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myLot reputation of 72/100. cynicalandoutspoken (2338)   ranked 774 out of 26,920 in people 4 years ago


Of course you aren't. Then who would I be? But seriously, are you? Even just a little bit?

This may come as a surprise but I wasn't always this way.

I used to be quite soft spoken. I had long bottled within me a torrent of insults and demoralizing taunts that spawn into existence at the testing of my temperament. I usually withheld these deleterious words in spite of my cynical nature to keep with the wholesome and loving image I portrayed, but in doing so I allowed it to became the termite infestation that ate away at my soul.

The it just happened one day, I had a breakthrough ... a fallout ... an all out witch-fest ... an epiphany; there was no wicked satisfaction derived from delegating my derogatory comments, but as I unleashed that pent up frustration that had accumulated in me since birth, I experienced a climactic release of anger and hatred, and it felt good ... really good ...

Now I just don't hold anything in anymore. I think I will live longer because of it.

I can be defined many ways and with many many adjectives. But I think cynical and outspoken top the list.

How would you define you? If not cynical and outspoken, then what?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 92/100. novataylor (2165)   ranked 2,226 out of 26,920 in people   4 years ago

Ah, Cyn, only you, darlin. Very nicely worded, I must say. A joy to read. But, to your question, hmmm, defining me.... Let's start with loving, because you know that really should top the list for me, and then I'd go with (and not necessarily in this order) smart, well-read, funny, open-minded, uninhibited, well rounded, and romantic. Ok, there it is. Of course, there are infinitely more adjectives to use, but I'm not coming up with any of them right now, so I'll just go with those I've used. Feel free to add any that you'd like. :)


myLot reputation of 89/100. Angelwhispers (4603)   ranked 4,410 out of 26,920 in people  4 years ago

Hello Sexy :))) good to see you this morning :)))


myLot reputation of 72/100. cynicalandoutspoken (2338)   ranked 774 out of 26,920 in people  4 years ago

You are all of those things. I can add more but they are just synonyms for the adjectives you have already used. And if you missed it in the fish's storage unit discussion you are not married and charged with the duty of spoiling me rotten.

See what you get yourself into when you neglect me for a few days? rasp


myLot reputation of 72/100. cynicalandoutspoken (2338)   ranked 774 out of 26,920 in people  4 years ago

now married....not not married! GRR. Why can't there be an edit button. Dad's typos are rubbing off on me mama.


myLot reputation of 84/100. sparkofinsanity (3868)   ranked 5,328 out of 26,920 in people  4 years ago

Nova. I love your name and have been reading your discussions. With your approval I would venture to say the only adjective you left out is *smutfunny*. lol
I suppose uninhibited is a politer way of putting it, but smutfunny just seems so much more you. LOL
Can I join your friends list? You sound like my kind of gal. lol

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2. myLot reputation of 89/100. Angelwhispers (4603)   ranked 4,410 out of 26,920 in people   4 years ago

I used to be a lot sweeter then I am now. Naive. In fact I am not crazy just been in a very bad mood for 40 years.


myLot reputation of 92/100. novataylor (2165)   ranked 2,226 out of 26,920 in people  4 years ago

Hello back to you, darlin. I've been thinking about you for a few days now - you ok? I'm free today, if you'd like to phone chat. let me know.

And you have not been in a bad mood for 40 years! Stop that. You are as sweet as you need to be and that's all that's required. Now, let's have some more adjectives, Angel. We'll start with that one : angel, (now you continue)


myLot reputation of 89/100. Angelwhispers (4603)   ranked 4,410 out of 26,920 in people  4 years ago

taking the head phones off give me a call :)))


myLot reputation of 72/100. cynicalandoutspoken (2338)   ranked 774 out of 26,920 in people  4 years ago

I like that. I'm going to get a T-shirt made that says that "I'm not crazy I've just been in a bad mood for 30 years"

Why do I see myself starting another discussion thanks to your comment. lol


myLot reputation of 89/100. Angelwhispers (4603)   ranked 4,410 out of 26,920 in people  4 years ago

LMAO I stole that line from Steel Magnolias, (Shirley MacLaine's) character Weezer Tells (Sally Field) M'lynnn that she is not crazy just in a very bad mood for 40 years. One of my fav movies and one of the best lines in a movie I have ever heard.


myLot reputation of 72/100. cynicalandoutspoken (2338)   ranked 774 out of 26,920 in people  4 years ago

I haven't seen that movie in ages! Definitely one of the best movie lines of all time!

