Creative Ashes?

@estherlou (5015)
United States
November 11, 2007 8:24pm CST
Now they are really getting creative! Make a special keepsake for the cremated remains of your loved ones. Put the ashes inside paperweights, glass ornaments, in diamonds, in jewelry charms or incorporated into a special-order painting! Other options include wind chimes, picture frames or into a stuffed animal you can cuddle! Times are a-changing! (article in Nov. 12, 2007 Newsweek magazine)
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@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
12 Nov 07
Hi estherlou! I really have nothing against such an idea. It is unique and somehow the ashes will remain with you in a decorative item that will somehow not so sad to look at. I guess, different folks, different strokes. But personally, I will just have mine remain in a casket or in an urn. I am still indecisive about it. haha.. Take care and have a nice day.
• United States
12 Nov 07
I think it is completely disgusting and morbid to have the remaims of a loved one manufactured into any type of product.
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@GardenGerty (169449)
• United States
12 Nov 07
I have heard of this, and it really beats all as far as a waste of money and resources. I guess I do not have much to say about this. I know where my husband's ashes are, and they are just ashes, not his soul or spirit. I have plenty of memories of him without some ashy nic nac. I would not do this. Would you?
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@estherlou (5015)
• United States
12 Nov 07
Even though I don't go visit my father's grave site or my sisters', (they aren't there), I still think I prefer to bury my husband in the future. I'm not sure about cremation.
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@sherrir101 (3670)
• Malinta, Ohio
12 Nov 07
I am going to be creamated. I cannot see me taking up that space in the ground. I don't know about having my ashes done up any of these ways, but I have always told my kids to scoop me up and put me in a mason jar with *from the kitchen of* on it. LOL I do think the paperweight idea is kind of neat though. Yes, times are changing.
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@alamode (3071)
• United States
12 Nov 07
I think I want to be made into a birdbath... I was just hoping to be sprinkled under the apple tree, but this would add to the landscape and help out the birds! I love this idea!
@dayzz25 (552)
• United States
12 Nov 07
That's just kind of creepy if you ask me. Would you want your kin folk to be on your finger, around your neck, hanging on your deck, sitting on your desk or laying beside you so you can cuddle with it? I know I wouldn't. I would proabbly have nightmares.
@deebomb (15304)
• United States
12 Nov 07
My grandaughter and I were discussing this the other day. I mentioned that I was to be cremated and she said something about puting some ashes in some kind of container to wear. Then we decided that that is just too morbid. It feels weird to think of someone, no mater how close we are, wearing my ashes around their neck. Just scatter my ashes and remember me with the memories that we shared.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
15 Nov 07
I can't make up my mind! Sometimes I think bury me in a cardboard box and plant a tree on me and other times I thinkscatter my ashes to the wind or maybe I could sit on my daughters mantlepiece so I can be close to them at last. It's a big decision and one's loved ones have to be in on it. I'd be interested to see what other people want.
@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
12 Nov 07
i told my husband that I want to be buried. He wants to be cremated, but as a Christian, I believe we were meant to be interred not burned up in an ash and scattered to the four winds or put in an urn. I know that some of my ancestors may have been Vikings and possibly there were also some Romans, but I know longer practice the old religions and I do not want to be burnt up as they did. Beside, well I figure people cremate to save money and I do not want people to think my husband was a cheapskate because he did not want to buy a coffin. That other decorations to save the ashes, what if they got broke and they had an auction and that lovely frame containing the ashes of Uncle Cedric was bought by this lady in the pink hat?
• United States
12 Nov 07
Thanks for the info. What you can do with ashes these days.
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@jillmalitz (5131)
• United States
12 Nov 07
Can you imagine giving your child a keepsake necklace or ring made of your ashes? I've seen some of the "diamond" creations and they are not bad but a little creepy to me. I would rather have my ashes scattered somewhere or used in the creation of reefs under the sea. So much a better use.
@blackbriar (9075)
• United States
13 Nov 07
I read about this in my local paper some time ago and thought it was pretty neat. Instead of having the ashes sit in a urn or scattered over the earth, have something made with them instead so you always have them near you.
• United States
15 Nov 07
I still like the idea of having them stuffed and put in the rocking chair in the corner to look like they are snoozing!!
@gwendovere (1279)
• United States
12 Nov 07
Quite cool! I've heard of the jewelry before. It's kind of morbid, but kind of beautiful!
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