Is it possible to love two people at once?

Philippines
January 13, 2007 3:59am CST
I am confuse. It's not me that is involve but my best friend. Is it really possible to love two person in the same degree at the same time? and is it right to keep both of them? For me it is not right or am i just being too conservative?
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10 responses
@Bytemi (1553)
• United States
24 Jan 07
Yes it is possible, I have been there, done that. It is not fun and if you are married I would try and stop seeing the person that you is not your spouse.
@rsa101 (37968)
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
I dont' think you could do that at the same time and the levels are the same. But its possible you feel inlove with two persons. But the difference there is the intensity and degree of affection you can give in one of them. I am pretty sure that one is better then one is not. So when in that situation its best to choose the best and leave the other coz it will just be unfair to the other person being second's best.
@kotad6 (209)
• Pakistan
13 Jan 07
I think it happens usually and its very common.
• India
13 Jan 07
Yes it is very much possible that u love 2 people with the same fervrousity and it may not be as uncommon as u think. But most of the times it resolves easily with time that in a month or so u will know whom you love more. U have to make a choice anyway.
• United States
16 Jan 07
I do think that itspossible 2 love two people at the same time but i dont believe that you could keep the same people because for the simple fact, its just not right! I mean how would your friend feel if she was sideline?
@slavena (87)
• Canada
24 Jan 07
I don't think it's possiable to love two men at the same time nor do I think it's right to keep them both. Your love should only be for one person, and you should be devoted to that one person. If you're in a realationship with both of them you obviously don't love them as much because you would never want to hurt a loved one like that.
@stonehr (818)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
13 Jan 07
Many types of love exist.I think that Your friend don't truly love neither of them because if You truly love someone you don't need another one person to love.So this is common situation in life when you can't get from one person what you want or when you aren't passionate with one person.I can say this is not fair at all.It can be fair in rare situations of some problems when both of them knows everything without secrets.
• India
13 Jan 07
it is very much absurd to have sme feeling for two at a time.but i m sure she will one day judge the right one for herself
• India
13 Jan 07
I think it is possible, as in my college i have found out guys with girlfriends in the campus as well as outside the campus and they are truly and madly in love with both these gals. Same is the case with a few gals who have boyfriends in the campus as well as outside. I have even found them kissing their both partners at different locations and different times. This seems to prove that it is possible to be in love with two people at once.
• United Arab Emirates
13 Jan 07
it actually happens...shoooot..ive bin thru d same experience once...u cant afford to loose b0th ov dem u jus d0nt want 2...but its alwys bettr 2 gv imprtnce 2 d prsn who came 1st in ur lyf cos he/she desrvz it mre, coz othrwise u willl b d0uble playin which wont b fair and at d end u wil gt sik ov it.