Searching for Mr. Right seems like forever

Philippines
December 10, 2006 5:56am CST
Searching for my Mr. Right has made me feel more alone as before. It has almost been forever. Love lost, love found, fling here and there but still no Mr. Right. Is it really that hard to find the right someone? Or my expectations are just too high? Do i Blame myself for this? I think i should not. It is not the mere body that must be satisfied but the the two elements that bring about the true love for someone. He must satisfy my sensual and thus must also quench my intellectual needs. Yes, let love thy will be done!
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61 responses
• United Arab Emirates
17 Dec 06
ahan well dats sad...wht can i say besides...best of luck...i dono ur a guy or a girl...but good things take time...so better wait....and see...and wait for the right moments!
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• Philippines
21 Jan 07
I hope that the good thing would be really good because it seems ages to find the right person. My standards are not that high. A simple person who would love and appreciate me and would continue to do so as time goes by.
@pusiket (1756)
• Philippines
11 Dec 06
Is Mr. Right should be search? I personally believes that it comes in unexpected time and that if it is really meant to be.
• Philippines
21 Dec 06
Thank you for your response. Maybe all I have to do is to watch and wait for him to come unexpectedly as you say.
• United States
11 Dec 06
Nobody is perfect, nor Mr.Right 100%. Also, you cannot look. It must just happen. So, just live each day, and see what happens. Go to places that interest you, and improve the chances of meeting someone there.
• United States
12 Dec 06
It will happen when you least expect it. I found my Mr.Right when I needed a pair of glasses, as he was the optician. I was not looking for him. We became friends first. We are now married 30 years, and very much in love still. Just hang on, it will happen.
• Philippines
12 Dec 06
Thank you very much for your response to my post and more power to you. I know for a fact that Mr. Right is no close to being perfect and I really don't expect him to be or else I would be looking for a God. I simply just looking for and waiting for a simple person whom I could see myself living with each day in this lifetime. Saying good night and kissing him goodmorning everyday.
• India
12 Dec 06
well one can never find mr. right. its how u 2 live which makes ur relationship right
• India
14 Dec 06
u'll find someone
• Philippines
12 Dec 06
Thank you for your response to my post. Well before I start to think about living with someone, it should come first that I find a person to actually live with. I need an actual person to try to live with and try to find out if he's my Mr. Right.
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@treblem (316)
• Philippines
11 Dec 06
chances are, u will b left tired of looking. why not just enjoy every moment of ur life. sooner or later, u will find that he's there after all u just haven't noticed he is around. have a pleasant day!!!
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• Philippines
13 Dec 06
I don't think I would be that tired of searching or waiting for my Mr. Right. I am a very optimistic person and I do believe in happy endings. Although I do hope that before this Christmas season ends, I would finally meet him and share this Christmas with him. Thanks again and mor power to you guys. God bless you all.
@lauczi (962)
• Poland
10 Dec 06
i guess u just look for him to much. maybe its just not ur time. i was searching too and foun nothing, when i stopped he came to me. i hope u dont do like finding no matter who and wishing he is mr. right. it wont work. and true! be severe, dont be satisfy with anything. dont be in rush that will scare mr right ;). he will find u, and u live ur life right now and make urself happy.
• Philippines
11 Dec 06
I guess the thing is i must not look for Mr. Right...they say that someday and somehow he will find me, the least time that i expect him to. Im really not in a rush but it would be nice to finally meet him. I hope i would feel the way i felt with my former love. Good luck to you. By the way have you found yours?
@lauczi (962)
• Poland
12 Dec 06
yes i have! ^^
• Philippines
13 Dec 06
That is so nice to hear that you have found your Mr. Right. Good for you! I do hope that I would join you someday in being with my Mr. Right. It's so nice to wake up with someone to kiss you goodmorning!
@spoiled311 (5500)
• Philippines
11 Dec 06
i really don't believe about searching for ms. or mr. right...if it's the right time, it comes...i believe God, Himself, leads us to the right person..:) He makes all things beautiful "in His time"...
• Philippines
12 Dec 06
Well I do believe in God as well and I know that he would eventually lead me to the right person or maybe he may have other plans. Nonetheless, I do believe that somewhere out there I will soon find my Mr. Right.
@dexterous21 (1180)
• Philippines
11 Dec 06
There is no such person as MR Right. If you really believe that he is the right person for you in nay aspect than you can consider him as MR RIGHT.
• Philippines
21 Dec 06
Really? It contradicts? I hope you know how to read between my lines. I repeat, there is no MR RIGHT! It is you who consider him MR RIGHT. How can a statement become contradictory if the statement is conditional?
@charmness (124)
• China
11 Dec 06
Good luck to you! Don`t worry about finding your Mr. Right. The God will give you Mr. Right in someday.
• Philippines
12 Dec 06
Thank you for the encouraging response to my post. I do hope that someday God would permit me to find the right person who would love me and make me happy as I will also love him and make him happy as we journey this lifetime.
• Philippines
13 Dec 06
you're not alone, i'm also having hard times in searching for mr. right...
