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myLot reputation of 98/100. pyewacket (8545)   ranked 106 out of 27,605 in life7 months ago

I just did a discussion about spring cleaning and the idea is that I really want to go through things with a fine tooth comb and get rid of a lot of stuff, including a lot of old papers that I just don't need anymore.
But are you like me? Do you find that there are some things, even though you realize you really don't need it or them anymore, you just can't part with, maybe for some weird sentimental reason?

With me I STILL have a lot of my old college term papers..I managed to do very well with term papers and yes, always got A's on them--they ranged from topics in geology, anthropology, art history, Egyptology, etc. Since I graduated college..gasps..in 1977, these papers are more than thirty years old...and yes, I know it's dumb to keep them, but somehow just can't part with.

So are you like me? You keep something even though there's really no need to, but you just can't part with??

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 96/100. GardenGerty (14140)   ranked 125 out of 27,605 in life   7 months ago

I can see keeping them. Maybe you could post them in full or in part on some site (like Gather) I have seen some very good historical pieces on there.(as well as some silliness) I wish that I had the poetry I wrote in high school and college. I think I would like it still. I do have some things that are hard to part with, like clothes that have memories, and little glass figurines, etc.


myLot reputation of 98/100. pyewacket (8545)   ranked 106 out of 27,605 in life  7 months ago

I had some short stories I wrote in high school that I threw out and wish I had kept. Doubt if the term paper material would be of interest at Gather though and way too long.....all my term papers were about 20 pages long...sheesh, even then I wrote a lotlol

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2. myLot reputation of 97/100. Darkwing (5804)   ranked 8 out of 27,605 in life   7 months ago

Yes, I'm exactly the same as you, my friend. I hoard things to the extreme. I hate to throw things out... I always say to myself that this or that will come in useful someday, and it stays put. I take after my Dad, I think. He was a terrible hoarder. lol.

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myLot reputation of 98/100. pyewacket (8545)   ranked 106 out of 27,605 in life  7 months ago

I know I'm exactly like that at times..I keep things with the "you never know..could use it someday" attitude..LOL


myLot reputation of 97/100. Darkwing (5804)   ranked 8 out of 27,605 in life  7 months ago

Sorry, by the way... I didn't ever get back to you on your last e-mail to me. How is that all panning out, with the foot problems?


myLot reputation of 98/100. pyewacket (8545)   ranked 106 out of 27,605 in life  7 months ago

Just did a quick email to you about thishappy


myLot reputation of 97/100. Darkwing (5804)   ranked 8 out of 27,605 in life  7 months ago

Strange... an hour later, I don't have it in my in box. cry

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3. myLot reputation of 88/100. slothgurl (249)   ranked 4,488 out of 27,605 in life   7 months ago

It's not like I'm a packrat or anything, but I have tons of stuff that I've kept. Mostly sentimental things like any cards I've ever gotten for birthdays, Christmas, Anniversay, etc. Then there's the shoebox with love letters, another shoebox with rings and trinkets from boyfriends. I have both of my Grandmothers old jewelry boxes. Diaries starting from when I was about 9yrs old until the 90's. (Some of the stuff in there would probly make a good book, especialy the 70's and 80's!!)Concert ticket stubs and programs from concerts in 70's and 80's. Old school work my Dad kept and recently gave to me. Newspapers with important headlines. Some fashion magazines. You know what, now I'm thinking I need to go clean my closet. It's starting to sound like alot of stuff!!! #:)


myLot reputation of 98/100. pyewacket (8545)   ranked 106 out of 27,605 in life  7 months ago

Wow you still have diaries from so far back? Funny, even though I'm bit of a writer I never kept diaries until fairly recently, but yes I've kept them as well...my "story" might be a good book to write as well and those "journals" might come in handy. Oh, yup..I have a number of old tickets stubs, programs and playbills from concerts, plays and so forth too

 
4. myLot reputation of 86/100. posham (544)   ranked 1,915 out of 27,605 in life   7 months ago

yeah, i graduated more than a year ago.. and though most of my papers were lent out to my friends in other universities, and my flashdisk which carry their softcopy was lost, my room is still a big clutter.. even my readings from college are safely intact in my room... my notebooks are still there.. i even find it hard to throw sheets of papers with songs or poems even though i can easily find and reprint them from the net.. it seems like if i throw them away, i rob myself of one fine day decades from today happily scanning all these things and remind me of how it used to be...


