Do you think I'm a bad daughter?

you are not bad for not giving all you good for giving what you and saving not spending the rest. Keep up the good work you have a good heart accept yourself

You are not a bad daughter, unlike me, whenever, I want to give money to my parents. They will reject my offer claiming they have enough making me feel anguish. Anyway, I have used to it. I told them if they needed me to provide money, I will be there always.

i don't think you are a bad daughter,because everyone need money to keep a nomal life. though you don't give all your salary,you give some of it is enough.you have right to save some of your money for your future life.i do think so.

no, i don't think that you are a bad daughter at all... you have the right to keep some of your money for yourself since you are working for it... so stop blaming yourself and just enjoy your life... you are good enough for giving some of your salary to your parents...

No you are not a bad daughter! My daughters have all lived with me at times after they have grown and gotten full time jobs. The deal was this...when they were in school...I provided for them and did not take a dime from them. Their money was theirs. All I required from them is to help me out with chores etc. When they got done school and were working, their primary goal was to save and be on their own. I did ask them to pay a small amount of rent and whatever my utilities went up as a result of them being here. I wanted my girls to be independent and so no i would never dream of taking all of
their earnings or even half. my 21 yr old just moved back in after being on her own. she broke up with her boyfriend.
she helps me with meals a couple of times per week and housework and helps with utilities etc. She is not costing me. I would not feel right in benifiting from my daughter as it is my job to help her be independent. she is not mooching from me and so we don't have a problem.

I don't see anything wrong with what you are doing. You are just practicing the right thing to do to save for the rainy days. Your would be very proud of you if she knows that. You will ahve your own family too and you have got to have some money for your own keeping.

i dont think your being bad if you dont give all of it. and why would you giveit all. you need some money too to go to your work. but the most important is your giving. if you think you have to give a little more sometimes when you think your mom really it. then do. but its all up to you. your the one who can tell how much is the right amount to give to your parents.

hi faylinn!:) I can totally relate to you. You're not a bad daughter if you do not give EVERYTHING to your mom. You also need to have some for your self. It makes you feel that you savor the fruits of your labor. But there's also exception to it. Like if there's really a BIG emergency and there's a need to use the money you saved, you need to share it.

That's just my views..

Take care and God bless! \(",)_

you cannot say you are bad,because you are trying your best.i think you can try to find a jib that have more salary.in fact, parents donnot want your money,as long as all the family members are healty and happy,it is ok!

I don't think it's like that. Keeping some money for your future won't be so bad. I'm sure your parents understand it also so don't feel that way.