My friend died

Terry I am so sorry to hear of your loss my dear - it must have hit so hard after such a good day! As for what to do sweety I am not sure - all I can say is that we all cope in different ways and have our own ways of dealing with our loss! I would say that there is no harm on crying - it releases a lot of the pain that would just build up otherwise. sometimes I feel writing down my emotions and/ or memories of the friend or loved one that has died can help enormously! I know it is more of a shock for those that are left behind when someone dies so suddenly but at least she died peacefully and not in pain and struggling! Hugs and prayers Terry xxx

The passing of someone we care about is alsways hard. Just be compassionate and let your friend know you are there for her. It is always hard when it is someone you are close to. I had a close friend die of cancer a few years ago. Her daughter and my daughter were really close friends (practically inseperable like two peas in a pod) and it was so hard. Try to remember the good times and what a special person she was and try not to dwell on her passing.

i'm so sorry to hear that terry..life is just so unpredictable..you remind me of a friend who died so sudden..we just saw each other after 10 yrs of migrating in US then i found out months later she died from liver cancer..she didn't know and we didn't know either..its like a sign of her coming back without planning it so just to spend time not knowing it'll be our last time together...

It's really hard when someone special or someone you love dies. I also experienced it when I was in high school. My seatmate, together with her family died because their house was burnt down. No one who lived there survived. It was really hard for us to accept it. But thats life. Just think that your mother's friend died peacefully and not by suffering from pain or sickness. Acceptance is really important.

Here's a big Wolfie hug for you sweetheart, I was so sorry to hear that about your friend, you are doing the right thing by crying, believe it or not so many people just can't let it all out and cry and I for one cannot do that, if I could cry then I think half the problems I carry around with me would have gone years ago, I was always told that boys shouldn't cry and I guess I've carried that around with me all through my life, crying helps, so does time. You have friends who love and care for you, two beautiful animals to be with so that you are not alone. Life is shite it really is and sometimes it doesn't rain it pours, I sometimes wonder if life is just one big game and we are all on a giant board game and we have to throw the dice some of us keep landing on the shite squares and some are lucky enough to avoid them and why is it always the good people who get the bad hands in life eh? Sorry I should be cheering you up, forgive this old wolf he's feeling maudlin at the moment so I guess we both need a hug eh and maybe you can help me to cry in the process it would be soooo healing xxxx

My condolences to you.May god give you comfort in your sorrow and hope to continue living each day.Remebering our departed loved one's is also a comfort.Like good friends memories grow more precious with the years and when sorrow strikes they help to fill the gap.

Hi, TerryZ, I'm sorry to see this sad things happen to you. Well, I know how it feel when a friend that's close to us died suddenly. But I believe you will get through it soon. I think your friend will also hope that you can live well even when she die. You are allow to cry and grief for her, but remember to get through it and be stronger and live better not only for yourself, but also for your friend who died too.

Hope this will help you.

My deepest sympathy to you Terry. The death of a loved one, even a close friend, is always so painful. There is no time limit for the tears and there really is no easy way to stop them. It is a natural thing. Try and remember all the good times and hopefully that will bring more smiles then it will tears.

Aw Terry (((HUGS))) I am so sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you and your friend. It is very hard losing a parent, and it takes time for the hurt to go away. But it will hun. Stay rested and you will start to feel a bit better every day. I lost both my parents eight days apart. It was very hard and I still miss them a lot. But I know they are not suffering anymore and they were ready to go, even if we weren't ready to let them go. Life does go on and there are many other who depend on us and need our love. Take care and be supportive as much as you can, but take care of yourself too sweetie.

I am so sorry for the loss. My condolences. Your presence would be a great help to your friend. Stop crying now and gather yourself. We all have a final end to this earth. She just went ahead. Be glad that you will be there for your friend to comfort her. So, dry your tears now. Your friend would be happy to see you as a person she can cry on. She lost her mother and she would appreciate a friend nearby to comfort her in her grievances. Take care=)