• Philippines
13 Dec 06
Thank you for your response. It's actually nice to hear that someone shares my boat. I do hope that we would find him soon. you'll never know he might just show himself this Christmas!
• United States
11 Dec 06
STOP looking, focus on yourself and he will come to you, at least that is what has happened with me each time I have look for the infamous Mr. Right
• Philippines
12 Dec 06
Well I guess I just have to wait for him to come to me. Thank you for you response to my post and more power to you. I am quite focused with myself as of now and maybe that's why my defenses are just high for me to recognize who of them could be my Mr. Right. Some say that he could just be right under my nose all the while.
• India
14 Dec 06
look for a heart - look for a heart
dont look here and there because no one is perfect in this world,look for a beautiful heart.
• Philippines
16 Dec 06
I know that nobody's perfect. I just looking for that certain someone right for me. I do hope though that he has a good heart and good looks as well.
• United States
10 Dec 06
The person you should love most is yourself. You should become your own best friend and achieve self-contentment. You will always be with you. You are presuming that a "Mr. Right" exists. You are presuming that such a Mr. Right will accommodate your satisfaction. Focus on getting your own life together. Earn your education and career goals and satisfy your own happiness. Then, invite others to join you for the ventures ahead.
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
10 Dec 06
yep. love yourself first. set your priorities straight. reach your goals. wait for the right time... and he will just arrive when you least expect it.
• Philippines
11 Dec 06
Self contentment is the hardest thing to have...one can never be fully contented of what he has...though i count myself lucky than others and i do love myself. I had my taste of money, power, glamour...yet still un contented. I found myself happier with someone even with all the money power and glamour gone. I would like to venture life not alone but with someone i love and enjoy to be with everyday, day in day out.
@nhelyma (181)
• Philippines
12 Dec 06
hey...i just wanna ask how can i get money from this site..??? i already sign up in ikobo...Mr. right is just an illussion....
• Philippines
12 Dec 06
Well I just joined yesterday and i actually earned $0.47 for my first day. I live in the Philippines and we also don't have paypal here so I tried signing up for I-kobo. I-kobo I think will send you a debit card as soon as you hit a certain amount of pay out. Some members say that it is $20. Well regariding Mr. Right I know he's just there somewhere contrary to what you say that he does not exist. I know that somewhere out there is my Mr. Right. Anyway I would like to wish you luck here in Mylot and I do hope we all earn money here!
@jsteine2 (192)
• United States
11 Dec 06
I think that the reason you can't find Mr. Right is because you look like a dude.
• United States
11 Dec 06
ROFLMAO.... well dudes CAN and DO look for other dudes!!!! lol I was wondering the same thing though... is it a girl or a guy writing it? lol... thanks for the laugh!
• India
11 Dec 06
you are correct in the sense that Mr. right should satisfy you mentally more than physically. but i think either your mental requirement are too high and you are searching in the wrong circles, or you will simply have to wait & watch. sometimes its also good to forget all expectations and like a man just for friendship. you never know, friendship can also turn to love
• Philippines
14 Dec 06
Well i guess it would be nice to find Mr. Right in a friends. It would be a good base ground for a good and lasting relationship. I never had a lover who was my friend at first. It's really hard to see a friend as a lover don't you think? Although having said this, I know that it is possible that this could happen though. I do hope that I may find a lover who is my friend first. I just have to wait until he comes knocking at my heart's door.
@blueman (16509)
• India
11 Dec 06
maybe you haven't looked at the right place yet. :) it does happen when you expect too much from a person which i do not think anyone in the world has everything, maybe you'll find what you are looking for some day.
• Philippines
13 Dec 06
Thank you very much for your reply to my post. Yes am am quite certain that I will be able to find him soon and I just wish that this Christmas would be that time. It would be a great gift to me this christmas that I would finally know who my Mr. Right is and be with him this christmas. The night are getting colder and it would be nice if someone were to hold you and keep you safe and warm.
• India
11 Dec 06
i don't think there is any MR.RIGHT.he just does not exist,everybody has there faults and one just has to accept them.you just have to find a guy who has the right set of faults and there you are....you've found him.and don't fret too much most of the times they just bump into you when you are not expecting them
• Philippines
11 Dec 06
I would rather see the good in people and their likeable traits rather than seeing their faults. Faults are always there, its a matter of acknowledging them and tolerating them, but we don't dwell on them. I know that My. Mr. Right is just there..He may not be perfect i know that for a fact but i'm sure he would have the qualities of my ideal man.
@gotcho0O (1257)
• United States
11 Dec 06
No biggie. You dont need to search/look for someone Mr. Right. He'll be there, when you least expect it.
• Philippines
14 Dec 06
Thank you for your response. Well I guess you are right that I will just have to be a little patient in doing so. I know that he will come soon!
@moneytree (188)
• India
11 Dec 06
If you are man then i think you need to search for Mrs Right? and why are searching the more you search the more you will wait and feel bad, just forget it if love has to happen to you it will one day someday somewhere.
• Philippines
14 Dec 06
Well actually your message made me laugh. I would rather choose to be silent on this. Well I do hope that my love will find me soon, and as you say somehow and somewhere! God bless and more power to you.