How did you deal grievances between you and your neighbor?
By HULYO
@julyteen (13252)
Davao, Philippines
April 24, 2008 5:49am CST
one my neighbor rooms in our apartment so sarcastic. we have different source of water inside the house but some times we need to share the water outside specially during brownout. it so happen that this man first arrived at the faucet, he occupy all sides and never give me away so i can used also the faucet, instead he got angry because he is the one first so i will wait my turn after he finished washing maybe an hour. i, on the rush so i can't wait that long. it turns to arguments and he warn me, and bad words come out his mouth so i decided to transfer another apart but when i tell the real story to the owner, the owner don't want that i will leave. so i make her a choice, i am stay and the man should leave or the man stay and i should leave. the owner choose me to stay.
do you have your own experiences similar to mine?
4 responses
@nengs10 (3180)
• Philippines
24 Apr 08
If arguments or any bad things happen between me and our neighbors, I just keep quiet and don't say anything. I prefer to be in silent than to argue with them again and again. We can't get anything good from heated arguments. I just pray to the Lord and seek help.
@longbangod (1785)
• Philippines
24 Apr 08
Oh what an unpleasant experience. I didnt encounter the same problem ever, I hope I wont.
As you have presented, the reason is very simple, so why not talk it over once more in order to regain the relationship? If he will go or you will go, there will be something not being patch up, so you wont be friends anymore.
Anyway, you know whats best to do, just good luck!
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
24 Apr 08
I have never experienced anything like this. I feel sorry for you that you have to go through this. I would hope the man would leave so you could stay. He needs to be nicer to you since you are neighbors. He needs to learn to share also.
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