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myLot reputation of 96/100. youless (10197)   ranked 3 out of 8,542 in love4 months ago

My husband hardly praises me. Nowadays my interest of painting is back. So I spend some time on painting. One night I painted an old painting, I asked my husband how it looked. Actually I knew it didn't look well as I had never painted oil painting before. My husband said it looked so beautiful and said our family was going to have a great painterlol Perhaps at that time he was afraid I would bother him more so that he would said such a big lielol

 
 
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lucy02 (4336) response was accepted on 7/10/2008.
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1. myLot reputation of 93/100. ljegbers (5761)   ranked 554 out of 8,542 in love   4 months ago

Hi Youless, I've wondered where you've been. I'm glad you got back into what you like to do, it's hard with a little one so, so happy you found the time for yourself. Complements can come few and far between, but cherish the ones you get. Some men just don't know how to express their feelings. I don't think they know that praise can do for us.


myLot reputation of 96/100. youless (10197)   ranked 3 out of 8,542 in love  4 months ago

In fact lately something keeps me busy. Painting is a way for me to relax myself. I think I am going to have an operation by the end of this month.

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. aseretdd (4125)   ranked 321 out of 8,542 in love   4 months ago

I don't remember the last time my husband praised me for anything... it was always criticism... and i actually felt relieved when he left to work abroad... i guess this is one reason why our marriage is not working out... and i don't know what will happen when he comes back... well, i just have to wait for that to happen...


myLot reputation of 96/100. youless (10197)   ranked 3 out of 8,542 in love  4 months ago

Sometimes being separated for some time will make the couple relationship gets closer. I hope this will happen to you. You will miss each other and think of each other's virtues when you are apart.

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3. myLot reputation of 95/100. kalav56 (754)   ranked 2,163 out of 8,542 in love   4 months ago

If his tone was just normal you take it that he didnot want to hurt your feelings. That would help you be in greater peace. On the other hand if his voice was sarcastic then you can give the explanatiion who have just given.
Though he is not the person to lavish praise if he is not the person who would just not criticise too much then may be he was just in the mood for some encouraging words.
You ask him straight if what he said was really honest or was he just pulling your leg?[teasing you in good spirit]?


myLot reputation of 96/100. youless (10197)   ranked 3 out of 8,542 in love  4 months ago

I think he just wanted to say nice words to make me happyhappy Even if he didn't say so, but I knew my painting was not nicelol

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4. myLot reputation of 91/100. zandi458 (1842)   ranked 48 out of 8,542 in love   4 months ago

My husband always praises my cooking but sometimes it is the opposite. I have become lazy to cook more elaborate meals cos i wanted to surf the net. I cook as long as it can be eaten. Giving me praises is telling me to cook good food next time! This kind of praise is unwelcome.


myLot reputation of 96/100. youless (10197)   ranked 3 out of 8,542 in love  4 months ago

I am glad to know that you are good at cooking. I am interested in it very muchlol

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5. myLot reputation of 96/100. TerryZ (11511)   ranked 1,153 out of 8,542 in love   4 months ago

I know the feeling my hubby never praises me. Whenever I do something I always have to ask him how it looks and he always says it looks good or tastes good.LOL Men!LOL


myLot reputation of 96/100. youless (10197)   ranked 3 out of 8,542 in love  4 months ago

At least it's a praisewink

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6. myLot reputation of 97/100. checapricorn (7372)   ranked 13 out of 8,542 in love   4 months ago

LOL, You are funny youless! For sure that is real and sincere appreciation from your hubby..I myself appreciate anyone's output about painting since I have no skills for that!
In my case, when I made more that what I expect here, my hubby praised me since he has no patience for this type of job! LOL!


myLot reputation of 96/100. youless (10197)   ranked 3 out of 8,542 in love  4 months ago

On the contrary, my husband doesn't find it interesting when I am posting here.

 
7. myLot reputation of 99/100. lucy02 (4336)   ranked 1,897 out of 8,542 in love   4 months ago

I have been missing you too, youless. My husband praises me occasionally...usually its for my cooking but sometimes its for my painting too. I have started acrylic painting. Its not very good but I enjoy it so much. I usually show him and ask him how it looks and then he'll say "its good", so I probably put him on the spot, lol.
I would love to see some of your paintings if you ever decide to post them on here. I have not tried oil and I've just started acrylic.


myLot reputation of 96/100. youless (10197)   ranked 3 out of 8,542 in love  4 months ago

Thanks a lot for your concernhappy Wow, actually I use the acrylic color to paint on T-shirts and that looks so nice. It's nearly finished and I may post it here. Please pay attention to my new discussionslol

 
8. myLot reputation of 98/100. cjgrooms (2868)   ranked 1,547 out of 8,542 in love   4 months ago

My husband is always giving me compliments about something, and i appreciate ever one of them! Don't write off your husband's opinion, sometimes we can't see the reality of something that we create like someone else can.


myLot reputation of 96/100. youless (10197)   ranked 3 out of 8,542 in love  4 months ago

Your husband knows how to make his wife happy. And when the wife is happy, then the whole family will be happylol

 
9. myLot reputation of 84/100. oneandonemakesix (24154)   ranked 2,553 out of 8,542 in love   4 months ago

My husband usually compliments my cooking, and the fact that I try to deal with the kids 24/7, he knows that I make a lot of sacrifices for the kids and to be a stay at home mom and he often lets me know that he does appreciate it.

And you know sometimes husbands doe lie, like in the Shania Twain song, any man of mine, saying a dress looks just right even though its a little to tight...

I thought that was sensitive of him ot be afraid to put your painting down but I truly hope that he meant that you could be a great painter someday

Mooch


myLot reputation of 96/100. youless (10197)   ranked 3 out of 8,542 in love  4 months ago

I like cooking and I am interested in it. Since your cooking is so good, I would like to learn more recipes from youhappy

 
10. myLot reputation of 98/100. bluishrose (1284)   ranked 639 out of 8,542 in love   4 months ago

Last time he praised me is because of cooking greatly the misu soup. He is very sensistive in terms of taste of food and Its my first time to cook it and he's glad that i did it right.


myLot reputation of 96/100. youless (10197)   ranked 3 out of 8,542 in love  4 months ago

That's a good signhappy

 
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