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3. myLot reputation of 94/100. tinkerick (1252)   ranked 3,512 out of 26,920 in people   4 years ago

Well, I'm definitely not cynical, and definitely not outspoken - except when it comes to scolding my kids. Otherwise I'm empathetic, optimistic, creative, resourceful and sometimes brooding.


myLot reputation of 72/100. cynicalandoutspoken (2338)   ranked 774 out of 26,920 in people  4 years ago

Do you wear rose colored glasses too? lol JUST KIDDING! Those are all great qualities to have. You could be my polar opposite!

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4. myLot reputation of 68/100. LoudnProud (6249)   4 years ago

Oh Cyn,now everyone knows i am shy & say not much to anyone.
I am polite & speak when i am spoken to. happy

That was me being smart,ok here is the truth..
Nooooooo wayyyyyyyy
I say what i want to whom i want,tho sometimes i feel my wording in certain areas needs a little more effort to be
more Loudnproud...haha
Cyn i know if anyone has a scooby what i am talking about,it will be you.The words you have used above are more or less how i feel.
Anyway no worries,you carry on being cynical & outspoken.
I love reading your posts,dont change them or yerself.

happy


myLot reputation of 92/100. novataylor (2165)   ranked 2,226 out of 26,920 in people  4 years ago

I would agree completely, LoudnProud, you are an outspoken person who doesn't mince words, and that's one of the things I like about you. Neither you or Cyn should ever change a thing. Not that you would..........


myLot reputation of 72/100. cynicalandoutspoken (2338)   ranked 774 out of 26,920 in people  4 years ago

Little chance of change happening here. And I am so glad you clarified because as I started reading what you said I was shaking my head saying to myself, "they have gone and hit their head and are suffering from amnesia or something"

LoL

Our kind are a slowly dying breed my friend. don't ever change either thumbup

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5. myLot reputation of 86/100. ruby222 (2574)   ranked 1,832 out of 26,920 in people   4 years ago

No I dont for one minute think that im cynical and outspoken.Maybe not my nature.
But I understand what you are saying.
My Mum is a self confessed cynic on a grand scale!!!
Also she can be quite outspoken,which she will tells you go along with her age!!!!


myLot reputation of 72/100. cynicalandoutspoken (2338)   ranked 774 out of 26,920 in people  4 years ago

Self confessed cynics are the best kind thumbup

I think there is a gene that makes people cynical. Careful, it may just be a recessive trait of yours wink

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6. myLot reputation of 84/100. sparkofinsanity (3868)   ranked 5,328 out of 26,920 in people   4 years ago

I know I'm outspoken, but I've been repressing the cynical side of me all my life. I had one of those deprived childhoods too. *sigh* I found release in humor. So if I had to use two words to describe myself, I'd have to say, Outspokenly funny. Most people don't get it though, so spark of insanity pretty much says the same thing, just from a different perspective. People can relate to insanity, but for some reason can have a very difficult time with outspoken humor. They get the sting of the outspokeness, but miss the twist of the humor.
Are you shaking your head yet and thinking "what a nut job?" See what I mean? LOL


myLot reputation of 72/100. cynicalandoutspoken (2338)   ranked 774 out of 26,920 in people  4 years ago

Not at all. I think your user name fits you almost as well as mine fits me. And you got the funny part right, let me tell you. I always laugh at your comments.

