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myLot reputation of 96/100. Barb42 (2794)   ranked 265 out of 32,950 in life 4 years ago

Other day, some friends and I were discussing tea parties. One friend was talking about how she used to have these little tea parties with her friend, and how something happened at one party and her little tea set was all broken but a few pieces. This started me down the memory trail of life.

I used to have tea parties, too, but with my dolls. There weren’t any girls near us when I was real little with which to have the tea parties. And my siblings were brothers, with one being older and the younger one almost five years younger than I was.

We had streetlights on our little town road. So at night, several of us, including a cousin, my younger brother, and a friend would meet under the streetlights to shoot marbles. I was the only girl in the bunch, but I knew how to play marbles! We would have probably stayed out half the night if our parents or my cousin’s grandparents hadn’t been calling for us to come in to the house. We either played under the one at the neighbor’s house across the street from my house or at the light pole at our grandparents. Either way, we never got in enough marble games and now we are grown.

I was definitely part tomboy when I was growing up. Not only did I love to play marbles with the boys; I loved playing basketball more than eating! I would often play all afternoon with a friend shooting hoops and Mother would have to call probably a dozen times. And, sometimes, she would have to tell the person it was time to go home so we could have a family meal.

During the vegetable growing season, I used to join a bunch of teenagers and some adults that went on Saturday to a farm a few miles from us to work in the fields. We would hoe and chop okra in the early part of the season. And, later, we would pick the okra, peas, turnip greens, or whatever had to be picked. Sometimes we would help prepare the vegetables and help put them on the big trucks to go to the Farmer’s market. Although we got a little money for this work, it was more fun and play than anything else just to be with our friends having a good time. We all took our lunch and sat under the big shade trees and ate together. Lots of memories there!

Do you like to look back on your life and enjoy the memories?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 96/100. bamakelly (3946)   ranked 315 out of 32,950 in life   4 years ago

Yes I do like to be nostalgic from time to time and remember the past. I like to recall the good times that I have had as a teenage girl. I like to listen to music that I grew up with. I graduated from high school back in 1986. Those were some good times.
I do like to live for the present but it doesn't hurt to look back over the years and recall some fun times.thumbup


myLot reputation of 96/100. Barb42 (2794)   ranked 265 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

Bamakelly, my son graduated in 1986. That makes me really feel old. happy I have to look farther back than you to my teenage years, and it's fun to remember. I often think back to when my husband and I were dating. But I still loving being in the now, to have my grandchildren and to enjoy them. I love watching them grow up and make their memories.

Does Bamakelly mean you are from Alabama?


myLot reputation of 96/100. bamakelly (3946)   ranked 315 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

Hey you have a son my age. But don't feel old. You are as young as you feel! Yes I live in Alabama. I have only lived here for three months now. I am originally from Pennsylvania where I lived for over thirty years. I have lived down here before for short periods of time. I am hoping that this time works out for us. It is not a bad place at all.happy


myLot reputation of 96/100. Barb42 (2794)   ranked 265 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

Yes, I have a son your age. And they just had their second son on the 15th of July - another grandchild to love.

Alabama is a nice place to live. This is my home,but we've lived in Texas, Indiana and Tennessee for awhile. We were in the AF in the first two, but he was transferred on his job to Tennessee and we didn't sell our home. So glad we didn't, although I liked Tennessee. The old say 'there is nothing like home' is so true.

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2. myLot reputation of 74/100. everlasting (9950)   4 years ago

I have so many childhood memories. I usually tell my kids those memories especially when i have to drive a point. I know that what I experienced may not help them but a way to get out of a situation.


myLot reputation of 96/100. Barb42 (2794)   ranked 265 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

I love sharing memories with the kids. And I love to hear the memories of my Mother. She will often bring up something in the past when we are talking. It lets me see into her life that I never knew. I wonder if kids of today realize they are making memories that they will probably some day share with their kids.


myLot reputation of 74/100. everlasting (9950)  4 years ago

I have a very good friend from yuwie who is a good story teller. She will narrate to us her childhood experiences and they really bring back memories on how we do things back then.

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3. myLot reputation of 94/100. 1grnthmb (1557)   ranked 872 out of 32,950 in life   4 years ago

Sounds like you have some very good memories of your childhood. My favorite memories were going to the coast to stay with our grandparents. Although they were always really strict I loved going there and enjoying the much cooler weather (We lived in the Mojave Desert) and seeing the beautiful gardens and going to the beach and playing in the waves and hunting for sand dollars.


myLot reputation of 96/100. Barb42 (2794)   ranked 265 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

My grandparents all lived near us, so I didn't have to travel to see them. But I do have a wonderful memory of my Daddy's Mom. They lived out the road from us. She made homemade bread every week. And, every week,she would either bring us some or call us to come get it. She had 2 sons and a daughter whose families lived right there close and she would make a loaf of regular bread and a loaf of raisin bread for each of them. And, it was delicious. We always looked forward to that time every week!

