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sharon123 (51)4 years ago

Can lover be a best friend.

 
 
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j_thomas (850) response was accepted on 10/28/2006.
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1. myLot reputation of 91/100. tsmeesa98 (570)   4 years ago

I think so. My husband is my best friend


sharon123 (51)  4 years ago

do you share everything with your husband like u do with your best friend and what are his reactions.

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2. myLot reputation of 87/100. ssh123 (18249)   4 years ago

Lovers can be friends and friends can be lovers.
What is important is purity of love
Sanctity of relationship and
sincereity of purpose


sharon123 (51)  4 years ago

well i dont believe, cos lovers cannot become best friends inspite of sincerity of purpose or purity of love.

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3. myLot reputation of 91/100. J_peso (935)   4 years ago

o well if thats the case she can accuse you of making love to your best friend:))

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4. myLot reputation of 83/100. j_thomas (850)   4 years ago

Friends can be lovers.but lovers can't be a good friends


sharon123 (51)  4 years ago

I agree with you.

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5. myLot reputation of 55/100. KrishnaVeera (2064)   4 years ago

Why not? it will depends upon understanding.

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6. myLot reputation of 98/100. cyberfluf (2622)   4 years ago

I also believe that my boyfriend is my best friend. I share everything with him, and those can be good and bad times. He's allways there for me.
There's a serious part and there's a fun part where we can just have a good laugh and go out, just like I do with my other friends. Basicly, he's just like a friend only one I know even better and have affectionate feelings for in another way.
When you aren't friends with your lover and can't share most things (there might be things you don't share, but I guess most of it for sure) there might be something wrong in your relationship. After your first crush is over, I guess you should realize if you want to spend the rest of your life together love is not enough; you have to be able to trust each other, know each other well and love each other a lot.

What's your opinion on this?


sharon123 (51)  4 years ago

my opinion is that you cannot share most of the things with your lover which you share with your best friend. you have to hide certain things from your lover so that nothing goes wrong in our relationship or maybe we dont want to lose them.but at the same time we go and discuss openly with our best friend.

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7. myLot reputation of 97/100. JoyfulOne (4266)   4 years ago

I believe the best lover is also your best friend. A friend is someone who accepts you for who you are, has your best interests at heart, and treats you, and your opinions respectfully. They also see the fun side of you, besides your serious side. I wouldn't want anyone who loved me to be less of a friend. Ideally your lover should be your best friend, if not, then you don't have anything but a physical relationship, and not a true heart, mind, and soul connection...imho.


sharon123 (51)  4 years ago

Yes ideally lover should be your best friend but it never happens cos in lovers there is always a feeling of jealousy which best friends dont have and i think jealousy is only the option which seperates best friend and lover.

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8. myLot reputation of 88/100. Ynefz0r (727)   4 years ago

Sure they can. I share everything with my gf. I wouldn't share some things with anyone else in the world.

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9. myLot reputation of 93/100. tammytwo (2798)   4 years ago

I would prefer it that way but my husband does not think married people can be friends too.

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10. myLot reputation of 61/100. sanjais84 (133)   4 years ago

it is very difficult to answer


sharon123 (51)  4 years ago

why come one give it a try.

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