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myLot reputation of 79/100. holachika (149)   ranked 380 out of 4,904 in mother3 months ago

I was doing some housekeeping and this time I had to deal with my son's overflowing basket of toys. All of his toys - old and new, good condition or broken - are all contained in that one big basket. I tried sorting them out according to age appropriateness (like baby toys to cars) and its condition (like if it's working or it's broken). When I've sorted them all out and was about to throw them out the garbage, my son stopped me. He said he doesn't want to part with his toys and he likes them broken, too. What to do without breaking his heart? I'm running out of storage space.

 
 
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Fiammetta (36) response was accepted on 6/21/2008.
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1. myLot reputation of 94/100. edgyk8inmomma (1084)   ranked 101 out of 4,904 in mother   3 months ago

My best advice to this, is wait till he is sleeping to do these things, or not in the house. I've tried many tactics, but it never fails, they instantly become more attatched to the toys once they know they will be gone.
One thing that has worked at times, is waiting till just before a birthday or Christmas. And telling the kids, no new toys will be allowed in unless old toys go out. They can decide to pass them onto a friend, donate to charity, put in yard sale, or throw away.


myLot reputation of 79/100. holachika (149)   ranked 380 out of 4,904 in mother  3 months ago

thanks for the advice! i rated this positively.

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2. myLot reputation of 92/100. tinkerick (796)   ranked 1,315 out of 4,904 in mother   3 months ago

I used to have to clean out their toys when they weren't around (although I'd keep the ones I knew they really loved still). It's the "Out of Sight, Out of Mind" philosophy. It worked too. There were only a couple of times where they mentioned a toy that was long gone.

Now that they are older (my youngest is now 7) they are able to understand the need to get rid of old toys to make room for new ones. We still run into some old forgotten toys being retained on sight, but for the most part they are ok with it now.


myLot reputation of 79/100. holachika (149)   ranked 380 out of 4,904 in mother  3 months ago

i think this will also work. out with tne old, come in new ones... thanks.

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3. Fiammetta (36)   ranked 1,330 out of 4,904 in mother   3 months ago

It's tricky. I usually put them in the attic for about 6 months and if they're not missed- they go. Sometimes we pick toys together to bring to Oxfam but the only problem with that is that my five year old usually sees a toy there that he wants. Some of the toys there are in fab condition so I give in. Its good recycling but it still causes clutter! I keep a big tub of plastic toys in the garage that can be used in the garden.

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4. myLot reputation of 89/100. uath13 (2436)   ranked 1,161 out of 4,904 in mother   3 months ago

We have a simple solution. Whenever anything new my kids get can come in something old/broken has to go out. That lets them decide which ones to get rid of & when.

P.S. a certain amount of sneakyness might be needed beforehand to help a few things conveniently disappear to get down to the appropriate starting level.


myLot reputation of 79/100. holachika (149)   ranked 380 out of 4,904 in mother  3 months ago

out with the old, in with the new. thanks for the advice.


myLot reputation of 89/100. uath13 (2436)   ranked 1,161 out of 4,904 in mother  3 months ago

Plus if there is anything that he's outgrown that some other kid might enjoy you could take him to the local thrift store to donate it. My daughter rather likes the idea of passing on her extra stuff to someone less fortunate ( though sometimes we do find stuff for her there ).

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5. myLot reputation of 95/100. Muelitz (896)   3 months ago

You better look for other things to throw away. I am also in the same predicament. We have lots of toys at home and like you said some are broken and to us it is just junk but we have to see it in the eyes of a child. It is their property and they enjoy having and playing with them no matter its condition. Never throw away anything without their permission. You would have a hard time producing a toy if your kid would suddenly remember and nag you about it if you already threw it away. Put yourself in their shoes, you would not want them to throw any of your things that you have never used for a long time, would you.


myLot reputation of 79/100. holachika (149)   ranked 380 out of 4,904 in mother  3 months ago

I'll keep this is mind, always ask permission. Thanks!

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