Update on Dissapointed on Love

Philippines
September 21, 2008 11:03pm CST
First of all thanks guys for the insight it really helps me a lot to think and decide what to do, I am a bit glad that my girl don't stop texting me, asking for forgiveness, she said he hurts me, and she admit it, but she said that please don't let me stop our communication, she want's to come back to me, i told her not the right time, i'm giving her enough time, to think if she really loves me, and give her enough time to be mature enough, i miss her a lot.
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@rsa101 (40976)
• Philippines
22 Sep 08
That was what I was thinking of when I read your posts about her. There is still that soft spot that is left from you. Well I guess you have said it "You still miss her a lot". Obviously the girl also loves you and want's to amend her mistakes to you so what are you waiting for let the pride be replaced by love and it will be better for the two of you.
• Philippines
22 Sep 08
I forget my pride this time, but this time this would be the last time that i will forgive her, if she don't change, there's nothing i can do.
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@rsa101 (40976)
• Philippines
22 Sep 08
Well let her realize that you're serious in your stand to let her mature in time. The cycle will continue on going if the message is not conveyed properly with the girl. Let love teach her not fear or pride. I just hope the girl gets the message too.
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@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
22 Sep 08
I think all of us needs time to think and be alone for the better, even though we miss the person. Sometimes we also teach them a lesson and really ask for forgiveness just for them to realized and learned. Sometimes also that they just see the importance and value when we are not their anymore. The sacrifice what were doing even the hurts and the pains doesn't mean we don't love them anymore. We just love them very much for them to realized their mistakes. That they don't understand the reason after the fauls and the pain that is inside us. Life has to go on, with the pain were carrying we get our strength. If it was really meant for you he or she can wait for our silence to end but until when we don't know. God be with you friend. Have a nice afternoon!
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
22 Sep 08
i think whatever may be, its nice sign. may be now she can be more mature.and also it depends upon you also. if you can again accept her in your life. but take time. don't get just driven by love.
@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
10 Nov 08
How's your relationship with her now? Hope you did choose what your heart yearns for... If you really do love her then there is no problem going back to her, but if you feel it is not the right time, then give yourself some time... do not pressure yourself too much... but if you think there is no chance to forgive her and you can't trust her again, then you should tell her what you really feel than making her believe that SHE STILL HAS YOU but you think OTHERWISE! Whatever decision you make, I will back you up my friend!
@1hopefulman (45111)
• Canada
22 Sep 08
I hope things work out for you. Always sad when a relationship is all messed up.
• Philippines
22 Sep 08
yeah you're right this is last chance for her, this is 3rd time that i forgive her. hope this time she will realize how much i care and love her.
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@1hopefulman (45111)
• Canada
22 Sep 08
Yes, I do hope she does too.