Saying thank you.
By patgalca
@patgalca (18481)
Orangeville, Ontario
July 3, 2007 12:30pm CST
Do you send thank you notes for gifts received? Are you offended when you do not receive a thank you note for a wedding gift or shower gift?
My daughter had her confirmation and graduation recently. She was given gifts of cash and angels and things. I completely forgot about thank you notes after confirmation but after graduation I wrote a note on her white-board to write thank you notes and listed who to thank and for what.
Do you enforce writing thank you notes to your children? Do you have to remind them or do they do it automatically? Sometimes my daughter does it on her own but I guess she forgot this time; I know I did.
Your thoughts.
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9 responses
@makingpots (11915)
• United States
4 Jul 07
I write thank you notes for gifts received. I think it is rude not to. If someone goes to the trouble to purchase a gift and give it to you I believe you need to at the very least acknowledge their effort. I will be teaching my son to do the same. As he is only 2.5 yrs old right now, I have him simple draw a picture to put in with notes that I send. Often I will try to take a picture of him using the gift and send it as well.
@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
3 Jul 07
I need to get into the habit of doing that, especially when my son receives gifts for his birthdays. I have never sent a thank you card only emails or called people to thank them. Maybe I should because its polite to do so.
@spiritwolf52 (2300)
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4 Jul 07
I do write thank you notes. It is the polite thing to do. If I don't send it in the mail I will at least send an email to the person.
@cher913 (25781)
• Canada
4 Jul 07
well i think that it is important to teach kids how to write thank yous...i cant tell you how many showers and weddings i have been to where people do not take the time to write a thank you note...
when i got married, i had 7 showers and wrote thank you notes to EVERYONE! even if you email your thanx, it doesnt matter, just let the giver know that you are grateful.
@bambi_doe (566)
• United States
4 Jul 07
I send out thank notes or cards for every gift I receive as I think it is the proper thing to do. I also get very upset when I do not even get a phone call from the recipeint of a gift that I had taken the time to give. I recently gave my niece 50 thank you cards for her 7th child as a hint that someone out there would like to receive one seens it is the 7th baby shower without a thank you. It may have been rude but after that many showers and the same people were invited I thought it should be a proper thing to do. After I receive the thank you I aways call the person and let them know that I received it and that I was glad they liked the gift and if they needed to exchange it to let me know. hugs
@lordwarwizard (35747)
• Singapore
3 Jul 07
Well, honestly speaking, I do not get that many gifts. The gifts I get, I normally received them by hand from the person. Or occasionally, they will be delivered by the postman.
But yes, I will always say thank you to the sender. :)
@jillhill (37353)
• United States
4 Jul 07
I send thank you's for everything and make sure I say thank you to service people like at the bank etc. I taught my children to do the same but find many families lacking in remembering to do this. I have one nephew and his family that never say thanks. Many times I have went out of my way to do something special for their children and never hear a word!
@milestalker (85)
• Philippines
4 Jul 07
I always send thank you mails, notes and letters to my friends. I will always do that coz i treasure them every minute in my life. They are like jewelry that shine in my life. No matter what happen i owe to them the happiness i have right now.










