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myLot reputation of 93/100. faylinn_chaeli (1446)   ranked 515 out of 11,838 in love3 years ago

Here's the situation, I am working with a very low salary but I don't give all of my salary to my parents. I only give a part of it to my mom and then the rest I keep for myself and deposit it in the bank. I don't buy anything for myself, I just save my earnings and give the rest to them. Do you think that I'm a bad daughter because I don't give all of my earnings, even if life is hard these days?

 
 
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41. myLot reputation of 70/100. subha12 (16450)   ranked 234 out of 11,838 in love   3 years ago

Not at all.
Its nice of u that u are giving something to ur parents.
who says that u sud give all u earn to ur parents.
Don't think u are bad daughter.
U are really good.

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42. myLot reputation of 99/100. subathra (2812)   ranked 1,196 out of 11,838 in love   3 years ago

Offcourse you are doing it rightly.since you save money in your account and dont waste it unncessarily your parents will only feel proud of you.Hope in later stages when you earn more you will surely help for familys expenditure by providing some extra money.Moreover it depends on family situation too.If our parents are finding very difficult to manage with least sum we should help them by giving some more money from our savings.Saving is for the betterment of future..so go ahead..

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43. badmanrahul (1)   3 years ago

no,u r not a bad daudhter.saving money is a vary wise thing to do.u r giving a pinch of salory to ur parents,that,s good.u may buy gift for them that will make them most happy.they don,t expect money frm u.just love them.

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44. myLot reputation of 90/100. sudiptacallingu (7200)   ranked 218 out of 11,838 in love   3 years ago

In India, sons were (still are) expected to hand over their entire salary to their parents once they started earning. This trend was expected to continue even after marriage when the mother would dole out whatever amount she wanted to her son, both for him and his wife. This was thought as the parents’ right for bringing up their son and the son’s way of showing respect to his parents. Needless to say, many families have broken up just because of this overpowering impulse of parents to extract their ‘pound of flesh’ from their children. Who put this idea of being a bad daughter into your head? Firstly if it was your parents, then please believe that parents can be selfish too in their own ignorant way and you will have to look after yourself alone after they are gone. So save as much as you can. Secondly, if it was your friends and relative, then just ignore them. Your parents know what is best for you and as long as they are comfortable (I didn’t say they have to live like kings), you should be comfortable too. Thirdly, if it was your own conscience, then rest in peace. There are many daughters like you (me included) who work and stay at their parents’ house before marriage without paying anything altogether. Rather I would suggest you to spend a small amount on yourself (you calculate it out) as you will see that very soon, you will be past the prime of your youth, with most of your small wishes and wants remaining unfulfilled. You will then start holding a grudge both against yourself and the world at large, which will not be healthy for your future.

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45. myLot reputation of 97/100. secretbear (5223)   ranked 36 out of 11,838 in love   3 years ago

if you're bad then im badder! LOL i dont even give a part of my salary to my mother! i seldom pay the electricity/phone bill. and i seldom do the grocery.^__^;; i do lend my mother some money when she needs some. LOL and sometimes its lending for free!^__^;; my mother doesnt force me to give a part of my salary to her. and i dont ask money from her anymore. as in NOT ANYMORE. i think that's her only consolation. LOL

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46. myLot reputation of 97/100. allknowing (585)   ranked 11,425 out of 11,838 in love   1 month ago

On the contrary your parents should enourage you to have your own savings account of which they should be proud. Children these days can be irresponsible and squander money on unnecessary things. I wish I had a daughter like you.

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