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myLot reputation of 96/100. TerryZ (11466)   ranked 243 out of 38,039 in life2 years ago

Life can really suck sometimes. I just got in from a having a great day and got a message from my friend to call her. I used to work with her and her mother for years. And we were very good friends outside of work. Her mother died last night at 3 in the morning. she died in her sleep. Im so upset and I cant stop crying. I just dont know what to do. Do you have any suggests for me?

 
 
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Goodie123 (7548) response was accepted on 6/3/2008.
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tags:  friend, death, grief, died, friends
 
11. myLot reputation of 87/100. callarse1 (2885)   ranked 104 out of 38,039 in life   2 years ago

Awww, death can be sad to friends/family. Now, you will be sad, so it's okay to grief. You can talk to other friends and see what they can do with you. Eventually you will move on, but you will know that the person who passed is always there to oversee your situations.

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myLot reputation of 96/100. TerryZ (11466)   ranked 243 out of 38,039 in life  2 years ago

I know I just havent had some so close to me die in a while. I promise to be strong for my friend.

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12. myLot reputation of 80/100. Rozie37 (7142)   ranked 2,529 out of 38,039 in life   2 years ago

Well it may sound like I am trying to be funny, but look on the bright side. She went in her sleep. Boy my life would be so much sweeter if I knew that when I die I will go peacefully in my sleep. That is a heck of a lot to hope for.
Thank God for allowing you to know such a wonderful person. She had to be. She was a friend outside of work and obviously raised a wonderful daughter who is also your friend. Pretty soon you guys will be getting together to remember the good times that you shared.
It is still very rare for a relationship to last beyond the work place. Consider yourself blessed to have known her. Now you can be a blessing by being there for her daughter in her time of need. And the circle of life continues.


myLot reputation of 96/100. TerryZ (11466)   ranked 243 out of 38,039 in life  2 years ago

No I understand you Rozie. But the way I deal with dealth is I get very bitter but it passes. I must be strong for my best friend. And I will. I know its part of life but I dont have to like it.

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13. myLot reputation of 88/100. rsa101 (7316)   ranked 3,959 out of 38,039 in life   2 years ago

Well I thinks its pretty normal for you to feel that way. Losing a friend that way would definitely be painful. The next best thing that you can do is to go there and share your feelings with your friend and bid her your final goodbye. Let's just say that where ever she is right now, she is in a better place and might be happier to where she is right now. For you to make it go through this is thinking positively in life but in the meantime you have the right to mourn for her.


myLot reputation of 96/100. TerryZ (11466)   ranked 243 out of 38,039 in life  2 years ago

I know your right but tonight Im bitter and dont want to talk or see her tonight. Tommorrow I will be there for her. And I will be strong.

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14. myLot reputation of 93/100. Goodie123 (7548)   ranked 1,034 out of 38,039 in life   2 years ago

It is so sad when someone close to us die Terry.
I know you would love to be with your friend in her time of need.
Maybe if hubby has time he could take you, if your friend does not live too far away.
I think your friend would find great comfort in seeing you,.


myLot reputation of 96/100. TerryZ (11466)   ranked 243 out of 38,039 in life  2 years ago

She lives very close to me but Im just not ready to see her. I will see her tommorrow and will be there for her every step of the way. Shes my best friend. I will cry my eyes out tonight.


myLot reputation of 93/100. Goodie123 (7548)   ranked 1,034 out of 38,039 in life  2 years ago

I'm sorry for your loss Terry.
Am glad you will be there for your friend, even as upsetting as it is for you.
Just be careful of your neck please.
Do not go overdoing it.


myLot reputation of 93/100. Goodie123 (7548)   ranked 1,034 out of 38,039 in life  1 year ago

Thank you for best response Terry.
I hope your friend is okay now.

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15. myLot reputation of 98/100. WANDALIE44 (641)   ranked 5,738 out of 38,039 in life   2 years ago

im so sorry to hear that, all that can be done at this time is be thier for your freind and offer prays for the family, she is at peace now. time will heal you both. she will aways be close by...hope you feel better..


myLot reputation of 96/100. TerryZ (11466)   ranked 243 out of 38,039 in life  2 years ago

Thankyou I must be strong for my friend.

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16. myLot reputation of 98/100. angelwhispers30 (1907)   ranked 959 out of 38,039 in life   2 years ago

The most important thing is to take the time to grieve properly, and to let your friend know that you're there for her. There's not much else you can do.

When a death occurs unexpectedly, it always hits harder because there's that feeling of not having had the opportunity to say goodbye.

Take each day at a time. Don't try to force yourself to do too much, and if you work, maybe arrange for a few days compassionate leave to give yourself time to get over the shock.

Hang in there. Time does heal somewhat, and it will get easier.


myLot reputation of 96/100. TerryZ (11466)   ranked 243 out of 38,039 in life  2 years ago

No I dont work I just had spinal surgery. And I do know very much about sudden death it happen to my mom when she was 57. It took me a very long time to get over. Right now Im just angry.

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17. myLot reputation of 89/100. nishdan01 (2346)   ranked 1,604 out of 38,039 in life   2 years ago

May her soul rest in peace. You can use word of comfort as your friend as she passes through one of the hard times. Our condolences!.


myLot reputation of 96/100. TerryZ (11466)   ranked 243 out of 38,039 in life  2 years ago

Isnt life just great?

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18. myLot reputation of 95/100. giePortlandOR_08 (3894)   ranked 888 out of 38,039 in life   2 years ago

I am sorry to hear this bad news.Life is sometimes bitter for us.We really never know when is our time.Its just came unexpectedly.I lose my parents and brother also and i know how hurt to lose someone we love and close to our heart.As a friend just be there for your friend and support her whatever you can.Be there with her in times of her mourning.This reminds me of my mom too.My condolences and my prayers for your friend and her family.


myLot reputation of 96/100. TerryZ (11466)   ranked 243 out of 38,039 in life  2 years ago

Yes I do know about death I lost my mom when she was only 57. Thanks for your prayers.


myLot reputation of 95/100. giePortlandOR_08 (3894)   ranked 888 out of 38,039 in life  2 years ago

Your welcome!

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19. yoyo1198 (97)   ranked 7,963 out of 38,039 in life   2 years ago

Yup. It IS sad. I have found in these situations that you just have to take one day at a time. And if you can't make the day, you break it down to hours. And if you find that the hours become to big of a goal then you just try to make it through the next few minutes. You have to do what you can for YOU before you can do for your friend or you won't be worth a plugged nickel to her.

I am truly grieving for your loss and wish you the best in getting through this. It will take a long time.


myLot reputation of 96/100. TerryZ (11466)   ranked 243 out of 38,039 in life  2 years ago

Yes I do know about death my mom died at the age of 57. I really didnt have anyone help me through it. And I will make sure I help my friend through this. It may take a long time or may not. We dont know the future. Thanks but you dont need to grieve my loss. Enjoy your life its too short.

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20. nancy_string (15)   ranked 20,173 out of 38,039 in life   2 years ago

life is fragile,it's cruel,but it's true,so the only thing you could do is to move on.


myLot reputation of 96/100. TerryZ (11466)   ranked 243 out of 38,039 in life  2 years ago

Yes I do know that! I will move on when I ready. Or maybe not!

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