What would you do?

Philippines
January 20, 2007 10:19am CST
what if you found out that your loved is still talking and being sweet with the EX? and you found out that they still have plans for each other? would you leave the person you love or wait till she leaves you? this is my case as of the moment it would be helpful if you could give me suggestions. tnx
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20 responses
@pmgsan (149)
• India
20 Jan 07
If your loved is still talking and nice with her Ex,ask question your self, am i giving her what she wants. If you are able to give/satisfy her as per her need she would never look back. Now she is looking back to re-establish her last contact.Find out the real position. If it is true do not wait for her to quit you. You must be the first person to say goodbye.This will be arespectable retrive....
• Romania
20 Jan 07
I totally advice you to leave.My ex just left me for his ex,which he firt left for me.I I knew what he was thinking I would shurely have left him firs1
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• India
20 Jan 07
i would try to do my part to keep my beloved if i were in your place. and prove him you are the best,if he is worthy of your love
@sham_mdk (436)
• India
20 Jan 07
if that person doesn't like u then will u be trying for ur hole life
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• United States
21 Jan 07
I would let this person realize you are in the relationship with her. Then ask would she stop talking to the ex. If she doesn't stop, get out, because it's not over between her and the ex
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• Philippines
20 Jan 07
What plans do they have for each other? If they just recently broke up, they might not be totally over one another and are still attached to each other. Whatever you decide to do, it's always best to get all the facts first before you do anything.
@msqtech (15074)
• United States
23 Jan 07
I say dont invest in an obvious loser
@frndzb4 (131)
20 Jan 07
Tell him straight .. choose one !! Don't keep hanging with him, else u'll regret later .. these days u can't trust ... good luck.
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@sham_mdk (436)
• India
20 Jan 07
Right way to do it but think of your love once feelings...
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@bonbon664 (3466)
• Canada
20 Jan 07
I wouldn't be bothered if they were just friends, but, it sounds like it's more than that. I think you deserve better than to play second best to some other person. I wouldn't stick with someone who didn't think I was their top priority.
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• India
20 Jan 07
I would like to chat with others.
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• Philippines
20 Jan 07
I might as well be prepared for the worst. Maybe I would tell him immediately we should not be seeing each other for a while because he seems to be confused who to choose between the two of us. If you don't want to get hurt badly, set him free.
• United States
20 Jan 07
i would leave him. for a few reasons. first because he lied to you and kept her from you. second because he didnt tell you and had no intention on telling you. third because who knows what they're doing when you're not around. fourth because if they have plans for each other then they still want a relationship together. girl get out of there. run and run fast before he hurts you worse than you deserve.
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• Philippines
20 Jan 07
I don't even let my hubby see his ex everytime she comes home from abroad cause I feel that she has designs on him, even if he doesn't intend to take her up on her plans. Make sure that they do have plans to get back together and confront your partner about this. If you get confirmation on this, then I suggest you give him an ultimatum. His Ex or you. It may hurt, but at least, you know for sure and you won't waste anymore of your life on someone who might not care enough for you or isn't over somebody from their past.
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• Philippines
20 Jan 07
Talk to him and know the real score you'll never know you might just jumping into conclusion and ended up being sorry for you actions.
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@pillze (118)
• Romania
20 Jan 07
Probably im not the best person to give advices, because i dont have much experience, but i believe that you should talk to him. Ask him what does he intend to do, if he still loves his ex, and if he does..i dont know...that means he doesnt love you,i guess. And you should try to find someone who really loves you and appreciates you, dont wait for him, you deserve to be happy.
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@sham_mdk (436)
• India
20 Jan 07
If i see my loved one still being sweet with any other person i will try to know that two things firstly,i would like to know that my loved one is only maintaining a friendship with that person or secondly,is in love with that person.If my loved one is in love with that person i will put an end to my love relationship because the true love will never fail
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@msqtech (15074)
• United States
23 Jan 07
dont waste your time on a loser like this. If cheating now will cheat later just find someone to give you the love you deserve
@Randync (544)
• United States
20 Jan 07
If I found out they had plans to be together I would leave right then. No point in staying in a relationship with somebody who is planning to leave. I would not try anything to try to keep her. I would be gone and gone fast.
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@onesiobhan (1327)
• Canada
5 Mar 07
Depends on what you want out of the relationship. If you want something long-term, I'd be out of there. Why waste your time? On the other hand, if it's just a good time & nothing serious, I wouldn't worry about it.
@ms_fery (251)
• Philippines
20 Jan 07
better leave the guy, don't wait to be dumped. give at least a little respect and love for your self, if he can cheat you now he will continue cheating you and dumped you in no time at all. better leave when the pain is bearable. it is so painful but there are friends and family to support you always.
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• Portugal
20 Jan 07
Leave him before he leaves you
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• Canada
20 Jan 07
well honestly I have been there and I confronted him and he told me that there was nothing between them and it was just for his kids..........then he broke up with me told me that he was not ready for a relationship and that all he wanted was a friendship but the next day was dating my best friend....... then I ran into his exwife and had a talk with her and found out that he was going to marrage counsilling with her so yeah um leave them before you get to hurt
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