Has nostalgia hit you lately?
By Barb42
@Barb42 (4214)
United States
August 4, 2008 12:17pm CST
Other day, some friends and I were discussing tea parties. One friend was talking about how she used to have these little tea parties with her friend, and how something happened at one party and her little tea set was all broken but a few pieces. This started me down the memory trail of life.
I used to have tea parties, too, but with my dolls. There weren’t any girls near us when I was real little with which to have the tea parties. And my siblings were brothers, with one being older and the younger one almost five years younger than I was.
We had streetlights on our little town road. So at night, several of us, including a cousin, my younger brother, and a friend would meet under the streetlights to shoot marbles. I was the only girl in the bunch, but I knew how to play marbles! We would have probably stayed out half the night if our parents or my cousin’s grandparents hadn’t been calling for us to come in to the house. We either played under the one at the neighbor’s house across the street from my house or at the light pole at our grandparents. Either way, we never got in enough marble games and now we are grown.
I was definitely part tomboy when I was growing up. Not only did I love to play marbles with the boys; I loved playing basketball more than eating! I would often play all afternoon with a friend shooting hoops and Mother would have to call probably a dozen times. And, sometimes, she would have to tell the person it was time to go home so we could have a family meal.
During the vegetable growing season, I used to join a bunch of teenagers and some adults that went on Saturday to a farm a few miles from us to work in the fields. We would hoe and chop okra in the early part of the season. And, later, we would pick the okra, peas, turnip greens, or whatever had to be picked. Sometimes we would help prepare the vegetables and help put them on the big trucks to go to the Farmer’s market. Although we got a little money for this work, it was more fun and play than anything else just to be with our friends having a good time. We all took our lunch and sat under the big shade trees and ate together. Lots of memories there!
Do you like to look back on your life and enjoy the memories?
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6 responses
@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
6 Aug 08
Nostagia hit me and I hit it back! LOL
I had a childhood?????
My mother says I was 'born this way', so I figured I skipped the childhood phase and went straight to old age! LOL

@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
6 Aug 08
Well damn, are my depends panty lines showing again! Sh*t!
lol
@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
8 Aug 08
That's because I make them go commando! ROFL

@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
4 Aug 08
Yes I do like to be nostalgic from time to time and remember the past. I like to recall the good times that I have had as a teenage girl. I like to listen to music that I grew up with. I graduated from high school back in 1986. Those were some good times.
I do like to live for the present but it doesn't hurt to look back over the years and recall some fun times.
@Barb42 (4214)
• United States
4 Aug 08
Bamakelly, my son graduated in 1986. That makes me really feel old.
I have to look farther back than you to my teenage years, and it's fun to remember. I often think back to when my husband and I were dating. But I still loving being in the now, to have my grandchildren and to enjoy them. I love watching them grow up and make their memories.
Does Bamakelly mean you are from Alabama?
I have to look farther back than you to my teenage years, and it's fun to remember. I often think back to when my husband and I were dating. But I still loving being in the now, to have my grandchildren and to enjoy them. I love watching them grow up and make their memories.
Does Bamakelly mean you are from Alabama?1 person likes this
@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
4 Aug 08
Hey you have a son my age. But don't feel old. You are as young as you feel! Yes I live in Alabama. I have only lived here for three months now. I am originally from Pennsylvania where I lived for over thirty years. I have lived down here before for short periods of time. I am hoping that this time works out for us. It is not a bad place at all.

@Barb42 (4214)
• United States
5 Aug 08
Yes, I have a son your age. And they just had their second son on the 15th of July - another grandchild to love.
Alabama is a nice place to live. This is my home,but we've lived in Texas, Indiana and Tennessee for awhile. We were in the AF in the first two, but he was transferred on his job to Tennessee and we didn't sell our home. So glad we didn't, although I liked Tennessee. The old say 'there is nothing like home' is so true.
@1grnthmb (2055)
• United States
6 Aug 08
Sounds like you have some very good memories of your childhood. My favorite memories were going to the coast to stay with our grandparents. Although they were always really strict I loved going there and enjoying the much cooler weather (We lived in the Mojave Desert) and seeing the beautiful gardens and going to the beach and playing in the waves and hunting for sand dollars.
@Barb42 (4214)
• United States
6 Aug 08
My grandparents all lived near us, so I didn't have to travel to see them. But I do have a wonderful memory of my Daddy's Mom. They lived out the road from us. She made homemade bread every week. And, every week,she would either bring us some or call us to come get it. She had 2 sons and a daughter whose families lived right there close and she would make a loaf of regular bread and a loaf of raisin bread for each of them. And, it was delicious. We always looked forward to that time every week!
@ch88ss (2271)
• United States
6 Aug 08
You had an enjoyable one.
It is quite odd, I lost part of my memories. I don't remember anything prioer to me arriving to the States.
Nor do I remember anything before I was 10 years old.
There are parts of me that believe I have forgotten things that happened at 15 years old too.
I must be aging quickly :( oh well, stress does this
I do however wish I was a kid again, because I remember how safe it is to play outside. I was a tomboy too, but also a babysitter. I was responsible to watch out for all my siblings and my cousins too. I was the eldest so it was not much fun.
@thebohemianheart (8827)
• United States
10 Aug 08
I do look back and enjoy the memories. But, I wouldn't want to go back to them. It is just fun to remember the good parts with my brothers and sisters. For a long time that was not something I could do.



You only have to open your mouth (type on your keyboard) to keep us in stitches! So you didn't have a childhood? So you skipped the diapers and went to Depends? 