myLot reputation of 98/100. pyewacket (8545)   ranked 106 out of 27,605 in life  7 months ago

I think that's why we all tend to keep things as it is a part of our past and maybe days when we were a little more carefree??? Sort of a nostalgia thing??


myLot reputation of 86/100. posham (544)   ranked 1,915 out of 27,605 in life  7 months ago

yeah.. but my parents said that my room is like a wasteland.. i wonde why.. i also have their an antique bench which has this great carvings on it.. my dad said that it was older than he was but it's beautifully preserved.. i don't want to throw it away.. i use it as shelf for my books and notebooks.. haha..


myLot reputation of 98/100. pyewacket (8545)   ranked 106 out of 27,605 in life  7 months ago

I wouldn't want to throw out an antique bench like that either...sounds almost like an heirloom not to be thrown out


myLot reputation of 86/100. posham (544)   ranked 1,915 out of 27,605 in life  7 months ago

yeah, i agree.. but my mom doesn't like it, she says it brings bad luck.. haha.. just one of those superstitious things.. anyway, i like it and i'm not throwing it away.. it's made of Narra tree (i don't know if you heard of it) and no one manufactures with that anymore since it's kind of rare nowadays...

 
5. myLot reputation of 96/100. Transdisc (14727)   ranked 454 out of 27,605 in life   7 months ago

Hello pye:)

I have a problem like this with some things and what readily comes to mind are books that I have held on to through the years as well as some papers I wrote in graduate school and all the sermons I have written over the years. I don't know why I hold on to these papers but I just do.


myLot reputation of 98/100. pyewacket (8545)   ranked 106 out of 27,605 in life  7 months ago

Yikes..don't get on with books...I still have some of my college books..they're mainly science books too..so outdated as far as info, but I still cling onto them

 
6. myLot reputation of 94/100. Lakota12 (11458)   ranked 389 out of 27,605 in life   7 months ago

yes I do hold onto a lot of things mostly for sentalmtel momoreis have several totes with stuff in I wont throw away my daughter calls me a pack rat guess I am lolololol


myLot reputation of 98/100. pyewacket (8545)   ranked 106 out of 27,605 in life  7 months ago

Just I'm a pack rat a bit myself...yes, mainly keep things for sentimental reasons

 
7. myLot reputation of 62/100. YorkieBear (982)   ranked 3,952 out of 27,605 in life   7 months ago

I have so many things that I really don't need anymore and, probably won't ever even use again anymore but, just cannot part with. I do go through stuff every now and then with the intentions of getting rid of a lot of stuff just so there is not so much laying around. But, I could come up with thousands and thousands of reasons just why it is not time to toss it yet so back into the box they go. I even have things that are broken that I still cannot part with for whatever reason. Now, don't laugh, but would you believe when I do clean and go through things to try to rid myself of stuff, I will look at it and feel so bad that it has to go into the trash that I end up keeping it just so it has a "home".


myLot reputation of 98/100. pyewacket (8545)   ranked 106 out of 27,605 in life  7 months ago

I'm laughing hysterically about your wanting things to have a "home"--oh boy can I identify with that! I used to keep broken things like figurines, and tried to repair them, but some were so broken it was beyond repair, so yes, would sadly depart with it
I'm sometimes the same way with new things to in that they need a "home"--I'm a softy sometimes for stuffed toys in my local Walgreens...sometimes one stuffed toy looks so "sad" especially if it's all by itself and just kind of sitting there neglected that I can't resist and buy it "cause it needs a home"..am I daft or what?blushconfused


myLot reputation of 62/100. YorkieBear (982)   ranked 3,952 out of 27,605 in life  7 months ago

Ok, I'll admit, I am not embarrassed. I am glad that you are laughing though. Better you laugh then tell me I am crazy. (lol)

Oh, let's not go there on the stuffed animal thing. I have that exact problem. Worse too though. My daughter and I will go shopping after the holidays. Gosh darn if we don't come home with a herd of stuffed animals that didn't get bought and need a home. She has so many stuffed animals and she used to sleep with them ALL on her single bed. There was no way she was going to let ANY of them sleep on the floor. We had to go out and buy her a bunk bed so that she had room on her bed to sleep and the stuffed animals all had a bed to themselves. That was about 2 years ago. Would you bellieve the stuffed animals have almost outgrown their bed. Not sure what our next step will be.


