The myLot discussion forum is not for discussing other members here past or present.

October 5, 2025 8:25am CST
This includes responses and comments. If you want to ask questions of other members about other members do it in a PM where I cannot see it. The myLot discussion forum is not for discussing other members.
It has recently been brought to my attention that some users here have chosen to begin discussing other users, by name, quite often in a derogatory manner, in...
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@LadyDuck (484490)
• Italy
5 Oct
I am going to suggest your discussion.
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@vandana7 (102426)
• India
5 Oct
Thanks Anna.
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@LadyDuck (484490)
• Italy
5 Oct
@vandana7 You are welcome, I thought better to let the others know. We are here from so long that we forget the guidelines.
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@Fleura (32792)
• United Kingdom
5 Oct
Thank you @LadyDuck
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@Juliaacv (54918)
• Canada
5 Oct
Good point brought forth. It is a shame that it has been such a short time since your previous post regarding this. There are some cliches here that are intimidating, hopefully this post will resonate with those members.
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@rebelann (114820)
• El Paso, Texas
6 Oct
I remember reading that rule when I signed on years ago but it stated simply that no one was allowed to post derogatory or malicious content about another member.
@celticeagle (180381)
• Boise, Idaho
5 Oct
Thank you @LadyDuck for directing this to me.
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@celticeagle (180381)
• Boise, Idaho
6 Oct
@LadyDuck .......It was and I appreciate it.
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@LadyDuck (484490)
• Italy
6 Oct
I thought it was better to let people know.
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@May2k8 (18933)
• Indonesia
5 Oct
that's the reason why it got deleted and thanks to @LadyDuck for suggesting me here.
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@LadyDuck (484490)
• Italy
5 Oct
You are welcome, now we know.
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@RebeccasFarm (95809)
• Arvada, Colorado
5 Oct
Dang gossips, what are they doing now?
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@rebelann (114820)
• El Paso, Texas
6 Oct
If only there weren't those Harriet types around In the 14 years I've been here I've never gotten to see those kinds of posts ....... I wooda reported them if I had ....... but I have seen some that let everyone know about a well liked member passing away which I know admin wouldn't object to. Does this mean my chair can rest easy now cuz ya can't make fun of it anymore??
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@FourWalls (79225)
• United States
5 Oct
Oh, rats, someone talking about me again? And I didn’t get to corroborate things? Seriously, there’s a vast difference in genuine concern (such as late last year/early this year when Linda Ohio’s husband passed away) and malicious gossip. When Linda came back I deleted the discussion about her. And “I wonder if (whomever) is okay” is not the same as saying “that lowlife brat.”
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@LindaOHio (202461)
• United States
5 Oct
I will do my best not to ask about a member that has disappeared; and will only post if someone has passed away.
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@rebelann (114820)
• El Paso, Texas
6 Oct
If we don't ask about someone whose disappeared how would we know they passed?
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@LindaOHio (202461)
• United States
7h
@rebelann Sometimes people get notified through Facebook.
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@porwest (108691)
• United States
6 Oct
@rebelann Precisely. lol
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@RasmaSandra (89556)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
5 Oct
Understood and noted. Thank you for the suggestion @rebelann1949.
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@rebelann (114820)
• El Paso, Texas
6 Oct
You are welcome.
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@Kandae11 (56837)
5 Oct
Good to be kept up to date with the Mylot rules and regulations. Thank you @ Lady Duck for suggesting this post.
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@LadyDuck (484490)
• Italy
5 Oct
You are welcome, I am sure that many thought it was normal to post to ask about other members.
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@SIDIKIMPOLE (2576)
• Eldoret, Kenya
5h
Very well understood. Thanks Admin.
@cabuyogty (4437)
• Philippines
5 Oct
Okay! Copy noted Admin @GoAskAlice
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