Sometimes I feel abnormal.  

One of these days a very bright and brave mature adult somewhere is going to say to just one young person that relationships "simply happen", and that there is no magical formula available to "make them happen".
I feel sorry for young people today, girls, and boys, they are under extreme pressure from their peers left right and centre, to do what they are doing and get a girl, or a boy friend, and to get what they are getting, well life does'nt work like that.
Our Society is a "want now" Society, and even relationships are caught up in this, no wonder many youngsters go off the rails with booze and drugs in many cases.
My advice to any young person reading this, is "let it happen", dont be rushed into anything, because if you are, dissapointment beckons.

The best things in life are those things that "just happen", if it's going to happen, it will.

it sounds like it's deeper than just not having a boyfriend. I have never felt like this and thank god. I love my space and having to answer to no one. If your single it's not a bad thing. Just look around your friends and look beyond the happy smiles. Are these people free to come and go as you are. Do they worry about their boyfriend/girl friend cheating? Do they have the option of spending nights out with friends and family and not having to call home? You have so much more than your looking at. Why would not having a boyfriend make you feel bad? How old are you? Is it peer pressure of trying to be like everyone else?

If there's something I learned in my short and unimportant life is that you shouldn't do something just because everybody else does. If you're fine like this, there is nothing wrong with you in not wanting to change it.
I see you are 20 years old. That's not at all a late age for someone to start serious relationships. My humble advice is to get into a relationship when YOU feel it's the natural thing to do.

I completely understand where you are coming from. I suppose that it is not common today to see people who want to meet Mr Right, rather than simply Mr Right Now. I think that it is admirable that you are happy with the way your life is right now, and that you are prepared to wait until the time and person is right for you. I often see girls with guys who you know won't stay faithful, or stay with them for a substantial period of time. They are just playthings for that week, or for that month. So good for you that you are looking for the one, and are not desperately seeking the next notch. Don't feel wierd, because there is NOTHING to be ashamed about. In fact, I would go the other way. You are a good model.

Hi, if they were your true friends they would understand you.

Can you talk to your parents about this ?

They will probably tell you to just be you.

Growing up is a tough business I know, I was young once but I was always a bit of a loner, it never bothered me what other people thought. I just tried to do my own thing and search out company on "my" wavelength. Mind you I was a boy, it might be harder for girls, and im still pretty much a loner.

I am also single and am okay like this. I do want someone to spend time with, but I want the boyfriend too. I thought I was well on the way on that road, but I was wrong. Most of the people surrounding me are married. And not all of them are happy. I don't want to be like that. I want to be happy. Maybe it just isn't our time yet.

I'm single also and I wish I had a boyfriend too but at the same time I like being single, I have freedom and I don't have to worry about relationship drama. I see it that I'm young and I have plenty of time to get into a relationship and I think maybe that the time hasn't come, so I know how you feel.

I think you need a closed friend,beacause you can share happy or sad with he/she.

I think you should make a closed friend.Beacause you can share sad things or happy things with your friends.

Perhaps you will change one day. People need a partner. It makes the life completely. When you are happy or sad, you need someone to share with you.