dexterous21 started a new discussion called When past affects present in life.
2 months ago
How will you react when you suddenly realized that a past is affecting your present life? I was trying to organize things when he suddenly popped-out in my mind. With no second thought, I tried looking at him from this site and unfortunately I saw him. All the memories rushed in to my mind and I can't help getting mad again. I paused a minute and think of the past. It has affected my present pe...

dexterous21 started a new discussion called Life at work in people.
2 months ago
How would you perform well in a workplace where there is someone who is pretending to be the best? Having a colleague like this makes your performance sucks. A person who doesn't accept other's opinion. A person who feels envious whenever someone is praised. A person who acts like a "princess" makes one's performace terrible. A person who acts like your friend but not for real. A person pretend...

dexterous21 responded to a discussion called Does your boyfriend or spouse compare you to his ex-girlfriend? Or, to his mom? in relationships.
2 months ago
Some people do this specially those who are too close to their mothers. They tend to look for somebody like their mom .If their girlfriends or boyfriends don't have such qualities, they have the tendency to compare. This is their way of changing them into a person they wanted to. However, this is the hardest thing to do. If I were in this situation, I would rather leave him alone because he...