Happy Singles
By Kandase
@Kandae11 (53677)
May 2, 2022 9:33am CST
Are you a happy single or a happy married person ? Both are good places to be, depending on the circumstances and what your desire is.
I was married, am presently single and plan to remain that way. What l have discovered is that l am a loner at heart.
I like my own company, my own space. I can do things in my own time -- sleep when l want , eat when l want, wear what l want, go anywhere l want.
Not saying that l might not get married again, but my spouse and l will have separate bedrooms and bathroom. Right now l am a happy single. What are you?
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18 responses
@averygirl72 (37732)
• Philippines
3 May 22
I learn to accept being single. I just think of myself. I don't have a husband to please. I don't have children to please. I have more time for myself
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@averygirl72 (37732)
• Philippines
3 May 22
@Kandae11 I think it is still a blessing being single. You have lesser responsibilities
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@sabtraversa (12972)
• Italy
2 May 22
I'm in a relationship. I'm totally fine with being alone, until I develop a crush towards someone. 
Being an introvert, I still need to have my own space and enjoy my own company.
Being an introvert, I still need to have my own space and enjoy my own company.2 people like this
@sabtraversa (12972)
• Italy
2 May 22
@Kandae11 I can prove I'm truly being on my own and not around cheating, if necessary. 
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
2 May 22
I'm happily single, thank you.
I will admit that Pretty doesn't always let me sleep in as late as I want or dress the way I want, but she thinks she's "helping" me. *shrug*
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
2 May 22
@Kandae11 I'd miss her if she moved out....
I made homemade rolls and chicken salad yesterday. She ate some of the rolls and stuck her nose up about the chicken salad. (I told her she could make her own dinner, then. 
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@Kandae11 (53677)
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2 May 22
@DaddyEvil. I know, you're accustomed to her being there. I know l will miss my son.
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@Marilynda1225 (79832)
• United States
2 May 22
It's doubtful that at my age I would marry again but I do agree on the separate bathrooms (not sure about the bedrooms). Space is important and I can see why you would desire yours if you were to marry again.
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@Marilynda1225 (79832)
• United States
3 May 22
@Kandae11after being in an abusive marriage I can see why you space is important to you. I would feel the same way you do especially about the "being watched" all the time. I"m glad you are out of that now
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@Kandae11 (53677)
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2 May 22
After my previous marriage l can't bear the thought of being crowded, my every move watched - even when l go to the bathroom. I like your response to @snowy22315, it was just right.
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@snowy22315 (170176)
• United States
2 May 22
I am not thrilled to be currently single, and hope I don't have to remain that way. The only thing with being a loner is that t is lonely. I do enjoy my alone time, but I miss having others to talk to.
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@Marilynda1225 (79832)
• United States
2 May 22
@snowy22315 I can see where it would be lonely without other people to talk to. I'm fortunate that my daughter lives with me but I also like living in my community as there's always something to see and I don't feel isolated. Even if I go out for the mail there's usually someone passing by to say hello to. I know you've mentioned moving and maybe the next place you'll make some friends and find Mr Right
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@much2say (53952)
• Los Angeles, California
2 May 22
I am happily married. We weren't married the first 15 years, so we lived "single" individual lives though we were together. Now we are a family, but during the day all of us are doing our own thing (work/school/home), so I guess we get alone time as well as together time.
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@RebeccasFarm (86774)
• United States
2 May 22
I am at peace as I was so brutalized with the last one, I never could settle again with anyone.
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@RebeccasFarm (86774)
• United States
2 May 22
@Kandae11 Yes I realize you did too Kandase thanks and I admire your tenacity and hope.
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@jobelbojel (34731)
• Philippines
4 May 22
@Kandae11 Yes, that's the important thing.
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@FourWalls (62254)
• United States
2 May 22
Very happily single. I agree with you. There’s a meme on Facebook that says, “If you’re looking for someone to make you happy you’re looking at the wrong person.”
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@DesirousDreamer (34783)
• Peoria, Arizona
2 May 22
I like being in a relationship, but right now I am single and I want to stay that way until I know that I am ready to be in a relationship again. A lot of my relationships ended very messy, so I rather just not deal with that and focus on my work!
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@DesirousDreamer (34783)
• Peoria, Arizona
3 May 22
@Kandae11 Indeed, until them I will just live in a day dream haha
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@quantum2020 (12040)
• Ciudad De Mexico, Mexico
3 May 22
I"m single and I" be like this for around 15 years but I"m open to possibilities. Living independently is a way of life and being in a relation is another way of like; not are good to try
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@porwest (78759)
• United States
11 May 22
I am happily married, but one thing I have long said is that I will never remarry. Not that I don't enjoy marriage, but my heart belongs to only one person and that's my wife. Even if we divorced, she would still be that one person reserved for such a thing as marriage.
