Do you care what happens after you die?  

No, I don't care what happens after I die. I only care about the people I will left behind especially my girls. I make sure to leave some financial security for them so they can move on with their life. I don't have many assets that required a lawyer anyway. It doesn't matter if I'm living a life that is not of my choice for as long I see my girls are taken care of. That's my ulterior motive. I only hope my girls will always remember me.

I don't really care for what will happen after I died,or what the other people will say or remember me.I just care for the very little persons...like my son just they remember me as a good ,fair person and this only time to time.I always lived my life with the way I fell is right for me ,as always I say I want go to the bed at the night and fell I did my best during the day.I try don't hurt people be as much fair I can and help as I can too.For they remember me after I died ?...really doesn't concern me.
After all if you see how many people we still remember them after them death,maybe not all but the most of them we remember just because they did terrible things at them life ,I suppose even if they are some exceptions any more bad you are they remember you more lol:

You know I thought I did but really I guess I dont. Certain things I care about like I dont want the state to get my estate. So I guess I better get a will made out hay? I keep putting it off but I really shouldnt. Do you have a will?

Okay Wizzy you are making me thin hard again and that hurts my head! lol Your question comes into different categories so I will try answering one a time!
Name ; I do not care about my name as such after I die but as I wouldn't want to hurt anyone in this life I wouldn't like to think that I was remembered in a 'bad'way!

Assets ; I don't have much but I would like to think that before I die I will be able to ensure that I leave something behind of material value so that my kids do not have to struggle as much as I have - and that I have taught them well enough that they will use anything I can leave to them wisely and try to help others!

Family and Friends ; I would not like any of my family or my friends to lie aroung grief stricken after i die - I would like to think that they move on and live their lives to the fullest - and that they would remember me with a smile on their face and a happy memory in their heart! I would hope that my kids felt that their mother had loved them and that they had a good stable beginning in life and that they had been given enough love and confidence to lead a life where they would not hurt themselves or others!

Why would I want t be remembered - vanity I suppose but if my children and friends were going to remember me I would rather it was a nice warm feeling than a hurt that would strangle their hearts and affect their ability to form good relationships with others!!!

Ok that sounds really soppy but I don't care - it is your fault anyway - you asked the question! lol xxx

First and foremost, I care more about my family and friends I leave behind. Second, if I leave a bad legacy behind, my future family may suffer by having to live with others insulting or torturing them because of what I did in my life. The way we live effects the lives of the people we leave behind. Would you want to be Hitler's offspring? Think about the kind of life you would have. All the teasing and insults? I want my family to have a good life when I'm gone, so I choose to live the best life I can, so they can boast about the great father, brother, husband they had.

Who knows what exactly would happen after your death. Then why is it necessary to bother about it?If your children are well placed and your spouse is in safer hands to be protected by your son or daughter .. then it's all the more a very happy death.

Nope, as long as my life insurance goes thru and my hubby and kids all have what they need that's the only thing I care about. The rest I could care less about. They can use my toothbrush to clean the toilets for all I care ;)
I would just want them to be able to move on and be happy!

When I first read through your discussion, my first thought was "It's time to update my Will" Not hat I have very much to leave to my son but even so, I guess I should.

Thinking a little further and the cynic in me began to giggle, after all once I am dead and gone I don't really think it will matter one tiny bit to me whether anyone genuinely remembers anything I may have done in my life. I think I would rather live what is left of my life for myself and my partner rather than attempt to change the world in the vain hope that I would be remembered for it.

We acturally have already made our wishes known. I have even gone as far as making my funeral arrangements. We own two pieces of land and we are leaving that to our two daughters. We have worked hard for everything that we have and want that to all go to our daughters. I often wish we owned anothre lot of land so we could donate that to charity.

I have worked hard to keep my name good so my familiy wont be embarrassed to hear my namd in conversations. I have journals to let my family know who and what I am. I hope that these journals will be passed ddown for many generations to come

They way i see it, either there's nothing when you die so i'll not know what happens to me after death, or i'll probably go to some higher place where my life on earth means very little, thus either way i probably shuldn't concern myself with what will happen after i'm dead since i won't be around to witness it anyway.