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myLot reputation of 72/100. barehugs (5856)   ranked 843 out of 6,502 in religion 5 years ago

I can't understand why Christians are so passive about the Church Child Abuse Scandles. Yesterday I noticed, (near the back pages) in the Paper that the LA Diocese is paying out $300 million to settle up abuse claims. There must be Hundreds of Thousands of claims! Hundreds of thousands of Innocent lives, Ruined by these Pious Monsters. But who's objecting?
Nobody cares! Its a Non-issue! And its not only Priests and Pastors, but Bishops and Archbishops who have been charged. The abuse is bad enough, but the coverup by Church Leaders is the Most Heinous of Crimes. And still, almost No objecting Christians! What would it take to start a Backlash against the Church Hierachy? Its obvious that Nothing at all will Happen! It seems that Christians in general, are so Brain-washed by Religious Rhetoric, that Nothing Would, or Nothing Could, Ever change their Brain-set.


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1. myLot reputation of 93/100. Transdisc (18434)   5 years ago

Hello barehugs

You make a good point, and it is baffling. I used to be very involved in the church, and because of things like this and other things, I realized that it was not the place for me. So much corruption that is not only ignored, but rewarded in an attempt to appease and hide the truth.

While it is is heinous that these things happen and that the hierarchy covers it up, I think that the people who make up the church are also complicit by their very silence and desire to not get involved. This is not only true of the type of thing you have brought up, but for the very purpose that the church is supposed to have -- few people who are in the institutional church seem to give a rat's behind about actually loving other people. Is it any wonder they turn a blind eye to this sort of thing, when they turn a blind eye to the injustice that has become common in our society??

By the way, I heard that it was nearly 2 billion dollars total, with a recent ruling of over $600 million.


myLot reputation of 72/100. barehugs (5856)   ranked 843 out of 6,502 in religion  5 years ago

well No number of dollars will ever repair the damage. Everyone knows this, but everyone keeps very Quiet. They are trying to sweep it under the carpet, same as they always have done! May God Bless!



myLot reputation of 93/100. Transdisc (18434)  5 years ago

Thanks for Best Response, barehugs.

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2. myLot reputation of 89/100. sunshinecup (5903)   ranked 262 out of 6,502 in religion   5 years ago

I don't understand why you feel no one cares. BTW before I go any further, let me say I don't go to church. I have a HUGE post on that from several months back, if you ever wish to validate that. Ok, what would it take to prove to you yes, we Christians care about these issues and are deeply sicken by them? I don't understand what it is you see or are not seeing so it would help for me to better answer your question if I knew what it is exactly. BTW no attacks here, just looks like this could be an interesting converstation.


myLot reputation of 72/100. barehugs (5856)   ranked 843 out of 6,502 in religion  5 years ago

If Christians as a Group cared, there would be a Huge Outcry. People would quit the church in Droves. But it hasn't happened and its not going to. Its not even news now. Its been cleanly swept under the carpet!
So much for the Christian theosophy!


myLot reputation of 89/100. sunshinecup (5903)   ranked 262 out of 6,502 in religion  5 years ago

Well while I personally can't stand church for all of it's politics, I don't understand why all should stop going because of this. It wasn't the idea of worshipping together that caused these horrible deeds, but sick men. Their acts shouldn't dispel people from practicing their faiths. Going to church for many is part of that. In essence you are suggesting if one still attends church they support perverted twisted freaks. I don’t think the two are related. I have not met one person that felt these monsters that committed these acts and those that covered them, shouldn’t have been prosecuted. Some even wanted worse done with them.


myLot reputation of 100/100. lucy02 (4487)   ranked 48 out of 6,502 in religion  5 years ago

People go to church to worship God. Why would anyone quit for this reason? It has nothing to do with these criminals. I think they should be in jail but please don't tell me I should be leaving church because of what they did when that doesn't have anything to do with why I'm going in the first place.


myLot reputation of 72/100. barehugs (5856)   ranked 843 out of 6,502 in religion  5 years ago

Personally if I was Christian, and a faithful attender I would be feeling Very disillusioned. Do not these "monsters"( as you refer to them) represent God here on earth? Are they not your private confessors? Are they not your Holy Advisors? Although proven guilty they are not incarcinated, not even fined, and getting off Scot-free to give a Homily at Church this Sunday?
And you don't care?


myLot reputation of 89/100. sunshinecup (5903)   ranked 262 out of 6,502 in religion  5 years ago

Well, to me they are just mere men educated as to what the Bible says. Personally I think I can educate myself just as well and don't need anyone to tell me. But that is a different story. All priest, preachers and what have you, are not all child molesters. Those that have been accused from my understanding were not continuing to preach or I am sure lost many followers and rightfully so. However those that are not freaks, more than are, should not be punished for these crimes. Should we all stop visiting doctors completely on the behalf of those that molested their patients? It's the same theory in my opinion.

