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myLot reputation of 97/100. Sissygrl (5760)   ranked 138 out of 26,925 in people 5 years ago

I am pregnant with my second baby, and i am almost 28. I dont want anymore kids after this one. Two is totally enough for me. I just didn't want to have an only child, and this makes my daughter a big sister :)

I will be having a c section again, and told them i want my tubes tied at the same time. I have heard a FEW stories since making the decision about other women who have HAD their tubes tied and STILL gotten pregnant.

Just how well does having your tubes tied prevent pregnancy?!

 

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tags:  pregnancy, tubal ligation, tubes, tubes tied, birth
 
1. myLot reputation of 97/100. ravinskye (7733)   ranked 129 out of 26,925 in people   5 years ago

My neighbors granddaughter had her tubes tied. She had her son 10 years ago and then had her tubes tied. She was dieting and taking diet pills because she was gaining weight. Finally one of her friends told her she thought she looked pregnant. So she went to the doctor and found out she was.


myLot reputation of 97/100. Sissygrl (5760)   ranked 138 out of 26,925 in people  5 years ago

Oh dear! I hope this doesnt' happen to me! I Don't really want three kids, two will be good enough for me, when they start to outnumber the parents it gets scary for me!


ihave5 (1)  2 years ago

well i have 2 kids of my own and that is plenty in my house but i also have 3 stepkids. they are amazing you learn to adjust to having all of them. But im not feeling that great these days and i had my tubes tied clipped and burned while i was having a c section. i will tell ya that if you have had a previous its alot more painful when u have your tubes tied and burned at the same time but obviously if they are in there might as well get it done at the same time. but i have had some pelvic pain and painful periods also which i never had before. so i guess there is ups and downs . but i definetly do NOT want anymore children i think 5 is plenty for us. so good luck to all who want more and reversals. I wish you guys the best.

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. patgalca (6610)   ranked 94 out of 26,925 in people   5 years ago

My sister had her tubes tied, like, 25 years ago. She did get pregnant a short time after that. Being that the tubes were tied the sperm got up but the egg could not get down so it was considered a tubal pregnancy and had to be terminated. Keep in mind, that was several years ago and things may have improved since then... or not.


myLot reputation of 97/100. Sissygrl (5760)   ranked 138 out of 26,925 in people  5 years ago

He must have had some GREAT SWIMMERS!! lol lol. I sure hope they have improved. I dont want to be taking the pill or getting the shot for the rest of my fertile life.


myLot reputation of 98/100. patgalca (6610)   ranked 94 out of 26,925 in people  5 years ago

You know, a vasectomy is a whole lot easier than tubal ligation. It has become more popular than tubal ligation as well. And for God's sakes, haven't women put their bodies through enough! It's time for the man to feel a little pain. ;)


myLot reputation of 19/100. UnselfishShellfish (1081)   ranked 12,231 out of 26,925 in people  5 years ago

Actually a tubal ligation (blockage) is easier and faster and less painful than a vasectomy or a ligation.

www.essure.com I had it done. Painless and there was no surgery and I was wide awake during the 10 minute procedure.


myLot reputation of 97/100. Sissygrl (5760)   ranked 138 out of 26,925 in people  5 years ago

Well i'm having the c section anyways, so i'll already be open and ready for the snippy snip. Hubby says NO WAY to the scissors. lol i think he thinks he'll be less of a man or something.


myLot reputation of 98/100. patgalca (6610)   ranked 94 out of 26,925 in people  5 years ago

I think every man I know, friends, neighbours and relatives have all had the snip snip. It's not that big of a deal.


myLot reputation of 97/100. Sissygrl (5760)   ranked 138 out of 26,925 in people  5 years ago

hehe ok well i will give you his number and you try to convince him and see how that goes :)

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3. myLot reputation of 96/100. cher913 (21936)   ranked 450 out of 26,925 in people   5 years ago

well i guess it depends on who your dr is. i had a c section with my last daughter and had my tubes tied and that was 10 years ago...and well we havent had any issues...


myLot reputation of 97/100. Sissygrl (5760)   ranked 138 out of 26,925 in people  5 years ago

This gives me some hope :) thank you for responding :)