myLot reputation of 98/100. pyewacket (8545)   ranked 106 out of 27,605 in life  7 months ago

Yikes your daughter sounds like the way my mother was...hehe...she was a REAL stuffed toy fanatic and there was hardly space on her bed for all the stuffed toys so she often had some on the sofa as well--I have a few on my bed now...not that many though..most of my bed space is taken up by my two live furbabies when I sleep at night
...oh, and as far as "saving" a toy and giving it a home...One time in my local Walgreens there was this cute stuffed rabbit...it was actually a dog's toy! didn't know they had toys like that for dogs...well every time I went into Walgreens that bunny would be somewhere else all alone ...sniffle, sniffle..like maybe a kid picked it up and maybe mommny said no, couldn't have it so just left it...then another day it'd be somewhere else, next day another place...finally I broke down and bought it myself...now that bunny is my little mascot that I have next to me near my computer..am I weird or what?shocked


myLot reputation of 62/100. YorkieBear (982)   ranked 3,952 out of 27,605 in life  7 months ago

Nah, not weird. If I said you were weird then I would be saying that my daughter and I are also weird. w00t You have a caring heart, even for things that are stuffed. And besides, look at me, I was the one that bought a bed for stuffed animals. My next step is going to be having to have a separate room just for them.

 
8. myLot reputation of 98/100. emeraldisle (9054)   ranked 4,014 out of 27,605 in life   7 months ago

I have a few things like that. Some papers i did in college are some as well. Some are twenty years old but I still have them. There are a few stuffed animals that I still have even though they are raggedy. One is a Fresca St. Bernard dog. It doesn't have the fresca can anymore but I still have the dog. It was my grandfather's so I hang on to it. The other is a teddy bear that I have repaired many times and it's been re-stuffed, but I have had it since I was 2, my great grandmother gave it to me. I also have a few books that even though I might not ever read them again I really enjoyed them as a child or a teen so I keep them for those memories.


myLot reputation of 98/100. pyewacket (8545)   ranked 106 out of 27,605 in life  7 months ago

That's funny you mentioned a stuffed toy..I still have my very first stuffed toy when I was about three years old..a stuff female kangaroo with a pouch for it's baby...it is so worn out it's not funny but just can't bring myself to throw it out


myLot reputation of 98/100. emeraldisle (9054)   ranked 4,014 out of 27,605 in life  7 months ago

I think I will always have the teddy bear. Yeah he might look worn and all but he is too much a part of my life. I won't ever give him up. He sits on a shelf and has a few other stuffed animals to keep him company. I think we are allowed to keep a few memories of our childhood with us, no matter how they might look or how old we become.

 
9. myLot reputation of 99/100. Katlady2 (4044)   ranked 51 out of 27,605 in life   7 months ago

Ohhhhh you have no idea how bad I am about that. I have totes upon totes full of papers that I don't need. I even have some old knick knacks from when I was younger that need repairing badly, and I can't find the broken pieces to fix them. But do I get rid of them? Noooooooo! It drives hubby up the wall too. LOL


myLot reputation of 98/100. pyewacket (8545)   ranked 106 out of 27,605 in life  7 months ago

Whew...I just started tackling the storage containers in my bedroom today..yikes can't believe all the old papers there, and catalogs from about eight years ago..trashed them...like why am I keeping them?...there's so much more to do, but if I had continued with those containers I'd be at it until 2 in the morning! But I had some old knick knacks in the containers too. and nope..couldn't bring myself to part with them

 
10. myLot reputation of 85/100. 4mymak (787)   ranked 2,814 out of 27,605 in life   7 months ago

i have a big problem with 'letting-go' my old stuff, too...
i also keep some of the notes, reports from my college days.. mostly because.. i studied in japan, and i really have a hard time 'letting-go' of all the stuff that i've kept from those years... trying to hang-on to the sweet-memories of the my days studying abroad..

you should see my husband's things... he keeps notes, reports, paper-clipping from his old jobs.. saying that he needs for references.. but.. everytime he changes jobs.. all he does is just add-on to the heaps of papers.... and i dont see him refering to the old ones... confused


myLot reputation of 98/100. pyewacket (8545)   ranked 106 out of 27,605 in life  7 months ago

I think the reason I cling onto all my old college papers is cause my college years were one of the happiest years of my life--was really carefree then...

 
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