have you ever had a crush that looks fine to you but not to others?

Yes, so many. Every each of us has its own type of men or women. I noticed that I have a different type of guy from a friend and when I tell them that I have a crush on somebody, they usually say that he's too old for me or we're not physically compatible or something. I would just laugh. Anyway, it doesn't really matter to me. hehehe..

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i ddnt see the connecti0n between the last part and your head title.^^

but anyways, your are attracted to a pers0n but y0ur friends stuck up their nose about him.

you kn0w what? we all had our own eyes and had different views. its possible that they wont like the one you like. ( which is good though so jel0usy wont take the issue.^^)

its about how you see the guy.=) not how your friends see him.

hi secret hope he does not have a girlfriend somewhere its great that you have this crush and that you like him the way he is.

Hmmmm, if this is the same guy you were mooning over a while back, don't tell me it wasn't anything serious. You sound head over heels, grrrrl! Really, who cares what other people think if you like him.

Yes, now that you mentione it, way back in high school there was a boy that I didn't exactly have a crush on, but he was nice to me and a good friend, but the other classmates made fun of his chin. I thought they were terrible for that, because he couldn't change his chin, you know, and it wasn't so bad looking, just a little different. I didn't get romantically interested in him, though, because I would never have been able to stand his mother. One has to consider that sort of thing, you know. When one marries, one marries the whole family.

Hello secretbear. No worry,secret bear.I won't think that you are stupid.Instead,I think that it is very normal for one to have crush on someone before they both fall in love with each other in the end. This is human. So be brave enough to chase the love you are fond of.May I wish you all the best and good luck!

Don't listen to others when they bring up things about his physic....it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks but you. If you have a crush on him...then just concentrate on that. Some might have just a ting of jealousy for if they are knocking his physical looks....that's pretty shallow! Go for it girl. I hope you get a chance to connect in a special way!

I am glad to see that looks are not everything to you, you are looking at him deep inside. More people need to look at people like you do. Before he leaves for the US you need to talk to him and find out if he does have a girlfriend and let him know how you feel. It will give him something to think about while on his vacation. If he does find a job and stays in the US maybe he would send for you one day.
Good luck with him, I hope it all works out like you want it to.

I think that everyone always looks at another girls fella in a different way from them, I think my hubby is gorgeous, but you might look at him and think ewwww!!

It sounds like you really get on well together and you really like him, is there anything between you or are you just friends, only with you saying he might have a girlfriend it sounds like you do not know if he has or not.

Oh yes, I have experienced that too. Perhaps because we have our own different taste and type.

I think you should not be bothered about it. As long as you like the person and you have seen the qualifications you're looking for to him.

I am sad that he's leaving the country but despite of that please dont lose hope. If you were really meant for each other, then God will make a way for the two of you to see each other again in the long run or future. Keep smilin':-)

Rejoice my friend, for if he looked great to others, you'd have tons of competition! I was lucky, my friends and I never had a crush on the same guy. I know others who did and wow, what fighting!

Sorry about him going to the US. He may not find a job here, though, I'm having a rough time finding one. Many people are being let go.

One month isn't very long to find a job unless he starts in advance or is really, really lucky or "knows someone."

I think your crush is cute. Take care and good luck.