Do u take your own decision everytime?
By subha12
@subha12 (18441)
India
18 responses
@nikhil_sun (576)
• India
19 May 08
It depends on the situation.If the decision is going to affect me then I would take it myself.But I would also get the opinions of my close ones especially my partner,parents and friends depending upon how personal the situation is.
@iftikharsumn (1471)
• Pakistan
19 May 08
often the decisions are mine,some time ever i cann't understand the situation then i take the help of others.other wise first and last decision is mine.
@SViswan (12051)
• India
19 May 08
Before marriage, I would talk to my parents....but most decisions were my own...I would talk to them for a different viewpoint or just to make sure I was on the right path.
But after marriage, I cannot do anything without asking my husband and even if I feel my decision is the right one, I cannot go against it if my husband vetoes it. I go along with what he has to say.
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
19 May 08
I take my important decisions in consultation with my better half. I find it is a healthy practice to take important decisions in life, with the help of someone, who is very close to you. Having two different opinions does help in better decision making.
What about you?
@chennai_b02 (1735)
• India
19 May 08
Taking the decision on your own is not a bad thing. but at the same time, getting the suggession from our elders is also a very good things in our life.
The decesions like what colour dress did you buy for your festival, what colour cap did you buy for you, what brand of shoe did you buy for you, can be taken by your own at any poing of time, no need of getting the suggesion from your elders or friends, (even though if anything wrong you can change it, or you can through away, and get the new one, only the point is waste of money)
But the decesions like to buy a house, looking for a life partner etc.. its always better to consult the elders and allow them to take the decision after having a deep discussions.
Possibility for sucess "Taking the own decision and the Decision taken by the elders at home in these situaiton " is just 20:80.
so, you decide and take the decistion accordingly.
I use to take the decision after discussing with the persons concernd in the particular activtiy.. always
@Mwanza1 (345)
• Kenya
31 May 07
For sure it's very important to consult and get different opinons from people but I'll be the one to make that final decision.Two things i did come to learn that you are as powerfull and strong as you allow yourself to be and the most difficult part of any endevour is taking that first step.
@sweetgirl_k1 (3972)
• United States
29 May 07
I sometimes take advice from others. But I listen to that advice and then I make the final decision as to what I want to do.
@ranjeetkolarkar (1595)
• India
5 Jun 07
yes, surely i do that.
but before arriving at the decision, i would try to take advice from all my friends and relatives and evaluate all the available options.
@lordwarwizard (35747)
• Singapore
2 Jun 07
Yes I do. I do listen and evaluate the advice received from friends, family, etc but ultimately I make my own decisions. This has always been the way since I was weeny. :P
@whyaskq (7523)
• Singapore
29 May 07
I may seek my parents' and friends opinions, but I will make the final decision myself. The opinions I gathered are for my references only as I often would already have my own opinion before I seek other's opinion. At times, the decision might appear that someone has made the decision for me, but it is always my own decision. It would be unwise to have someone making the decision for you as the person is not you.
@I_LUV_U (2519)
• India
18 May 08
Oh yes, always, and they often go wrong. LOL. But I don't regret the "wrong" decisions, because if I don't commit the wrong, I won't learn to take the right. And I will tell you what, each of my "wrong" decisions has eventually turned out right, coming handy in my subsequent decisions when I became more alert, mature and sensible.
@sanzi1201 (644)
• China
19 May 08
Usurally,I decide something according myself.I am a pigheaded girl.As long as I think it is right,I'll do it.No matter how oppose others.And,I don't care the result.I won't regret and complain.
@jannijanni (866)
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18 May 08
i usually ask other people's advices but always end up doing what i think as good, anyway. ^_^
@sunny5u (2069)
• India
28 May 07
Hi,I will take every step and advice by my parents only,If i have anything to say i will just put my words in front of them and let all think and take a right decision,this happens in my life from childhood onwards.Like this only i will take decisions.
@michelledarcy (5220)
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28 May 07
I think when it comes to big decisions it is always good to ask the advice of others as they may think of things that you didn't. However the decision should always be yours. You don't want to have to be blaming others if things don't work out. Its your life, take responsibility for it.
@easy888 (10404)
• Australia
28 May 07
Hello,subha,I will take all critical decisions completely by myself,I am an independent person.Although i may seek advise or sugguestion from other people,but i will be the one to decide something,i will not reply on anyone to make the decision.I have my own ideas and i will analyze the consequences of doing something.
@archer1811 (1098)
• Philippines
28 May 07
Hi subha! i am married and every decisions i take must have the consent of my other half, i didnt usually decide with my own, i have to respect my husband and if ever he didnt agree with me i still have to respect his opinion.


