everyone has the same idea of insanity but not everyone can agree one what is funny. You did well young grasshoppa ninja


myLot reputation of 84/100. sparkofinsanity (3868)   ranked 5,328 out of 26,920 in people  4 years ago

Chirp, chirp. lol
Do grasshopper's chirp? lol


myLot reputation of 72/100. cynicalandoutspoken (2338)   ranked 774 out of 26,920 in people  4 years ago

They do until you rip their legs off and cover them in chocolate and eat them wink

My god! Just let the innuendos fly today. What is with me?


myLot reputation of 84/100. sparkofinsanity (3868)   ranked 5,328 out of 26,920 in people  4 years ago

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7. myLot reputation of 80/100. mrpippo (720)   ranked 8,024 out of 26,920 in people   4 years ago

i'm in the same state of mind as you are ,i say whats on my mind to your face like it or not ,if you dont like what i'm saying ,well then i guess you must know its the truth and as they say the truth hurts.....
P.S. still trying to find that salad dressing recipe,i'm a chef and i have so many recipes to look through but i promise i'll find it for you.......................


myLot reputation of 72/100. cynicalandoutspoken (2338)   ranked 774 out of 26,920 in people  4 years ago

As I said before I can wait til Christmas for the recipe just as long as I have it in my box, all is good and right with my world.

I love people who aren't afraid to say what they think and feel. The world is full of way too many buttkissers nowadays.

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8. myLot reputation of 34/100. zukepr (11761)   4 years ago

I try not to be cynical and outspoken
I dont like inpersonating people and i know better than to cross you LOL
I dont really like confrontation but i will engage if I am in the right mood and I know i am right
I would describe myself as quiet but Bipolar


myLot reputation of 72/100. cynicalandoutspoken (2338)   ranked 774 out of 26,920 in people  4 years ago

quiet but bipolar! OMG! Too funny. You know they make medication for that disorder. I advise against taking it though. You might just find yourself more cynical and outspoken then you want to be wink


myLot reputation of 34/100. zukepr (11761)  4 years ago

The good thing about NOT being on the meds is when you have a bout of being cynical and outspoken you can just say that you dont remember doing it afterwords
I cant tell you how many things I have blamed on blackouts LOL

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9. myLot reputation of 94/100. Goodie123 (7548)   4 years ago

I am far too passive for my own good.
I know there is a monster inside me waiting to be woken, but just getting him to wake up is the key.
I see so many people really let rip and say what they need to say, while I sit back and think of the things I should say.


myLot reputation of 72/100. cynicalandoutspoken (2338)   ranked 774 out of 26,920 in people  4 years ago

Here is an experiment for you to try Goodie, next time you find yourself sitting back thinking of what you should say just start typing everything YOU WANT TO SAY!

That monster will be awake before you know it. The key is knowing how to put him back to sleep :)


myLot reputation of 94/100. Goodie123 (7548)  4 years ago

I need to be able to use him offline more I think.
But once he wakes up, I do not think he will easily be put back to sleep.
He has been sleeping for far too long.

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10. myLot reputation of 97/100. Natrak (1486)   4 years ago

Perhaps I could be cynical, but I prefer to express myself differently.
I had enough of cynicism from people I have been surrounded, and nothing good would come out of it.
It is too much bad energy around cynical people that soon or later drive me away from them.
I can except almost anyone for being who they are, as long as they are not pretending to be something they are not.
So, if you are really cynical and that is in your system, it is OK by me.
I was just on gtalk with my sister in law, and she said that she appreciates me for being honest and realistic. So, I guess that is what I am, well, at least, that is how people close to me think of me.


myLot reputation of 72/100. cynicalandoutspoken (2338)   ranked 774 out of 26,920 in people  4 years ago

Hmm now compared what your sister in law thinks of you with what your sister thinks of you.

funny how 2 people who know you so well can have so different of an opinion.

But I happen to agree with your SIL. You are very honest and realistic. But sometimes realism is a synonym for cynicism.

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