In your life

@stacyv81 (5905)
United States
March 13, 2007 11:31pm CST
In your life was there someone who you have liked, even maybe loved for a long time, and you have always thought they felt the same way, yet neither of you acted upon it, and now you may feel it is too late? what do you do?
4 responses
@rsa101 (13336)
• Philippines
14 Mar 07
I guess there's a term for that one, "The one that got away". I have read it in the email regarding that topic. I guess if you did not act on it then it was the one that got away and all you have to do is to move on the direction you have followed. I guess you have to do what is best for you and your happiness. Looking back is okay but sour graping on it does not any good either. It is best that you go forward and let those that got away let go. If the two of you are meant for each other then time will find it for you two to be together.
@Sir_bobby88 (8245)
• Singapore
9 Jun 07
Well if it is too late , then let it be , no choice after all . You will always find better ones yea ... no point arguing for example after 90mintues of soccer match you argue that the offside goal was a geinue goal ...
@Abbyey (760)
• Philippines
14 Mar 07
It happened to me when i was in 2nd year college but at that time i wasnt sure if its LOVE or LIKE. Both of them are close to me and iam always comfortable being with them. They would always tell me how they would like to future to be. Since i am not allowed to have BF during college. They stayed away the courting part. When i felt that im falling for them, i stay away. When i reached 4th year we all got separated and after graduation i met someone thats the time i knew i only had CRUSH on the two guys. Since i am now celebrating my 5th year with my BF. Whenever i think about it. I knew also i couldn't choose between the two of them since they are also friends. If even i did choose one, i fear that they might end up fighting with each other. Maybe you can still tell him if he is still unattached, to let you know how he feels. It would be harder not to tell because you will never know the answer. If i am you, i will ask... id rather get hurt and know than NOT know at all.
@earth2jacq (1503)
• Philippines
14 Mar 07
Yes I have loved my best guy friend before but he doesn't feel the same way for me. I have always thought that he liked me because he would always hang around with me and we'd talk to the phone for hours...so I acted upon it, I told him how I feel so no what ifs for me. Atleast I know that he cannot love me more than a friend and it is really liberating to free myself from unspoken love. I am not fond of hiding my feelings until the moment is too late. I have always believed in being true to myself and tell the other person you love him. It is better that way. You may get rejected but so what.....atleast you know in your heart you did something to win the heart of the one you love.