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shalumanu @shalumanu (79) • India 28 Feb 07

i normally forget my user ids since i work on different sites and many a times forget the passwords also. i dont try to write them up for privacy. do you people face the same problem? how do you manage?

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cuddleme01 you should write it down but hide it or else you will jeopardize your privacy and your money involved. you should try making passwords that are easier to remember. make the same password or username for 2 sites, but make another new password or username for...

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shalumanu @shalumanu (79) • India 28 Feb 07

i normally forget my user ids since i work on different sites and many a times forget the passwords also. i dont try to write them up for privacy. do you people face the same problem? how do you manage?

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pinoyskull Using identical uids/passwords on all the sites is dangerous, just be careful not to let others get your uid/password.

23 May 07

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shalumanu @shalumanu (79) • India 29 Mar 07

i m married for 2 years now and working. one day i happened to be in my brother in law's room to do some work online. he was obviously not there but he was online on orkut. sorry but i went through his profile, his friends and...

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guesswhoiam I think that you should talk to him and see why he is not comfortable coming out with it...

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shalumanu @shalumanu (79) • India 29 Mar 07

we are happily married for 2 years after being in a relationship of 7 years. we have a very sweet daughter. she is 10 months old. i do love her but suddenly i ve started feeling that he is paying least attention to me. all the...

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MSCindz i think you better talk to your husband...explain your feelings about what happening to you so that he can understand you...

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shalumanu @shalumanu (79) • India 29 Mar 07

we are happily married for 2 years after being in a relationship of 7 years. we have a very sweet daughter. she is 10 months old. i do love her but suddenly i ve started feeling that he is paying least attention to me. all the...

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mamasan34 I don't think he loves your daughter more than you. I am sure he loves you both equally but in different ways. You must talk to him about this. I know your not jealous, but you are feeling left out. Tell him you need time with him as a husband. But be happy...

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shalumanu @shalumanu (79) • India 29 Mar 07

we are happily married for 2 years after being in a relationship of 7 years. we have a very sweet daughter. she is 10 months old. i do love her but suddenly i ve started feeling that he is paying least attention to me. all the...

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steney I'm really surprised to read your sentiment. I hear stories about husbands feeling left out and not having enough attention from their wives because they concentrate more on their children. But a wife feeling the same way, it's really new to me. Anyways,...

30 Mar 07

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shalumanu @shalumanu (79) • India 29 Mar 07

we are happily married for 2 years after being in a relationship of 7 years. we have a very sweet daughter. she is 10 months old. i do love her but suddenly i ve started feeling that he is paying least attention to me. all the...

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NatureBoy I think its just normal, try to work things out. Kids generally need more attention then the adults. Funny that you feel this way, cos most of the time, its the guys who feel this way. I'm sure your man loves you even more, after giving the two of you such a...

30 Mar 07

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shalumanu @shalumanu (79) • India 29 Mar 07

we are happily married for 2 years after being in a relationship of 7 years. we have a very sweet daughter. she is 10 months old. i do love her but suddenly i ve started feeling that he is paying least attention to me. all the...

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toyboxer04 For a husband the love for his wife and the love for his daughter are 2 different kinds of love. Then attention is another thing. It's nothing wrong if he pays attention to the baby more than he pays to you. It's obvious that the baby needs more attention than...

30 Mar 07

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Ally Bravo @happytobehereagain (390) 10 Sep 16

OMG! Mylot is a place for discussion and created for its members to earn by posting comment, opinion etc.. I just dont understand until now why some members still dont get it and get pissed off when their responders give them an...

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not4me OMG! Mylot is a place for discussion and created for its members to earn by posting comment, opinion etc.. I just dont understand until now why some members still dont get it and get pissed off when their responders give them an opinion opposite to theirs....

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shalumanu @shalumanu (79) • India 29 Mar 07

we are happily married for 2 years after being in a relationship of 7 years. we have a very sweet daughter. she is 10 months old. i do love her but suddenly i ve started feeling that he is paying least attention to me. all the...

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easy_win_for_you I have 2 daughters and a wife. I pay a lot of attention to my oldest and not much to my youngest. My wife says i give her none at all. Ironic that you should have this message posted when i just signed in with my lot about 20 minutes ago. Let me explain why i...

30 Mar 07

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shalumanu @shalumanu (79) • India 29 Mar 07

we are happily married for 2 years after being in a relationship of 7 years. we have a very sweet daughter. she is 10 months old. i do love her but suddenly i ve started feeling that he is paying least attention to me. all the...

