Anti-bucket list, what is something you never, ever want to do again?

I never want to bury a child again and I never want to go through a divorce again, there are many things I don’t want to experience again but these are at the top of the list.

I think your list is a good one. I know I will not live in the place I grew up ever again (too much crime & heartbreak), I hope to never be sued again, never go back to college, and I hope I never try to get my sister to love me like I have in the past (I need to accept she’s content with being acquaintances). The last one makes me sad, but at least she gave me two nieces and a nephew that welcome any and all love possible.

I never want to get a colonscopy again. I will swallow a camera, maybe even do a stool test, but not have someone stick tubing up me again, and the prep is almost as bad.

There are a few things I do not want to do again: I never, ever want to go under the Gotthard tunnel again. I never want to be on a Cruise ship again I never want to be caught again in a snow storm and wait 8 hours to be rescued

Now what did NYC my hometown ever do to you? I know it can be big and scary just wondering what happened to you, Bury my dad twice, losing my husband and soul mate again, have the minor operations I have had, having a stillborn baby, and some other nasties I cannot all remember now. Thank you for the suggestion @1creekgirl

Marriage! never again . My one nightmare experience has turned me off for good.

Oh, there are just too many to mention. Never work retail, never work fast food, never have a child's bad choices break my heart. No delivery jobs for me either.

My list keeps on changing when I remember something else. Right now, the only thing I can remember was the last conversation with my daughter.

That is a pretty long list. I have a few I never want to go about the way I did when it came to relationships. I never want to be over sensitive - that cost me quite a bit of emotional upheaval I will never shun household chores..............

I hate arguments and will often give in because I don't feel up to arguing. I don't want to ever go to court again but will do that one if I have to. (Eight years in a divorce court with two ex-wives and two more years getting custody of Pretty.) I was also taken to court by a company that was trying to cheat me. Thankfully, I won that easily. I'm scared of heights but felt safe enough when a friend took me up in a twin-engine plane he was flying. I never want to go up in a helicopter again. Especially not with a pilot who thought it was funny to pretend to dump me out to amuse other people. (We were all wearing safety harnesses but I'd told him before we got into the helicopter that I was scared of heights.) I prefer not to look out windows in high-rise buildings. I prefer not to climb on a mountain. (Looking down from a height makes me dizzy and I almost fell when we climbed a mountain my sister in Arkansas owns.) I hate driving in traffic in a bigger city. Springfield and Joplin Missouri are okay as long as I have an address I can give my GPS. City drivers are nuts! I got stuck in traffic in Los Angeles when Pretty was around 7 years old. I managed okay on side streets but don't want to take a major highway if I need to find an exit in the city. (I also didn't have a GPS at the time and was trying to navigate with a folding map.) I never want to navigate from a map again! The GPS can still give me wrong directions but it will correct me when it discovers the mistake. I don't ever want surgery again. (I had my appendix our in 4th grade and had carpal tunnel surgery about twenty years ago.) The eye doctor had Pretty convinced that surgery on my eyes (On my eyes, not the flesh around my eyes that swells up.) would "fix" the swelling that seals them shut for days at a time. I just stopped arguing with her and refuse to go to that doctor again. She can't drive so can't force me, no matter how much she screams at me. That's enough from me although I'm sure I could think of more things if I tried. After reading your list again, I will add burying my first son was the hardest thing I've ever lived through and hope never live long enough to bury my other son or Pretty.

Really good question. Yes, I have my bucket list. Let's see if I can list a few never ever again happenings. I've had a bad relationship. I never want another one. I never want to go through another divorce. Also, part of the bad relationship. Once was enough. I never want to cause trouble for those I love.

I would never visit New York City again due to the crime problems in that city. I also would never take up a delivery job that requires me to drive my own auto.

I never want to ride a rollercoaster again, I never want to deal with extreme heights again. I

I would never want to see anyone die in front of me. I just can't bear the pain. I lead a routine life which I would not want anyone to disturb. I don't want my belongings to be stolen again as I have already been robbed of my valuables and would never want bad neighbours which I have.

I don't blame you for all that is on your list! I never want to go through a pandemic ever, ever again. I never want to go through the hurtful endings of certain friendships. I never want to go through the family stresses I had in my life. I never want to go through the days of my wishy-washiness. I never want to go through a chemically toxic work environment. And I'm sure there are plenty more to add .

I do not want to deal with family relations on both sides

Those are some good (meaning bad) things on your list. I never want to have my identity stolen again. It was stolen when I was in college, and it put me through years of hell trying to restore my credit and good name. I never want to have my credit card number stolen or hacked. Or my bank account.

Silly me. First thing that came to mind for me: I do not want to get on a Ferris wheel again. I never want to spend a Fall and Winter nursing a dog, knowing we'd have to lose her in the Spring.

@MarieCoyle - I NEVER want to go skydiving! I'm not even sure I would be comfortable in a hot-air balloon. I have heard about some terrible accidents. I went zip-lining once, and that was scary enough. I guess I like having my feet firmly on the ground, as much as possible!

Burn my foot. I know that's probably not the type of thing you were looking for. But I don't want to ever burn my foot ever again. When I was a kid the fam were with a group of people at the beach on the naval base in Coronado and they made pork chops on the grill. I went over to get another one and somebody in a nearby site decided to bury hot coals in the sand and I stepped in it. 1st, 2nd and 3rd degree burns and almost had to have skin grafts. I was probably 8 at the time. To this day I can't imagine what kind of a moron would think it would be a good idea to bury hot coals in the sand.