I am not able to forget my love even after my breakup. What should i do?

It is unfortunate that your partner has left you,breaking all the relation you had with her.Since she is now engaged with a new friend and refuses to talk with you,it is evident that she has seeriously been upset and broken down. It seems that chances for reviving your former relationship are remote and bleak.Love is not one sided and can not be enforced on somebody.Since she has already started to build a new relationship,you have no other better choice than treating her as your past history.A person who understand the true meaning of love, live for the sake of love.Pl. do not get disheartened and accept it as a reality of life.

Hello Riwazkhadka,

i had happen to me sometimes ago and its so hard to forget the one that we really love. It take more courage to forget then to remind about her. Be more patient my friend, busy yourself with out door activities such hang out with your friends. Then Bit by bit your feeling for her will gone without your notice but the memory with her will never be erase. If i can do it, so can you.. Hope you will be cheer again.

this is so sad that you had no clue it was coming!

from your words, it does not sound like there was anything wrong, yet she chose someone else.

it would have been wonderful, if she had told you why.
but, maybe she doesn't know why this happened.

maybe she doesn't want to talk with you because she knows she hurt you.

the old saying goes, time heals all wounds would apply here.

you were together 18 months. that wound is going to be deep and won't heal for a while...especially because you don't know why it happened.

i wish peace for your heart.

I am in a position that I have had a B/f break up with me. I was so much in love with him. We never argued at all. And we had a ball together. It wasn't easy but all I did was take one day at a time. I still hold a flame for him 15 years later but I am able to continue to on with my life.

It certainly will not be easy but look forward and take it one day at a time. I certainly would not say forget her because it is not easy but remember the fun times that you have. Also try not have contact with her as much as possible. This will make each day easier. And spend time with friends. All these have helped me.

Here is the funny thing with my situation. I did meet up with my old flame a few years later. And when I looked at him, he wasn't as good looking as what he use to look like. That has helped me get on with my own life.

Start a new relationship and you will get that fellow forgotten.

I know exactly how you feel. I have been married now for 7 years. Prior to meeting my husband my ex-boyfriend I loved him very much even to this day I still think about him from time to time. I mean don't get me wrong I have moved on and I love my husband with all my heart it's just sometimes just for a minute I think about it. It's hard to get over someone that you love you but if that other person can't love you back or feel for you the way you do you only hurting yourself. It took me along long time to get over that

The best thing that you could do is to move on with your life. It is pretty obvious that the girl doesn't love you anymore with the way she treats you. I guess its not really worth spending your love for her as she is just not able to commit to you anymore. Let yourself be healed from the pain you are in that is by letting go of that feeling affection for her still despite the way she acts on you. It is painful indeed but its time to make action to it and be happy for yourself as you were not able to get a girl that does not deserve your love at all.

Forgetting a person who has a relationship with you for 1 1/2 years is indeed difficult. Maybe, you should get her out to explain things clearly else it is very hard for you to accept an empty reason for breaking up. Since she has a new boyfriend, well, might as well forget about her by digging yourself into work, studies or get another girlfriend. It is very common nowadays for a couple to break and reconcile.

i found out what went wrong.. in a relationship it's normal to have conflicts and misunderstanding. there is no such thing as a perfect relationship and one way or another someone will get pissed at times. my remedy for you is pick yourself up and learn from that experience and it will help you become a better man.

you have to go to a far away place to do that so there will be no memories of your lover to haunt you wherever you go.

i did that once, and it worked.:)