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4. myLot reputation of 93/100. dreamy1 (2519)   ranked 1,376 out of 26,925 in people   5 years ago

I have no experience with this but from the some of the stories it sounds like it does happen. You should probably think of some back up methods to use just in case.


myLot reputation of 97/100. Sissygrl (5760)   ranked 138 out of 26,925 in people  5 years ago

But if i have to take birth control ANYWAYS, then what is the point of going through the proceedure you see ? I want my tubes tied so that i dont HAVE to use any sort of protection, cause besides condoms, which are not very romantic, most have bad side effects and/or cause some sort of health problems!


myLot reputation of 99/100. PurpleTeddyBear (4614)   ranked 602 out of 26,925 in people  1 year ago

I too got my tubes tied, but I am also on the pill seasonelle (spelling?) which is the one that makes you have a period every 3 months instead of every month. I have PCOS so when I get my visit it is HORRID so the less visits the better!

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5. myLot reputation of 99/100. Trace86 (3618)   ranked 1,509 out of 26,925 in people   5 years ago

I have a friend who had two rough pregnancies and was counselled not to have any more children. Her obstetrician tied, cut and burned her tubes. They wanted to be really sure.
You have to be careful what hospital you deliver in also. My sister wanted to get her tubes tied but the hospital was Catholic and refused to do it. Now she is on the patch.


myLot reputation of 97/100. Sissygrl (5760)   ranked 138 out of 26,925 in people  5 years ago

I know that they will DO it at this hospital, i am just wondering if they will do it RIGHT lol. The birthing unit where i live is actually closed right now, and is supposed to reopen in january, I am due in april. So i'm HOPING it opens so i dont have to travel to another town as i dont drive nor does my hubby.

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6. myLot reputation of 98/100. peedielyn (895)   ranked 2,522 out of 26,925 in people   5 years ago

I finally got my tubes done after 4 children. My doctor performed a "permanant" procedure. He actually cut and cauterized my tubes. So the only way that I can get pregnant now is through in-vitro. Just make sure 100% that you want no more children. I am healthy and had healthy children, just wanted a fool proof way to not get pregnant anymore. I now regret that because I am finally with a guy, who loves my children, and wants more. It's my personal decision, just make sure you are sure of your own. Good Luck--oh my OB/GYN just told me that after a normal lap- (just cutting and clamping or tieing the tubes) there is a chance of the tubes healing after about 3 years. Mine was permanant so I have 0% chance of conceiving naturally again.


myLot reputation of 97/100. Sissygrl (5760)   ranked 138 out of 26,925 in people  5 years ago

Well i am getting on and age, and i think that two kids is enough for me, and my hubby has three all together. We couldnt possibly afford anymore kids lol. I will be sure to ask about all the options i have when talking to my dr.


myLot reputation of 98/100. peedielyn (895)   ranked 2,522 out of 26,925 in people  5 years ago

Good luck with that. i agree, i am 29 and don't really want more kids but I used to have the option of getting pregnant. that was the negative. the positive is that I am not getting a surprise every month just a normal period!! hope it goes well for you!!

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7. myLot reputation of 92/100. mcjeannie (294)   ranked 4,492 out of 26,925 in people   5 years ago

Congatulations to you and your partner.I am pretty sure your baby will be a lot of joy to the family especially to your 1st child.
My Mom is a midwife and she's the one who had strongly enforced family planning program in our hometown.As far as I know, she'd have an IUD(Intrauterine device after having four children).So far I heard her saying that women prefer to have their tubes tied rather than the one she had.And there are rare cases that pregnancy occurs after the procedure is done.
Basing from my knowledge on human anatomy, the fallopian tubes, that is where the ovum is released and goes all the way to upper two third of the cervix to meet the sperm in order to be fertilized and viable to create life.Since the tying of tubes can have an accidental loosening, It would be possible that the ovum could still be released to travel and meet sperm.It would be beneficial for women who had undergone this procedure to have a thorough check-up for at least the 1st year to ensure there will be no complications.I am pretty sure your OB doctor will assure you there is only a small percentage of being pregnant again.
Goodluck!

