do you like sharing clothes ?
By PIITZY
@PIITZY (749)
Romania
February 8, 2007 4:49am CST
i mean not borowing from time to time to some friends but sharing clothes .i just do that with my best friend and not so often but i see a lot of people that share the same clothes i mean wouldnt it bother you that evry single day someone calls and says hi whats up i was wondering if you could borrow me.... what would you do what do you think??????
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@shorva (923)
• Philippines
8 Feb 07
oh no i hate to share my clothes. i have two sisters, we're almost on the same size, they like to share clothes, but i don't, i refuse. but when they ask to barrow i couldnt say no. i don't know why, i know they have no sort of skin diseases or body odor but for some reason i'm just not comfortable sharing my clothes with them. same thing with shoes. but if they like to barrow clothes that i only wear occasionally like gowns and formal dresses, i'm totally fine with it and i even volunteer to share it.
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@PIITZY (749)
• Romania
8 Feb 07
yeah youre exactly like me ,i just cant say no to the persons that want to barrow my clothes even tough it boders me but i dont like other people wearing my clothes i agree on barrowing clothes when theres a party or something like for special ocasions not every day clothes
@cuddleme01 (2725)
• Philippines
8 Feb 07
no, not at all. i don't like to share my clothes to anyone. But there are times when we go out to a different place for vacation and we can only bring few clothes, then i let my sister borrow my clothes as when her clothes are all wet, and she does the same to me too. But as a general rule, i don't like my clothes being used by someone else. I can't imagine sweat of other people, the smell coming from their bodies, and what if they have skin diseases-- i might acquire it too. For health reasons and cleanliness purposes, i don't like sharing clothes.
@PIITZY (749)
• Romania
8 Feb 07
me nither but sometimes when my best friend goes to a party and she asks me to borow her a blouse i borrow her.but i just dont like that somebody else wears my clothes i mean i love my style and i dont like that i wear a blouse today and the next day all my friends see that my friend is wearing it to.
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@sreejithsreenivas (10200)
• India
8 Feb 07
I dont like it.It is not a good habit.
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@kagandahan (1327)
• Philippines
9 Feb 07
you can tell her that you mom does not all0w borowing clothes anymore,just make an alibi.
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@alchemistrx (2547)
• Philippines
10 Feb 07
I don't sahring my clothes with my ister or better I shall give it and not ask it back.
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@alchemistrx (2547)
• Philippines
10 Feb 07
I meant that I share my clothes with my sister but other than my family I give it to them.
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@PIITZY (749)
• Romania
10 Feb 07
:) i wouldnt give my clothes as a present to people that ask me for clothes thats a nice thing to do but i wouldnt give away my clothes i dont borrow my sister my clothes she steals them from me and after she wears them she puts them back she thinks i dont know she weared them but shes 2 size bigger then me so after she wears my clothes they wouldnt look good on me anymore :))))))))
@chiquitita (1226)
• Indonesia
8 Feb 07
Oh, it's one of my biggest NO NO lol. Well, I did borrow my friends coat, that was because it was raining, and I didnt bring my own. I dont want to look stylish by other's clothes, no. I have my own clothes, and I have my own style, so why should I bother to borrow them for others? Cheers :)
@chiquitita (1226)
• Indonesia
9 Feb 07
Wow that's a big dilemma. I think sometimes you'll just have to lie to her a bit. Maybe you can say your clothes are being washed and not dry yet or being mended by the tailor because you broke the button etc. And yes, you'll have to think for another reason in case she comes back to borrow another lol. Never borrow clothes from her, and at least she will think twice to borrow yours. Cheers and good luck!
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@kate1356 (697)
• United States
8 Feb 07
No, I don't like sharing clothes. When I was in college and you live in the dorms near your friends, I remember people would ask me all the time to borrow stuff. I would say yes and then the next day you would go into the person's room and my sweater would be in a BALL on the person's dirty floor. I never met anyone in college that treated my stuff like I would treat me stuff. I was lucky to have parents that always bought me nice clothes...I alway tried to take really good care of all my stuff.