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marymarj2002 My husband and I were also one on one for five years with my husband and now we have a four month old baby. He loves out baby so much and he also pays more attention with my child than me. I am like you sometimes I also got jealous and I am asking if I am...

30 Mar 07

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shalumanu @shalumanu (79) • India 29 Mar 07

we are happily married for 2 years after being in a relationship of 7 years. we have a very sweet daughter. she is 10 months old. i do love her but suddenly i ve started feeling that he is paying least attention to me. all the...

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domesticengineer I think it is only natural for your husband to have this feelings for your daughter. You still have to be thankful because some of fathers right now are not hands on and they just let their wives do all the baby stuff. Aren't you the same as your husband right...

30 Mar 07

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shalumanu @shalumanu (79) • India 29 Mar 07

we are happily married for 2 years after being in a relationship of 7 years. we have a very sweet daughter. she is 10 months old. i do love her but suddenly i ve started feeling that he is paying least attention to me. all the...

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ehdzzie i remember when i was 11 years old...i saw my mom jealous of me because when my dad went for a seminar, he kissed me goodbye and talked to me anything...i am the only girl at that time...and i saw my mom, i felt it...that she was jealous because my dad talked...

30 Mar 07

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shalumanu @shalumanu (79) • India 29 Mar 07

we are happily married for 2 years after being in a relationship of 7 years. we have a very sweet daughter. she is 10 months old. i do love her but suddenly i ve started feeling that he is paying least attention to me. all the...

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calderon OMG, I have someone else out there that is going through the same thing as me. I have a 9month old son, and my boyfriend is the same way.I love my son to death, but I feel like I'm competting:(At times I feel like he forgets that I even exist. We have talked...

30 Mar 07

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shalumanu @shalumanu (79) • India 29 Mar 07

we are happily married for 2 years after being in a relationship of 7 years. we have a very sweet daughter. she is 10 months old. i do love her but suddenly i ve started feeling that he is paying least attention to me. all the...

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bad1981 I think that it is jsut an adjustment for you because before you got all his time and now you have to share it with your daughter too. I have kids too and never did I feel this way, the more I seen my kids interact and play with their dad the happier it made...

30 Mar 07

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shalumanu @shalumanu (79) • India 29 Mar 07

we are happily married for 2 years after being in a relationship of 7 years. we have a very sweet daughter. she is 10 months old. i do love her but suddenly i ve started feeling that he is paying least attention to me. all the...

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WASYLBRYTAN I think you might be suffering from a case of post partum depression. If you are aware of it, the depression will have less power over you and will pass sooner.

30 Mar 07

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shalumanu @shalumanu (79) • India 29 Mar 07

we are happily married for 2 years after being in a relationship of 7 years. we have a very sweet daughter. she is 10 months old. i do love her but suddenly i ve started feeling that he is paying least attention to me. all the...

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rogen_andrei I guess you need your feeling be known to your husband..go talk to him and tell him how you feel with sudden shift of attention from you to your daughter..well, I would say maybe your husband was just very happy getting a new baby, especially if she is your...

30 Mar 07

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shalumanu @shalumanu (79) • India 29 Mar 07

we are happily married for 2 years after being in a relationship of 7 years. we have a very sweet daughter. she is 10 months old. i do love her but suddenly i ve started feeling that he is paying least attention to me. all the...

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Lavera1 I don't think that you're being unreasonable, Shalumanu, by desiring you husband's attention. You and your husband are partners and should be commited to each other. When you said your vows you promised to love and honor one another. And honor means to highly...

30 Mar 07

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shalumanu @shalumanu (79) • India 29 Mar 07

we are happily married for 2 years after being in a relationship of 7 years. we have a very sweet daughter. she is 10 months old. i do love her but suddenly i ve started feeling that he is paying least attention to me. all the...

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beaniegdi It can be hard to adjust from being a couple to being parents. I think you should try to tell yourself that you would rather have a man who loved his child and wanted to spend time with her. lots of women end up with men who, as soon as the babies come along,...

30 Mar 07

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shalumanu @shalumanu (79) • India 29 Mar 07

we are happily married for 2 years after being in a relationship of 7 years. we have a very sweet daughter. she is 10 months old. i do love her but suddenly i ve started feeling that he is paying least attention to me. all the...

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Stephanie5 Well of course he loves his daughter more than you! I love my kids more than I love my husband! That's just natural. I think you could of worded this differently but I understand that you are just feeling neglected. Try putting the baby to bed around 6-7pm one...

30 Mar 07

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