement two weeks away.
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@DianneN (247191)
• United States
6 Sep 20
It does take a while for knee replacements to heal. I have a friend who went through it, but she's back skiing. I'm sure you won't be out and about too much afterwards, so no worries about covid.
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@DianneN (247191)
• United States
6 Sep 20
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@just4him (306853)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
6 Sep 20
I'm sure I won't either. I was hoping it would be business as usual before the surgery. Good to know she's back skiing. How was it yesterday on the paddleboard?
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@LadyDuck (458890)
• Switzerland
7 Sep 20
Well, I can understand very well that doctors do not want to put at risk other patients. As the incubation of the virus is 14 days, this is a legitimate request from them. It's not to restrain your freedom, it is to protect themselves and the other patients.
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@LadyDuck (458890)
• Switzerland
7 Sep 20
@just4him My husband has a test the next month and I am sure they are going to ask him not to go inside stores or other places before going to the hospital. They will surely also perform a quick Covid test, it takes 15 minutes.
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@just4him (306853)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
7 Sep 20
@LadyDuck I'm sure he'll be all right. I'm glad the test doesn't take long.
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@just4him (306853)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
7 Sep 20
Yes, I'm aware of that. It just feels restrictive.
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@Torunn (8609)
• Norway
6 Sep 20
If there's a lot of new infections in your area, I can understand their consern. The average incubation time is 5-6 days, isn't it? So with two weeks you should be pretty sure you don't have anything, no normal flu either. My biggest problem right now is that the weather is good but I've got some work to do. I'm not sure if other nationalities face this problem the same way as we do here, but being inside when the weather is good is really not something you'd boast about. *glares at sun* I could work a bit and then go for a walk ...
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@just4him (306853)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
6 Sep 20
Going for a walk sounds like an awesome idea. I hope you can. It's pretty tame here as far as COVID is concerned.
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@Torunn (8609)
• Norway
6 Sep 20
@just4him A marching band just walk past in the street, I should have joined them :-) Not a lot of COVID around here, a bit too much further south. Not sure what they're up to, but the capital's been a problem since March.
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@just4him (306853)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
6 Sep 20
@Torunn I'm glad it's not bad where you live.
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@tammys85 (29952)
• Baltimore, Maryland
9 Sep 20
You don't have to promise anything; you have every right to vent if you need to. I'm really sorry they've limited your activities because of the pandemic. :( At least once things really move forward, you'll feel much better!
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@tammys85 (29952)
• Baltimore, Maryland
16 Sep 20
@just4him Good! I wish you a healthy and speedy recovery throughout the whole thing.
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@just4him (306853)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
16 Sep 20
@tammys85 Thank you.
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@just4him (306853)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Sep 20
Yes, I will and that's what I'm really looking forward to.
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@FayeHazel (40246)
• United States
7 Sep 20
YOu've come a long way. Oh! My mom had her hip replaced. They tell joint replacement people to be really careful about infections and the like. And that was before the pandemic. I know it's not the same, but online fitness classes have helped me greatly through all this. If it's hard to do some of them, I found some seated exercises on youtube free last year when my knee was bothering
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@just4him (306853)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
7 Sep 20
Thank you. I'm glad your mom did well with her hip replacement. I got my fitness goals taken care of today. I'd rather walk outside, but that's not an option.
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@just4him (306853)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
7 Sep 20
@FayeHazel No, I'm stuck inside. I can get groceries and do my laundry like during the lockdown. Essentials, but that's it. I'll be out of the apartment for quite a while tomorrow. I have a hospital appointment and I'm doing groceries afterward. I should do laundry, we'll see what happens. I can wait until Friday if necessary.
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@FayeHazel (40246)
• United States
7 Sep 20
@just4him Ah good about your fitness goals. They don't want you even outside?
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@florelway (23159)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
15 Sep 20
Wishing you will have a full recovery soon and can go back to normal activities.
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@just4him (306853)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
15 Sep 20
Thank you. My first surgery is Monday.
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@just4him (306853)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
16 Sep 20
@florelway Thank you.
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@florelway (23159)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
16 Sep 20
@just4him wishing for a successful surgery. God bless.
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@agent807 (751)
• United States
8 Sep 20
My mom just had her right knee replaced a few days ago. It is hard to tell the difference it makes in not having so much pain while everything will have to regain strength. In the end, you and she will feel much better in not having to deal with the pain. I went through a right hip replacement six years ago and the pain difference was immediate. It was hard to walk at first but the physical therapy help get back to 'normal'- if you call being Superman normal. Don't worry, the pain from the knee will be instantly gone. You will almost forget how bad things were before the surgery. From my experience the therapy is to help the muscles get back to normal from being moved and stretched during surgery. Good luck.