So yes we all care, anyone in their right mind does, but we aren't going to punish those that have not committed these acts or the field in which they worked and attacked from. To me that would make no sense.


myLot reputation of 54/100. petermason2000 (187)   ranked 2,212 out of 6,502 in religion  5 years ago

Are Muslims feeling disillusioned about what extremists are doing in the name of their religion? If so, and I am pretty sure many are, we are not hearing about this either. Should those of the Islamic faith stopping their worship because some suicidal lunatics are being taken advantage of by powerful leaders who are in turn sending these kids to their deaths for political gain?


myLot reputation of 100/100. lucy02 (4487)   ranked 48 out of 6,502 in religion  5 years ago

I am not Catholic so no, they aren't my leaders.

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3. myLot reputation of 80/100. elizabeth525 (441)   ranked 414 out of 6,502 in religion   5 years ago

it is weird. i guess they feel like if they do not admit to knowing then they are not guilty. it is one of those dont look, dont tell type of things. That is why alot of people find religion all a hypocrisy. Because in religion, they say Judge not...yet they judge. They say dont lay with others in bed...yet they molest children...no i am not saying ALL people in religion do this...by no means...but that .001% makes the rest look bad


myLot reputation of 72/100. barehugs (5856)   ranked 843 out of 6,502 in religion  5 years ago

Only some do the abuse, but others cover for them, and don't tell me the Pope was kept in the dark. Hes got his finger in it too! You can be sure of it. After all He's the "Holy Father" of it all.


myLot reputation of 94/100. ljegbers (5726)  5 years ago

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4. myLot reputation of 94/100. ljegbers (5726)   5 years ago

This is a very big issue and I'm not even sure I can even find the correct words to express what I feel. I think it is so sad that money, greed, has over powered the goodness in many church practices. What enrages me is the cover up because it centers around the church.

We can not put all Christains in the same catergory because there are so many Christian beliefs and followings. Remember Christain is a general term when refering to religion, there are Lutherans, Babtist and other forms of Christain faith that deeply frown on the Catholics for the scandals.

I am not a catholic, but I am a Christian. I can not and will not defend the wrong doings of another Christain following, just because they claim who they think they are. They have used power and corruption to enpower themselves to abuse others. It is sick and the ultamate act of crime against another and God.


myLot reputation of 72/100. barehugs (5856)   ranked 843 out of 6,502 in religion  5 years ago

Its a fact that some Protestant as well as Catholic church leaders were involved. The crime is bad enough but the coverup is slipping by unnoticed, and this is the Real Crime.THis is totally Unforgivable !
But again there is no outcry, and so its getting swept under the carpet!
Perhaps, after all, God doesn't Care either!


myLot reputation of 94/100. ljegbers (5726)  5 years ago

I know what you mean. It's like these statements were released as if "we" should feel sorry for these monsters because they are suffering. Suffering....Oh, yeah, I know your're sorry, sorry you got caught. They're supposed to be men of God and they are the devil in lambs clothing.

And the cover up is just, if not more, wrong. The church is supposed to help us feel safe and protected. Now that, that security is gone....I don't know. I remember reading a pole that a lot of people did falter in their faith, but they went to other churches.

And you're right, the cover up goes very high up in the politices of the churches, but I can understand why followers would continue to go to a church. They don't visit the church the crime took place, but they're trying to find peace in their hearts for these acts. They continue to practice their faith to find answers and healing. These men turned their backs on God, God's followers didn't.

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5. myLot reputation of 85/100. oneandonemakesix (23975)   5 years ago

First of all I want to say that the Christian church and Catholic Religions are 2 seperate religions.

I don't agree with what the Priests, Bishops and Archbiships are doing and I don't agree with them having ruined lives, but I think it is time, but don't think it will happen, that the Catholic Religion needs to look at letting priests get married. And maybe just maybe the lives on thousands of innocents would not be ruined.

But before you lump all religions together, please know that hte religion that is doing the abuse is not generally the same as the 'Christian' Religion, that's not to say that it doesn't exist in the Christian, and if it were to exist in the Christian religion, there would be just as much outrage....

So before you accuse us all of being monsters, please know that there are many catholic churches that don't pracitice in this and that this is I would hope condoned by the Pope and VAtican, as well as the general public, but that it is not also the same religion as Christianity.

