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myLot reputation of 96/100. TerryZ (11466)   ranked 246 out of 38,384 in life2 years ago

Life can really suck sometimes. I just got in from a having a great day and got a message from my friend to call her. I used to work with her and her mother for years. And we were very good friends outside of work. Her mother died last night at 3 in the morning. she died in her sleep. Im so upset and I cant stop crying. I just dont know what to do. Do you have any suggests for me?

 
 
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21. myLot reputation of 94/100. dfn12968 (5538)   ranked 689 out of 38,384 in life   2 years ago

Terry, I am so sorry to hear about your friend. This is very sad news, and I wish I knew the right thing to say to help. Unfortunately, it's just time that makes it easier.

Sometimes talking to friends can help, so please talk to us as much as you need to. We are here to listen.

Again, please let me know if there is anything I can do for you, okay?


myLot reputation of 96/100. TerryZ (11466)   ranked 246 out of 38,384 in life  2 years ago

I will do that D. I just woke up and right now Im just numb. Thanks friend.

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22. myLot reputation of 96/100. moonlitmagikchild (7151)   ranked 262 out of 38,384 in life   2 years ago

*hugs* i dont know what to say but im so sorry to hear about your loss


myLot reputation of 96/100. TerryZ (11466)   ranked 246 out of 38,384 in life  2 years ago

Thats okay sometimes we dont even have to speak words. I thankyou for your hugs. xxx

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23. myLot reputation of 97/100. sarahruthbeth22 (10472)   ranked 653 out of 38,384 in life   2 years ago

I am so sorry for you lost.At least she wasn't in any pain.There isn't any set thing to do. If you feel like crying, cry.Try to eat something during you regular meal times.And if this will help you feel better, have your family around you. if you rather be alone, tell your family you rather be alone.Do whatever you think will help you grieve and what can make you feel a little bit better.Take care.


myLot reputation of 96/100. TerryZ (11466)   ranked 246 out of 38,384 in life  2 years ago

Thats great advise my friend. And I thankyou. Life is special.

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24. myLot reputation of 96/100. Deea48 (900)   ranked 1,548 out of 38,384 in life   2 years ago

Oh that is aweful. I am sure right now there just is not much I can say. She was a friend and a fellow worker. Hard to handle I am sure. Just try to take care, you need to grieve and get over the suddeness of it all. Just do what you need to do. We are here if you need. Take good care and I am so sorry for the loss of your friend. sad


myLot reputation of 96/100. TerryZ (11466)   ranked 246 out of 38,384 in life  2 years ago

Hey Deea thankyou they were wonderful words. Im feeling alittle better today.Hugs!

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25. myLot reputation of 72/100. jannijanni (563)   ranked 7,850 out of 38,384 in life   2 years ago

hi...i'm sorry to hear what had happened terryz...my condolences...

just remember how nice it was knowing her. find a good memory and hold on to that. that's how she should stay in your mind forever.


myLot reputation of 96/100. TerryZ (11466)   ranked 246 out of 38,384 in life  2 years ago

Thats what Im trying to do. thankyou

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26. myLot reputation of 90/100. chivolaski (418)   ranked 4,161 out of 38,384 in life   2 years ago

i'm really sorry to hear that, i'm not really the best person who can give advice but if I were in her shoes I would really want someone to show me that they really care and be there for me now since my mom will no longer be around...


myLot reputation of 96/100. TerryZ (11466)   ranked 246 out of 38,384 in life  2 years ago

I do know that I must be strong for my friend.

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27. myLot reputation of 44/100. catgotmytongue (189)   ranked 6,893 out of 38,384 in life   2 years ago

All this is a part of life...Life has its own ups and downs and although we feel really hut and sad when something like this happens, time heals all wounds...just be with your freind and give her all the support she needs


myLot reputation of 96/100. TerryZ (11466)   ranked 246 out of 38,384 in life  2 years ago

Yes I do know that.

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28. kilryche (7)   ranked 25,561 out of 38,384 in life   2 years ago

i know its hard to accept the situation happened to you, but life goes on. dont let depression stuck in yourself. just pray the eternal repose of the soul of your mother's friend. wherever she is im sure she's not happy because you're sad. just pray and everything will be fine..


myLot reputation of 96/100. TerryZ (11466)   ranked 246 out of 38,384 in life  2 years ago

Easy for you say. I am sad at will be sad for as long as it takes. And praying will not make everything fine.

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29. myLot reputation of 97/100. simplysue (527)   ranked 5,661 out of 38,384 in life   2 years ago

Terry, speaking as someone who lost her Mom suddenly from a massive heart attack, please stop worrying about being strong for you friend and just go and be with her. It's ok for you to cry in front of her, you'll be crying with her and she'll know what you're feeling. What's important right now is just being with her. Please remember also that everyone is there for a person between the death and the funeral but after the funeral few people are there when a person really needs to talk or for someone to just be there with them.When the shock wears off it's very difficult to get through the day without the support of your friends. I'm so sorry for your and your friends loss. Hugs to you both.


myLot reputation of 96/100. TerryZ (11466)   ranked 246 out of 38,384 in life  2 years ago

Yes I do know that I lost my mom when she was57. I will be strong for my friend. Because thats just me. thanks

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30. myLot reputation of 98/100. lexus54 (2665)   ranked 5,901 out of 38,384 in life   2 years ago

Terry, I feel for your loss even though this person is a friend and not an immediate family or relative. Life is a transcient. As mortal beings, we all have to leave this earth one day; it is just a matter of when it will be for each one. The time happened to have arrived for this dear lady, but if it's any consolation, she died peacefully rather than in suffering. There's nothing you can do to stop that since God is in control and decides when it is time someone goes. What you can do is to be a source of companionship and comfort to your friend at a time like this. Be there for her and let her know that she is not alone in her grief, and that she can lean on you for any needs. Lend her a shoulder to cry on, and cry with her too if that will help her. That's what you as a dear friend of hers can do at a time like this.

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