would you ever have a 3some if you were married?

United States
September 24, 2006 2:57pm CST
its crazy, butjust wondering
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51 responses
• United States
25 Sep 06
Having a 3some is just bad news!!! I don't care who you are, sooner or later there is going to be hard feelings come of it. Why can't two people just love each other anymore????
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• United States
13 Nov 06
Hi.. Its not a bad idea depends on the people.. Yes I have done this .. and it can make or break a marraige.however you have to have alot of trust in which we did.. and we never had a problem.. now I have only done this once ,, just because I never did it before.... it was really random and not really talked about.. but it just happend and I was fine with it.. He has already been there done that so it wasnt his first ride in the park at all.. and I knew the girl very well , anyways it just depends on you I guess.. it can go either way.. there has never been hard feelings with us and never will be.. it happend its over it was fun.. you just have to be open and trust each other I guess....
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• United States
13 Nov 06
ps. weather you think its gross or not.. dont go around judging me on this.. if you have nothing good to say to me about it.. please keep it to yourself.. I know how people can be rude.. I was just being honest.. Im not a jelous person nor is my husband and thats why this worked out for us
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• Canada
15 Apr 07
Good for you Beach Baby..........I agree with you 100% and YES i have done it with my wife. It does take trust and knowing when to stop if need be.
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• United States
25 Sep 06
my b/f wants to have one i say no cause i dont think i would feel comfortable and scared he leave me for the other woman
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• United States
15 Apr 07
If you are that worried or insecure that he is going to leave you than no, you should not have a threesome with him or anyone else. You have to have a total trust relationship before trying something like this. At least if you want to come out of it feeling whole about your relationship. JMO
@MisterR (171)
• Netherlands
26 Sep 06
Married or not married will not have a 3some
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@kstanley7 (1172)
25 Sep 06
you know something I don't really know to this question, but I know some people would. would you heaven ?
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@kerijate (377)
• Australia
12 Nov 06
If the girl was very beatiful& willing & my partner agreed. Yes sure i would!
@mamunsys (140)
• Canada
13 Nov 06
same here dude
@vipul20044 (5798)
• India
20 Oct 06
well i will just be satisfied with one i dont need another intruder
• India
20 Oct 06
well add too that it will be difficult to concentrate on both of them ! 1 is enough for focusing
@heartonfire (4131)
• Denmark
20 Oct 06
i am a too jalouse girl to do that..a fantasy is a fantasy,and should not interfier with the marriage i think..and as everyone else also said,it would bring up bad feelings later..or confusing ones for both of the partners..
@msqtech (15226)
• United States
9 Nov 06
would end most marriages I think
@gotOBX (764)
• United States
27 Sep 06
Not married anymore. I don't know that I would do a 3-some. But what guy hasn't fantasized about two woman at once....married or not.
• United States
4 Oct 06
very true
@gimil007 (389)
• India
25 Sep 06
yaa man ..if u can lend me ur wife for a day.....dont feel bad..juzz a joke...
@mamunsys (140)
• Canada
13 Nov 06
howabout along with ur friend.............just kidding
• United States
15 Apr 07
I myself had a 3some with my hubby shortly after we were married. I do not regret it, but don't know if I would really ever do it again. At least not with that person, or at least not so drunk next time. lol You do have to have complete trust in your partner and the other person that you are with though. That does help. If you are insecure about your relationship you will most likely not have a good experience, and then what is the point?
@carolscash (9500)
• United States
15 Apr 07
No way! I would never consider this as there is no way that I would want my husband in bed with anyone else.
@taruha (559)
• United States
29 Dec 06
it may be done by me provided my spouse will agree to this.if she agrees then the three some can surely be tried even after the marraige.i have seen many friends doing this and their outcome was not so bad.
@ngchunyi (130)
• Canada
24 Dec 06
nope, never
@chiyosan (30199)
• Philippines
23 Dec 06
i think other countries are openly doing such, ours is a conservative one, and if there are those who do this, can be just for fun i won't do it if i am asked and will probably not think of even doing it...
@clownfish (3276)
• United States
13 Nov 06
No, I wouldn't do it, married or single.
@wathanjim (2215)
• United States
13 Nov 06
would you?
@cuttyrish (2663)
• United States
13 Nov 06
no, i would'nt engage in that thing if i get married.
@manzician (4734)
• India
13 Nov 06
No.. Never...
@rusty2rusty (6762)
• Defiance, Ohio
13 Nov 06
If the right person came along. I would.
@cuttyrish (2663)
• United States
13 Nov 06
no, i would'nt engage in that thing if i get married.