Happy even if you cried inside

first,I was moved by the story.
second,sweetbarbie is beautiful.
third,that's all.

hi dear that is really sad..hi dear well this is so sad..i never faced any such thing so far...and i dont think i am good at hiding my emotions if i like i would have told it long back and atleast would have been happy that i tried..anyways life goes on..i hope your friends comes over this and starts new..it is not right to go and tell anything now..this s mre of a closed chapter so tell her she has to let go..

I hope she doesn't do that, it would make her feel better but would make his marriage less happy so it's a selfish thing to do.

We should voice our feelings, not hide them, before it's too late. I'm sorry for your friend but she's being selfish if she tells him how she feels at this late date.

Hmm... I can only illustrate with one analogy.
Think of a badminton game. It takes two to play the game.
If one party keeps trying to shoot a shuttlecock to the person standing in the opposite side of the court and not responding, there will be a time when the shuttlecocks will run out.

Now, if another person comes along and respond to that shuttlecock that was shot, a game can be played. And the two happily plays the game of badminton. What good will it do to the game if your friend joins in? It is a game of singles badminton. Three people cannot play in the same game.

Your friend was given so many chances to return her love to him. Taking him for granted for so long, now that she lost him, she wants to profess her love?
Don't put the poor fella in another misery. He was miserable enough waiting for her. Now that he has moved on, leave him alone.

There are so many other guys around. I am sure there is one that is waiting for your friend. Don't go and spoil a good thing for him when he finally found one.
Relationships are to be treasured. Not toyed with. If your friend never treasured it in the beginning when the love was given to her, don't go crying when she looses that love.

Move on. The world is big. I am sure she will find her man soon enough.

Well i feel sorry for her but that's it. That's life and love. One can't wait forever for a love that has no guarantee. It happened to me that I waited for my best friend as well but it happened that at a certain moment I just didn't love her anymore and soon I found another person to love who loves me as well. We're still friends though but of course there were some things that couldn't be brought back I just hope she finds the right person for her. For your friend I think letting her get enough time would make her feel better. I think you're right in advising her to move on .

Wow!!That’s a sad story, hope it don’t happen to me. Anyway, it already happen and the best thing she can do is to move on. The guy suffered so much waiting for your friend and telling him that she loves him will only prolong the suffering. The guy is already married!!