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4. myLot reputation of 84/100. sparkofinsanity (3868)   ranked 1,317 out of 32,950 in life   4 years ago

Nostagia hit me and I hit it back! LOL
I had a childhood?????
My mother says I was 'born this way', so I figured I skipped the childhood phase and went straight to old age! LOL


myLot reputation of 96/100. Barb42 (2794)   ranked 265 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

You, girl, will not do!! lol You only have to open your mouth (type on your keyboard) to keep us in stitches! So you didn't have a childhood? So you skipped the diapers and went to Depends? lol Could not resist!! I'm ducking for cover now!


myLot reputation of 84/100. sparkofinsanity (3868)   ranked 1,317 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

Well damn, are my depends panty lines showing again! Sh*t!
lol


myLot reputation of 96/100. Barb42 (2794)   ranked 265 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

Spark, somehow I missed this response! YOU are hilarious! I didn't really pay too much attention to the Depends lines - they don't seem to show up on the butts of those figures you have there. rolleyes


myLot reputation of 84/100. sparkofinsanity (3868)   ranked 1,317 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

That's because I make them go commando! ROFL


myLot reputation of 84/100. sparkofinsanity (3868)   ranked 1,317 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

Doing the old lady happy dance at the BR! ........dancing, dancing.................oops the Depends are slipping, gotta stop and pull them up again.........*sigh* It sucks being old! ROFL

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5. myLot reputation of 93/100. ch88ss (1122)   4 years ago

You had an enjoyable one.

It is quite odd, I lost part of my memories. I don't remember anything prioer to me arriving to the States.

Nor do I remember anything before I was 10 years old.
There are parts of me that believe I have forgotten things that happened at 15 years old too.

I must be aging quickly :( oh well, stress does this

I do however wish I was a kid again, because I remember how safe it is to play outside. I was a tomboy too, but also a babysitter. I was responsible to watch out for all my siblings and my cousins too. I was the eldest so it was not much fun.

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6. myLot reputation of 94/100. thebohemianheart (2780)   ranked 1,443 out of 32,950 in life   4 years ago

I do look back and enjoy the memories. But, I wouldn't want to go back to them. It is just fun to remember the good parts with my brothers and sisters. For a long time that was not something I could do.

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7. myLot reputation of 97/100. jands1 (474)   ranked 7,028 out of 32,950 in life   4 years ago

I love the story. And for once, I shall not contribute to your eye strain with an essay.

The short: I do look back over my short life and enjoy the memories. The blissful moments. The moments of pure horror. All of it. Without these memories, I would not be me. Though these days I wonder if I'm the good me or if I have stagnated.

There is a line from a movie that I'm about to butcher so please no yelling at me. :D

It goes something to the effect of "Life is lived between the photographs".

For me, I think life is lived between the memories. The mundane things in life. Smiling at a stranger as you pass in the streets. No reason to remember it. But it passes on positivity. Or finally figuring out how exactly to get that new fangled bra to work. Once again, not a momentous occasion. None of these things will win a Nobel Prize. But they contribute to living life. Not surviving it. And, I think of these little things as the appetizer to memories.

Look! I did it. A short post! SQUEE! LOL


myLot reputation of 96/100. Barb42 (2794)   ranked 265 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

"life is lived between the memories."

I think you have a great thought there. Every time we do something in life, we are building memories. You mentioned smiling at the stranger. I try to do that or even speak when I pass someone. But the sweetest thing is when you pass a child and they look up at you so innocently and smile and say 'hi'. It may not be a memory that will stay forever in your memory, but it is there for the time. But I never thought about a 'bra' being the maker of a memory. lol I may think of you the next time I buy a bra!


myLot reputation of 97/100. jands1 (474)   ranked 7,028 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

OMGs LOL I'm going to be the first thing that pops into your head when out for bras. LOL I can just see it now. "Oh a bra. Nice. Wow. Reminds me of that jands1 gal." I'm now infamous!

I love kids. Love their little faces when they look up at you and smile. That is a blessing with the French Quarter. People are super friendly. Walking down the street to my corner shop, I will speak to at least five people, if only to say "Hello" or "Good morning." I will miss that when I move. Guess I'll just have to force everyone around me to deal with my friendliness where ever I end up. haha Now that will be a memory!

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8. myLot reputation of 87/100. kittenmc (359)   ranked 5,817 out of 32,950 in life   4 years ago

You have some great memories there. Yes, I do look back! I have been doing a lot of that lately. I don't know if it has something to do with me turning 40 this year or what, but I find myself traveling that road a lot.

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