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8. myLot reputation of 91/100. sweetaspie52 (1440)   ranked 823 out of 26,925 in people   5 years ago

I had a tubelugation about 26 years ago they clipped tied and burnt the ends of my tubes yes to answer your question the tubes can sometimes become untied

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9. myLot reputation of 89/100. Shannon2 (241)   5 years ago

They don't just tie them now, they cauterize them. I don't know anybody who's gotten pregnant after having them done. The odds are infinitisimal all that is going to heal itself, and it's so much more effective and safe than any other method. Go for it.


myLot reputation of 97/100. Sissygrl (5760)   ranked 138 out of 26,925 in people  5 years ago

Thank you for your response. I hope that it does work, wish me luck :)


miraclepanda (1)   ranked 22,326 out of 26,925 in people  4 years ago

Hi! my name is rachel and before i was born, my mom had her tubes tied and burned, and then 11 months later i was born. There are only a few rare cases where this happens.


mmullen07 (1)  3 years ago

I had my tubes cut, tied and burned 2 years ago after having my 3rd child via c-section. I just found out a week ago that I am 6 weeks pregnant (in the uterus). My doctor said that in 15 years he has only seen 1 other woman get pregnant after this procedure, but it CAN happen!! I am 30 and did not want anymore children. When I asked to have the sterilization, I was very clear with the doctor that I did not want to worry about having anymore children. He assured me that there was almost no chance, but nothing is 100%. Please don't make the same mistake I did and use some other form of birth control if you do not want to get pregnant.


myLot reputation of 97/100. Sissygrl (5760)   ranked 138 out of 26,925 in people  2 years ago

hi mullen, i've had the procedure 2 and a half years now, and i haven't gotten pregnant yet, i think they done mine good.. ;P for a few months i was really sad i didnt' have the option to have more kids, incase we were stable finacially to have more babies, but then, i realized.. if i have another baby at 30, for the sake of having one.. that's a lil selfish.. considering i have two children already, and at 30 - 35 the increase in complications rises significantly from what i've heard.. and i have two normal healthy children, i'm blessed and happy with my family i have ;)


zoegirl888 (1)  11 months ago

hey, i am 38 and my youngest son is now 16 i had my tubes tied when he was born in 1994... in 2007 i got pregnant... i was happy cuz i actually wanted my new blessing.. from God .. but i lost the baby in my 12th week... i listened to my but of a husband then and had that depo shot and it messed my periods up bad... i actually want to have another baby with my new husband.... and i cry and am heart broken that i havent gotten prego since 2007.... and its now 2011... i pray every day that God will allow me to get prego agian soon cuz i am almost 40 now...

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10. myLot reputation of 86/100. heartuvgold (342)   ranked 2,608 out of 26,925 in people   5 years ago

I had endometriosis really bad and after trying all the options and running out of options, my last resort was to have my last child and breastfeed for as long as possible, so after three months of not being on the pill I got pregnant with my son. After his six weeks checkup I had my tubes tied and cauterized. I was told that it was forever.
5 years later, I was having the same old familiar symptoms again so I went in for an ultrasound, thinking the endometriosis had come back. My husband was with me and when they told us that I was pregnant, we were both overjoyed, but at the same time we wondered how it could happen. It wasn't in the tubes and everything was where it supposed to be but unfortunately after thirty minutes of us being happy we were saddened when they told us that the baby wouldn't survive. There was no pole or yoke sack. Three weeks later we lost the baby.
I really thought I had grounds for a lawsuit against the doctor who tied my tubes, but we found out that they only guarantee it for up to five years. It can come undone and you can get pregnant again.
After going through all this I finally decided to go all the way and had a complete hysterectomy.
I don't regret it for one minute. It made me feel healthier and I no longer have to suffer from the pain of endometriosis. Hysterectomy is the only sure way to keep from getting pregnant, and now with the new technology even a hysterectomy doesn't have to be the end of childbearing. You can get a uterine transplant now, but of course, if you make a decision like this, you should understand and know what you want. There are NO GUARANTEES.


myLot reputation of 97/100. Sissygrl (5760)   ranked 138 out of 26,925 in people  4 years ago

wow that would have been hard to deal with.. be happy that you are pregnant and then finally only to find out that you where going to misscarry.

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