What Should I Do?  | |  Lately this sort of guy friend of mine, who i've kind of been secretly crazy about for 9 years, has been ignoring me...I mean I'm fine with nothing happening between us, but there was this one night, let's say it was on a Sunday, and he works at this bar, and I go to this bar a lot, well it was dead, and he was watching a movie in the back and we start having friendly conversation about the movie and some of the other shows he was flipping between...but then the very next day, I try to smile at him, and he just looks right through me, I try again at another point thinking maybe he didn't notice, and again nothing, although he was wearing an IPOD, but still...
And I know that probably the next time I see him I'm going to walk by him and not say anything and he'll playfully sock my arm, but part of me doesn't want to just smile and let it go, part of me wants to be like "Don't...you've ignored me for days and I'm supposed to just be cool with that and melt when you pay attention to me? I mean either we're kind of friends and you acknowledge me, or don't talk to me at all..."
Does that sound like something I should say? Cuz I just can't let it go
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| | 2.  KrazyKlingon (3171) | 1 year ago |  From a guy's point of view on this, I have a hunch that he really likes you, & is afraid. If he is single - un-attached, no girlfriend, etc, that might just be what his problem is. he might have built this imaginary wall, because he's afraid of getting hurt.
I don't know anything about him, or the situation.
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 CallieWVU2 (189) | 1 year ago | God I wish/hope that was the case...but I just don't know. | |
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| KrazyKlingon (3171) | 1 year ago | I'm actually thinking the best thing to do is you make the move, but make sure that he understands that his friendship means a lot to you, & you don't want to ruin it. | |
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| | 3.  Marcola (1743) | 1 year ago |  From a male point of view, I think us dudes like it when girls are aggressive. Don't ask for his attention, demand it! Be forward, talk a lot, make jokes, etc.
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| | | 4. globaldoc2001 (4290) | 1 year ago |  well,i don't see anything wrong with you trying to do that.at least you would have done your part completely.
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| | 5.  patriciaqualls (4607) | 1 year ago |  Hi Callie,
Sometimes we have to tell men that we like them they are so clueless.
I had a friend like that when I told him I liked him he had no idea.
We dated for 5 years. Men like women to take the lead also. At least that
is what I have been told. You have to tell him or he will never know right.
If you want him to be your boyfriend it doesn't hurt to ask him to go out.
He may not ask you because we don't like rejection well especially men don't.
So I say go for it!!! Keep us updated!
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| CallieWVU2 (189) | 1 year ago | Well I sort of went for it...in a casual flirty way...i told him that i was nervous around him, and he was like "I'm not THAT hot." And I turned away and said "I have trouble thinking of words when you're around." And then later on, I thought he was really wasted, I went to walk past him and he grabbed my arm gently. And I said "You are so wasted aren't you?" And for some reason I put my hand to his forehead, I think I just wanted to touch him, he didn't confirm or deny if he was in fact drunk but then he said, "Why am I so intimidating?" And I said laughingly/flirtatiously, "I don't know I've had a crush on you forever..." and walked away to play music on the jukebox. | |
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| | | 6. rsa101 (7315) | 1 year ago |  Well I think you just be nice with him. Maybe he is too sorting what to do with the relationship with you. Talk to him often, and try to know him much better. sometimes we just need to know if someone is interested in us and you just have to be yourself. Although just don't look to obvious that you really like him. Just be yourself enjoy his company when time allows you to be and let him feel comfortable when you are with him.
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| | | 7. katsmeow1213 (4857) | 1 year ago |  I think you need to forget about him. Stop going to his bar, find another one. Find a new guy to crush on. If you see this guy and he tries to say something to you, ignore him. Give him a taste of his own medicine. He's not worth your time... go find someone who is.
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| CallieWVU2 (189) | 1 year ago | But that's the thing, it's not HIS bar, it's MINE, I've been addicted to it for five years, I have friends who go there all the time and are regulars there, he's the one who got a job like two years ago, I'd hate to give up my turf so to speak, but things are better between us I guess. At least he knows without a doubt that I like him. | |
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