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myLot reputation of 98/100. Darkwing (7548)   ranked 129 out of 19,197 in relationships 5 years ago

I've been invited to a gay wedding in the autumn. These guys really want me to attend and I've made quite good friends with them, and would love to go and support them on the day, but this will be my first time at a gay wedding. I'm a little apprehensive as to how I should conduct myself... I suppose it's the same as any other wedding really, and I have nothing against them marrying each other. I know how much feeling there is between them.

So, does anybody have any tips... have you ever attended or seen a gay wedding. I don't want to ruin their day by acting out of place. Helllllllp!!!


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1. myLot reputation of 62/100. Mikki2 (151)   ranked 7,335 out of 19,197 in relationships   5 years ago

Just go and be yourself. Obviously they want you there of you would not have been invited. And yes it is the same as any other wedding.


myLot reputation of 98/100. Darkwing (7548)   ranked 129 out of 19,197 in relationships  5 years ago

True... you're right of course. It is best to be yourself and treat them as you would any other couple, I guess.

Thank you for your response Mikki and Brightest Blessings.


myLot reputation of 75/100. Adrenochrome (736)  5 years ago

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myLot reputation of 98/100. Darkwing (7548)   ranked 129 out of 19,197 in relationships  5 years ago

Awwwwww, you've managed to lift me so high I had to smile Adren. Thank you for your kind words. I'm quite looking forward to it now.

Take care my friend and Brightest Blessings for a lovely Bank Holiday weekend in sunny Manchester. :-)

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2. myLot reputation of 87/100. howhigh (390)   ranked 3,105 out of 19,197 in relationships   5 years ago

Be on your toes at gay weddings it is appropriate to set chairs on fire. I think you said it yourself though.. you are their friends and you have nothing against them marrying.. i think it will be a good time if you value their friendship


myLot reputation of 98/100. Darkwing (7548)   ranked 129 out of 19,197 in relationships  5 years ago

Oh, I do value their friendship and they value mine. That's why I would like to know the format... what is generally expected of me, so that I don't ruin their day. I'm probably being paranoid but I really want this to be their best day ever, so I'm being cautious. :-)

I don't know about the setting alight of chairs. ha ha ha. These guys are not young and that flamboyant!

Thank you for your advice and Brightest Blessings.


myLot reputation of 87/100. howhigh (390)   ranked 3,105 out of 19,197 in relationships  5 years ago

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3. myLot reputation of 83/100. jimbo45 (9380)   5 years ago

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myLot reputation of 98/100. Darkwing (7548)   ranked 129 out of 19,197 in relationships  5 years ago

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4. myLot reputation of 95/100. magica (3518)   ranked 234 out of 19,197 in relationships   5 years ago

Yes, it`s somewhat unconvential situation, but you must overcome your reserves. They are your friends.They love each other. They want to be together, so go and enjoy with them, for God`s sake.
If this ceremony is for friends who are only gays like them - i understand, but if they have innvited all their friends independs of their sexuality, i really dont see a reason for discomfort.


myLot reputation of 98/100. Darkwing (7548)   ranked 129 out of 19,197 in relationships  5 years ago

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myLot reputation of 98/100. Darkwing (7548)   ranked 129 out of 19,197 in relationships  5 years ago

Yes, I realise they're like anybody else and they are in no way, overpowering people. They're very nice guys and very much in love.

I've promised them I'll be there and I will. I want to support them on the happiest day of their life. It's just that it's my first time and I want everything to be perfect for them.

Thank you for your response and Brightest Blessings.

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6. myLot reputation of 69/100. RosieS57 (667)   ranked 2,123 out of 19,197 in relationships   5 years ago

Whatever you do, don't catch the bouquet.

Have a good time!


myLot reputation of 98/100. Darkwing (7548)   ranked 129 out of 19,197 in relationships  5 years ago

Do you think they'll have a bouquet? Maybe you're right but I can't imagine that somehow.

I'll stand in front of them and take a pic of them throwing it over their shoulders... that way, I won't have to catch it. lol.

Thank you for your response and Brightest Blessings.


myLot reputation of 72/100. II2aTee (845)   ranked 1,670 out of 19,197 in relationships  5 years ago

Hahaha this made me laugh out loud!


myLot reputation of 69/100. RosieS57 (667)   ranked 2,123 out of 19,197 in relationships  5 years ago

I'm happy you caught the humor as I intended it, II2aTee!

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7. myLot reputation of 97/100. mlgb_24 (458)   ranked 1,781 out of 19,197 in relationships   5 years ago

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myLot reputation of 98/100. Darkwing (7548)   ranked 129 out of 19,197 in relationships  5 years ago

Your feelings exactly describe mine MLGB, excited and a bit nervous at the same time.

I have already accepted, it's just conditioning myself to overcome the nerves to be able to act naturally. Maybe it's that which frightens me. I don't want my nerves to make me stand out in a crowd, so to speak, because it would ruin the day. Oh well... I'll try to take your advice... I know I'll enjoy it as it goes on, so I'll just have to get my lavender and Kalms out, and go for it! lol.

I hope you enjoy yours too, my dear friend. Brightest Blessings, and thank you for your response.

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8. myLot reputation of 91/100. kathy77 (6833)   ranked 1,205 out of 19,197 in relationships   5 years ago

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9. myLot reputation of 79/100. kcrysea (108)   ranked 2,435 out of 19,197 in relationships   5 years ago

Ive never been into that kind of wedding as well but if i will be invited id go hehehe... Well they're your friends and you're one of the most important person who will be attending and witness that event and they will surely appreciate it...


myLot reputation of 98/100. Darkwing (7548)   ranked 129 out of 19,197 in relationships  5 years ago

Awwww thank you Kcrysea. Yes, I already feel it's important to them that I'm there, so I accepted readily. I'm just hoping I justify their wish for me to attend.

Thank you for your response, and Brightest Blessings.

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10. myLot reputation of 87/100. Gemmygirl1 (2628)   ranked 5,609 out of 19,197 in relationships   5 years ago

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myLot reputation of 98/100. Darkwing (7548)   ranked 129 out of 19,197 in relationships  5 years ago

Awwww, thank you so much for putting me at ease about this Gemmygirl. You're right in everything you say of course, and I promise I won't hit on the best man, lol. I will know his sexual tendencies. :-)

Thank you for your response and Brightest Blessings.

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