Is it ok for a very old person to love very young person?

@ajithlal (14564)
India
February 25, 2007 10:32am CST
There are lots of movies in which one person is very elder and the other person is very younger. The ending most times is tragedy. In life is it right for a very elder person to love very young person like he is around 40 to 50 and she is around 20 to 25 half his age. Sometimes these films in which the age different melts our hearts. Sometimes we can never understand why one person fell in love even when they know they will never get the other person. What will you do if you fell in love with a person whom you know you will never get like this?
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11 responses
@sherinek (3323)
• United States
6 Mar 07
If you want to know about myself, i will never fall in love with a person who's twice as old as I am. Not even if he is the last man on earth. But I dont think we should think bad about the people who do. They all have their reasons and it is their choice. We mustnt interfere.
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• Thailand
6 Mar 07
Be careful what you say. You might meet that guy twice your age next week or next year and never know what hit you.
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@ajithlal (14564)
• India
25 Nov 12
I also think it is not bad to fall in love with people with different ages.
@Phlamingho (7834)
• Denmark
25 Feb 07
Sure. That's between those two. You can make a lot of money doing something like that :-)
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• Romania
25 Feb 07
if is love is ok but for money i dont like.is posible to love somebody much younger and i now one person like this
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@ajithlal (14564)
• India
14 Nov 12
I also think it is okay for love and not for money.
@Hamlet333 (725)
• Pakistan
6 Mar 07
well wht I think is,love do not see any cast,age,religion and age difference as u told of 20 yrs or more.but its true...love can't b stoped as its not in our hand but its the matter of feelings & emotions.
@ajithlal (14564)
• India
15 Apr 13
I think love also has no cast, age, religion and other things.
• Romania
6 Mar 07
In and for love everything is possible. Just follow your heart.
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@ajithlal (14564)
• India
14 Nov 12
I also think that everything is possible in love.
• Romania
6 Mar 07
why not, it's Ok, love doesn't have a age
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@ajithlal (14564)
• India
29 Nov 12
I also think that love does not have age.
@apky12 (776)
• United States
25 Feb 07
I guess you would just have to move on if you fell in love with someone you knew would never love you b/c of the age difference. It's like anything else in love. If someone doesn't love you for whatever reason, you just need to move on. I've never been attracted to anyone a lot older than me and no one younger than me at all so it's hard to imagine.
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@ajithlal (14564)
• India
25 Nov 12
I think most times the age does not matter and if it is just attraction then it is not okay and if it is true love then it is okay.
25 Feb 07
Age makes no difference.
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@ajithlal (14564)
• India
15 Sep 12
I also think that age makes no differences.
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
As long as both parties don't care about the age difference and they accept the shortcomings that go with a relationship like this, it is okay. For older men-younger women relationships, there is less problem. There is still a probability that they can start their own family. But for older women-younger men relationships there are a lot of things that the man should consider. He should accept the fact that there will be no possibility to father his own child especially if the woman's biological clock is gone. Know what I mean? So if you enter this kind of a relationship you need to be prepared for a tragic ending but still hope for the best.
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@harxian (671)
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
yes theres no wrong about loving someone who is younger than you or vice versa the important is you are both happy and age doesnt matter love is ageless and infact love can make you feel young at heart.^_^so enjoy loving and being loved.
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@kerbausama (1338)
• Malaysia
6 Mar 07
i think age is not a matter..yup..love cannot be measure.it can happen so sudden.the time we met is not a matter coz if we match each other we can find good chemistry,then there your happiness.from my experience i always falll on first love.more than twice i think.every day i lust to many woman that i see.i love pretty woman even i have a girlfriend.i like her but since i see new beautiful girl then i decide to change my mind to find another woman.i like this world as long as i'm not marry.hope i get a date with very beatiful woman that i really love.
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@leeandrew (1226)
• Philippines
14 Nov 12
I don't think that age does matters in falling in love though. As long as both are single and has no commitments. It just become inappropriate when the other is already committed but still wan't to be in a relationship even though it's not possible. I don't think I will ever fall in love again knowing I'm deeply in love with the person I married four years ago. Thanks for the topic anyway. Happy mylotting!