What can you say about this ?....

Philippines
April 10, 2007 1:45pm CST
I have heard this very often...and I don't know if you guys and gals here would agree. Tell me if you do or if you don't agree about this quote and share to us here why you think that way... They say, "Once a player, always a player"... Do you think it's true? I have been through my teen life of being able to party with friends and meet flings, one-night affairs and part of it was my being a player too. But right now, I have already come to realize that my life of being a "playboy" is also already enough and has to be over. Now, what could you say about this? This is open for everyone here, not just guys. For ladies, have you had a really PLAYER boyfriend? If you have experiences, then feel free to share it to us. We might learn from it.
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5 responses
@Taskr36 (13963)
• United States
22 Jun 07
A player is a guy who dates alot of different women. A lot of guys are like that when they are younger before they mature and start looking for serious relationships. Obviously, I disagree with the always a player statement. I do still stand by once a cheater always a cheater, but that's different.
@seksiconnie (1173)
• Philippines
22 Jun 07
uhuh..yes i do have one of my ex's...such a j*rk coz after i broke up with him, he even court my bestfriend who turns out to be not so good friend to me at all..they had their relationship like a week?? tsk tsk.. and i know that every month he do have a new one,hope he won't get AIDS..lol! why can't guys tell it directly to the girl that he doesn't want it anymore?? coz it's really a waste of time :)
@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
10 Apr 07
I think many people are players when they are younger, but grow out of it, choosing a more meaningful lifestyle. I've seen it happen many times. I've seen some not grow out of it.. and their lives seem to me to be pretty chaotic. [And their children grow up not knowing them.]
@Shaun72 (15959)
• Palatka, Florida
11 Apr 07
Well I divorced my ex player husband last year. I mean he cheated on me with more then one person but he's not happy now I told him when he left he wouldn't be. That's life though.
@ryanphil01 (4182)
• Philippines
10 Apr 07
just as you are saying too that "once a thief always a thief". no, that is not always the case. people change as they grow old. they got lessons learned in their lives. i know that you have the will power to change for the better. you can do it. we have failed in some ways, but these failures encouraged us to stand firmer and moved on no matter what the price maybe. just bear in mind that someone up there is willing to give you alift if only you ask him to do so.