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@just4him (306853)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
8 Sep 20
Thank you. I'm really looking forward to it. I hope your mom's knee heals quickly.
@marlina (154165)
• Canada
7 Sep 20
A pain-free knee would be a lovely Christmas gift.
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@just4him (306853)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
7 Sep 20
Yes, it would.
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@moffittjc (118539)
• Gainesville, Florida
7 Sep 20
I'm so proud of you! You've come such a long way over the past few years! Keep up the great work, even on the days where you don't think you are getting any results. It's a slow and steady marathon, not a sprint race, and right now you are doing great and taking the lead!
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@just4him (306853)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
7 Sep 20
Thank you for the encouragement. Yes, when I see that picture, I know I'm doing well.
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@JESSY3236 (18955)
• United States
8 Sep 20
Sorry you can't go anywhere. I do understand why they say that. I would be disappointed too,
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@just4him (306853)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
8 Sep 20
Thank you. It feels like lockdown all over again.
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@Elizaby (6901)
• Pensacola, Florida
7 Sep 20
That is a bummer for you that you can't to the pool again til after your second surgery. Hope you still take walks outside especially in the early part of the day when you are less likely to run into people
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@just4him (306853)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
7 Sep 20
There's no guarantee I won't run into people, so that's out, but I'm still exercising, so all's good.
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@Hannihar (129524)
• Israel
7 Sep 20
@just4him I guess there is one thing about it that you can work on your book. I hope you will be pain free and you are doing really great on your journey. This was your post and what is going on in my life is the same thing that I have been dealing with so do not want to continue repeating myself.
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@just4him (306853)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
7 Sep 20
Yes, I'll have time to work on my book.
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@Hannihar (129524)
• Israel
7 Sep 20
@just4him That is good.
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
6 Sep 20
I understand their concerns and for your health, just abide by them. I hope that the knee replacement can be done as soon as you require it and it heals faster than you expect it. Happy Sunday
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@just4him (306853)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
6 Sep 20
The first knee replacement is the 21st of this month. I hope it heals fast too. Thank you.
@just4him (306853)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Sep 20
@aureliah Yes, He is. Thank you.
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
12 Sep 20
@just4him It will. God is in control and I'm wishing you well.
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• Rupert, Idaho
7 Sep 20
Oh wow, that would be frustrating to have to be so limited.....but I guess it does make sense that they don't want you exposed to that. Christmas will be here before we know it!
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@just4him (306853)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
7 Sep 20
Yes, it's understandable. Yes, it will. I have my book to keep me occupied.
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@just4him (306853)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Sep 20
@MommyOfEli2013 Yes, I do.
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• Rupert, Idaho
9 Sep 20
@just4him Still frustrating I am sure, but that is good you have that to keep you occupied.
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@GardenGerty (157652)
• United States
6 Sep 20
Hubby is not feeling really well this morning. We are not going to church. I will catch it on FB. I will stay home and "do stuff". Look at how much you have changed while working on your overall health! Yes, it does take time to completely heal from any surgery. I have never had knee or hip replacement, just a joint in one toe. It did take it quite some time for swelling to go down, like two years for me to be able to wear the size shoe I had before. I think that was because I had to walk on it. You will do great. You are good at following instructions. All the best to you. Look at the isolation as time to work on other things.
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@just4him (306853)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
6 Sep 20
I'm sorry your hubby isn't feeling well this morning. I hope he feels better soon. I hope the online service was good. My associate pastor spoke on walking in the Spirit. I'm sure walking on it made it take longer to heal. Thank you. Yes, I'll be working on Vendetta.
@wolfgirl569 (95596)
• Marion, Ohio
7 Sep 20
You will keep busy and the time will pass fast.
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@just4him (306853)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
7 Sep 20
Yes, I'll be busy. I hope it does.
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@JudyEv (326094)
• Rockingham, Australia
7 Sep 20
I'm surprised they are only keeping you in hospital for one day. Will someone help you with physical therapy after the operation?
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@just4him (306853)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
7 Sep 20
Yes. I'll be at my son's for a couple of days before I return home. I will have therapy several times a week. I'll know more next week. I have appointments almost every day.
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@Courtlynn (66918)
• United States
6 Sep 20
So sorry to hear that, but anything for painfree knees right
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@just4him (306853)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
6 Sep 20
Thank you. Yes.
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@NJChicaa (116106)
• United States
6 Sep 20
You've done so well!
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@just4him (306853)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
6 Sep 20
Thank you.
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• India
6 Sep 20
Sorry about it but what to do when government decides on these guidelines and protocol
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@just4him (306853)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
6 Sep 20
It's not the government, it's the doctor. Nothing I can do but abide by their instructions.
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