Mooch


myLot reputation of 72/100. barehugs (5856)   ranked 843 out of 6,502 in religion  5 years ago

All organised religions sprang from the same root! they all have different branches but they produce much the same fruit. They were all started by men who saw a chance to start a lucrative business. Money and Power were the motivating factors. The Pope is just a good business man. God Bless Him!


myLot reputation of 54/100. petermason2000 (187)   ranked 2,212 out of 6,502 in religion  5 years ago

Catholicism and Christianity are definitely not two seperate religions. Catholicism and Protestantism might have some different beliefs, but the root is the same. We believe in one God. We believe in one Lord, Jesus Christ. For us and for our salvation, He came down from Heaven. He became man. He was crucified, suffered, died, and was buried. On the third day, he rose again and is seated at the right hand of the Father. Through belief in Jesus Christ, we gain our salvation.

Same religion. Don't let your pastors fill you with bigoted anti-Catholic propoganda. They are being inaccurate in their portrayal of Catholic theology.

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6. myLot reputation of 90/100. emisle (1702)   ranked 1,126 out of 6,502 in religion   5 years ago

I can't understand why it wouldn't be a main story. I know that some Irish Catholic priests have been named and shamed, good thing I'm not very attached to my religion. I think if you look at the church's history, particularly the Catholic Church, there has been a lot of corruption in its past and yet it has still managed to thrive. And what I hate the most are the hypocrites who condemn and judge others when you could rip their Church to shreds...it's a strange world.


myLot reputation of 72/100. barehugs (5856)   ranked 843 out of 6,502 in religion  5 years ago

Yes, very strange isn't it!


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7. gypsygoth (86)   ranked 4,273 out of 6,502 in religion   5 years ago

I've been a devout catholic in my younger years but after seeing such horrible things i've started to loose faith in it >_> for one when they say "secrecy during confession" it doesnt mean they can still say a person's story during homily only they didnt mention his/her name. its twisted, all these religioun politics dont make them any different from the state politics that they most often than not continue to oppose :P

if you're into history, you should look into my country's history. i live in the philippines and for 300 years we've been subject to the abuse of religious powers yet none of the people back then dared to oppose until some heros showed up to fight for the cause. i dont think its any different now, they're still up to their acts, trying to act all good but behind it all they cant live up to what they practice. i think if they want people to respect them, they should at least set a good example, but instead they just give excuses and say "we're only human." Jesus incarnated into human is an example that we can be like him and its not impossible.

ah well >_> religious issues like this really flares me up most of the time XD


myLot reputation of 72/100. barehugs (5856)   ranked 843 out of 6,502 in religion  5 years ago

Thanks for your "confession"
You are a person who can think for yourself, Congratulations on that!
Keep up the good Work!

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8. myLot reputation of 97/100. sarahruthbeth22 (15794)   ranked 44 out of 6,502 in religion   5 years ago

If I remember correctly , when the story first came out, there was alot of outrage from all types of Christians.But Americans have short attention spands. And the press went on the next big story.There had to be a huge cover up for this to go on for so long.I don't think that Christians are brainwashed. But if you are not Catholic, you follow the story from a far.I believe there are many outraged Christians, who are not Catholic, out there but they won't bad mouth the whole Catholic Church.So I don't think it is being brainwashing but political correctness that is stopping the outrage you want to see.


myLot reputation of 72/100. barehugs (5856)   ranked 843 out of 6,502 in religion  5 years ago

well I really don't care. I;m not a believer anyway. But i'm curious! About Christians sitting there with fingers in bum, not speaking out, when Their Church and all it stands for, is being defiled.....is this political?


myLot reputation of 97/100. sarahruthbeth22 (15794)   ranked 44 out of 6,502 in religion  5 years ago

I am not a Christian either so I am only guessing but I don't think their religion is being defiled.Especially if they are not Catholic.Is it political? I don't know.

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9. myLot reputation of 80/100. DeenaD (2403)   5 years ago

I don't think people are passive - changes are already occurring both inside and outside the church that will make it difficult for this kind of thing to happen in the future. If people "seem" passive, maybe it's just old news by now - this story broke years ago, and there's only so long that people can sustain emotional outrage, no matter how hard the media tries to keep us frenzied.


myLot reputation of 72/100. barehugs (5856)   ranked 843 out of 6,502 in religion  5 years ago

yeah perhaps its so old its rotten by now
The stink will remain for ever tho!

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10. myLot reputation of 54/100. petermason2000 (187)   ranked 2,212 out of 6,502 in religion   5 years ago

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myLot reputation of 72/100. barehugs (5856)   ranked 843 out of 6,502 in religion  5 years ago

Would Muslim leaders and Muslim Moderates like to talk about this. What is the Muslim world doing to combat terrorism by Muslim extremists?
If there are any Muslims out there who are willing to talk about this" Religion of Peace"? Please Explain!

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