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myLot reputation of 96/100. vera5d (2201)   ranked 214 out of 5,520 in shopping 4 years ago

We have 3 weddings to go to in the next couple of months and I'm not sure what to get any of them. Normally I like to just give hard cold cash but with so many weddings I honestly just can't afford to spend a lot of money on all of them & I can't give less than $100 in cash without feeling like it's too little ($100 doesn't even buy you a tank of gas anymore!)

I looked at their registries, and most of them are asking for things I know they will NEVER use (like a blender! or a waffle maker! Sure, some people might use those, but I know my friends wouldn't!)

Any ideas? And wedding gifts you may have gotten that you loved? (My hubby and i didn't have a "wedding" per se, so we got no gifts for me to use as inspiration. Maybe I should give them cards that say "I'll give you your wedding present when you give us ours, lol...hmmm...probably not a good idea!)

The cheaper the ideas the better! (cheap does not always mean meaningless!)

 

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1. myLot reputation of 96/100. cher913 (21920)   ranked 151 out of 5,520 in shopping   4 years ago

ok here is my idea...you might think its a little weird, but my hubby does the sound at our church and we have been invited to a plethora of weddings over the years and always get the same thing to give!
we start with buying a really nice large ceramic bowl (i am canadian and we go to home sense - its a great store) then we get all the fixings for a nice romantic spaghetti dinner (the food, candles, cooking utensils, (wine if you want and glasses) the works and we always hear about how different the gift is. good luck!


myLot reputation of 96/100. vera5d (2201)   ranked 214 out of 5,520 in shopping  4 years ago

That is a pretty good idea actually! I will have to keep that one in mind!

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2. myLot reputation of 97/100. CJay77 (2872)   ranked 1,338 out of 5,520 in shopping   4 years ago

Hi! You made me think so much to be honest and I can't still worked it out what would be the nice gift that it wont cost too much... Probably a card or a photo frame or maybe small things that they can use it everyday like tea cups, flower vase. I'm sorry this all I can come up, my mind it not working well, lol....


myLot reputation of 96/100. vera5d (2201)   ranked 214 out of 5,520 in shopping  4 years ago

That is okay, I can't think of anything either! Don't worry, I will figure out something eventually I'm sure!

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3. myLot reputation of 87/100. fwidman (5652)   ranked 1,031 out of 5,520 in shopping   4 years ago

I wish I knew the answer to this question myself. My 40 year old son is finally getting married in November and I have no clue what to give as a gift. I'm sure he would be happy just by having me travel to Seattle to be at the wedding, but I don't think his new wife would feel the same way lol
I have not met this woman yet so I have no idea what she is like, is she a cook or a gardener or what. So, I think I shall follow your discussion and see if I get any ideas from the rest of the responders happy


myLot reputation of 96/100. vera5d (2201)   ranked 214 out of 5,520 in shopping  4 years ago

Hopefully we will get some good ideas!! It is hard when you don't know the other person very well!


myLot reputation of 87/100. fwidman (5652)   ranked 1,031 out of 5,520 in shopping  4 years ago

Yes, it is hard. I sent my ex-wife an email asking her for suggestions, maybe she will help me. If all else fails me, I will ask my son what he really wants happy

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4. myLot reputation of 98/100. checapricorn (10099)   ranked 30 out of 5,520 in shopping   4 years ago

Hi vera,

In the past and in our Country, we always group with co-workers and will contribute a particular amount to get something that they can use in the kitchen! so, no hassle for me..LOL!
How about getting them kitchen utensils, I know we got sales all over and you can always get an affordable one!
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myLot reputation of 96/100. vera5d (2201)   ranked 214 out of 5,520 in shopping  4 years ago

You just gave me a good idea - maybe i could partner with some other friends and we can all chip in for something cool (and more expensive than any of us could afford on our own....hmmm that might just work for 1 wedding, now 2 more to go!)

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5. myLot reputation of 100/100. jillhill (17702)   ranked 2 out of 5,520 in shopping   4 years ago

My son and his wife got monogramed towels....and they rocked. I don't think it's that expensive either. They had someone local do the embrodery and they were so cool. They used them for guest towels for a long time.


myLot reputation of 96/100. vera5d (2201)   ranked 214 out of 5,520 in shopping  4 years ago

That would be cool - especially if I did something artsy they would appreciate or like...thanks for the idea!

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6. myLot reputation of 74/100. lanlan011 (434)   4 years ago

i think the best thing to do is give them a gift card to their favorite store because giving kitchen appliances is getting a little old


myLot reputation of 96/100. vera5d (2201)   ranked 214 out of 5,520 in shopping  4 years ago

Gift cards are nice, but then you still have that issue of money (unless I can find a $100 card for half price somehow!)

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7. myLot reputation of 97/100. gitfiddleplayer (6410)   ranked 39 out of 5,520 in shopping   4 years ago

It doesn't matter what you give them, they'll return it anyway. One thing that we got and absolutely loved was a sombrero (sp) the top of the hat held the salsa and the rolled up brim held the chips. Also a tea maker is nice, it doesn't cost a lot and it allows you to visit and have some tea. Hope that helps.


myLot reputation of 96/100. vera5d (2201)   ranked 214 out of 5,520 in shopping  4 years ago

You are right, they will return it anyway or it will just sit in their basement...makes me wonder why even give them anything at all!

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8. myLot reputation of 96/100. drannhh (9926)   ranked 144 out of 5,520 in shopping   4 years ago

This is always a hard situation. We didn't have a wedding either, we just got married and left everybody else out of it, so it always irks me a little when people we are not really close to invite us to weddings, thinking that we probably won't attend but might send a gift, and in truth, usually we don't.


Same thing with babies. However, when a gift is necessary or desirable, we try to come up with one that grows, such as a savings bond or other asset that would increase in value.

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myLot reputation of 96/100. vera5d (2201)   ranked 214 out of 5,520 in shopping  4 years ago

that is a pretty good idea actually...then at least if it's only for $50 it will hopefully be worth more someday!

Are you back from your trip? Did you guys have a good time?


myLot reputation of 96/100. drannhh (9926)   ranked 144 out of 5,520 in shopping  4 years ago

Yeppers, back, but not quite reacclimated---nor unpacked. We had a great trip! It is also great to be back.


myLot reputation of 96/100. vera5d (2201)   ranked 214 out of 5,520 in shopping  4 years ago

I always think that too - the trip is great, but being home never seemed nicer!

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9. myLot reputation of 94/100. hezoid (1787)   ranked 61 out of 5,520 in shopping   4 years ago

Well for my own wedding we have decided we are going to ask guests to put into a 'honeynmoon' fund where they bascially put money into an online account set up with a travel agent to help up pay for our honeymoon. We are already an established couple s don't really wants gifs as such. I guess that doesn't help you, but the moral of the story is t get them something they will get use out of. To save money buy the something that's expensive but half rice in the sales.


myLot reputation of 96/100. vera5d (2201)   ranked 214 out of 5,520 in shopping  4 years ago

I always look for good bargains...i might be able to find something nice for them somewhere, i just don't know what! What I like may or may not be what they like!

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10. myLot reputation of 99/100. Grandmaof2 (4590)   4 years ago

I always wish for towels and sheets and those are the two things I never seem to recieve as gifts and need most. I'm not one for dropping hints and I'm always grateful for what I get.


myLot reputation of 96/100. vera5d (2201)   ranked 214 out of 5,520 in shopping  4 years ago

Those can be a nice gift...come to think of it my hubby & I use mismatched beach towels as we don't have a matching set either!

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