Now that I am older I don't really have people asking me to borrow stuff but I doubt I would lend anything if someone asked.
@kate1356 (697)
• United States
10 Feb 07
If my best friend asked to borrow a coat or something I guess I wouldn't have a problem with her borrowing that. Anything else though.. I would still say no. I agree with you.. I wouldn't want to hurt her feelings.. so I would try to find a way a gentle of saying no. Maybe something along the lines of "I'm sorry but I don't like lending my clothes out. I've had some bad experiences with lending clothes in the past." If you say this nicely.. your friend should understand.
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@cutepenguin (6431)
• Canada
9 Feb 07
My friends and I lend each other clothes. Mostly special occasion outfits, like dresses. After all, dresses cost a lot and don't get worn often, if we share then we each have to spend less. (Plus, my friends are better at picking out cute clothes than I am, so it works out to my advantage and they don't mind).
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@apky12 (769)
• United States
9 Feb 07
It didn't bother me when I was in high school and college because you saw the people all the time but I would not like it now. Plus, my friends and I have different tastes in clothes because we are at different points in our lives. I'm a mom so I don't get dressed up a lot. They go out all the time and a lot of them are single.
@pure_pinklaydee (827)
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8 Feb 07
Me, my best friend and my sister all share clothes. It can have the advantage of having 3 times the wardrobe but it can produce so many problems. What if you want to wear something and you realise your friend has it? What if you borrow something and you rip it or stain it? My sister borrows clothes and I get them back stained and smelling of smoke. My friends a size or two bigger than me so sometimes my clothes come back stretched.
@PIITZY (749)
• Romania
8 Feb 07
well usualy thats why i dont like borrowing my sister my clothes because shes 2 sizes bigger then me and she streches my clothes and after she wears them they stay owful on me but she still steals clothes from me and its very easy for me to know when she wears my clothes we realy argue about this
@mohitkr05 (46)
• India
10 Feb 07
no way i wont share my clothes ever they are meant to be mine and i hate when anybody wears them.I throw them if anybody share my clothes
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@PIITZY (749)
• Romania
10 Feb 07
:)) yeap i hate it to but sometimes my best friend asks for my clothes i had a fight with her about this i told her i dont want to give her my clothes anymore i just dont like it that other people see me wearing a blouse and tomorrow they see my friend wearing the same blouse i just hate when this happens .........so i put an end to it and told my best friend that i wouldnt borrow her anymore no matter what
@kagandahan (1327)
• Philippines
9 Feb 07
when i wasin high school , we used to do that but now i don't think it's ok.we we're just trippin then.i know my friends they do proper hygiene but i was annoyed with this one time my friend borrowed a shirt i already wornand still wore it..at school.that was uncool!!from then on,i decided to stop borrowing clothes so they won't borrow mine.but my old dress,ilet others borrow just as long as i don't use it anymore.i'm notbeing a snob but i just try to avoid having bad odors,sorry!
@PIITZY (749)
• Romania
9 Feb 07
yeap i realy statrted to hate it when on of my friendsborrows a tshirt of mine and she comes to school with it and my friends tell her ohh thats such a nice tshirt i just feel embarased to wear that tshirt in front of them but some times i just cant refuse her:)
@Shadenfrauder (355)
• Philippines
2 Mar 07
Hmm.. I personally like sharing clothes, but maybe it's because I have 4 sisters. -_-" I don't adhere to a particular style, and borrowing clothes from my sisters and my friends help me create cooler ensembles. I don't mind sharing clothes either, as I don't really have that much.^^
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@bowtieguy (5915)
• United States
8 Jul 07
I let my oldes son borrow thing of mine when he ask nicly, but other than that I do not care too much for sharing clothes.
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@y_lokesh_tem (465)
• India
2 Mar 07
ya i like sharing or u can say i allowed it but not for every clothe.
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