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By bombshell
@bombshell (11256)
Germany
September 27, 2008 3:46pm CST
we have 2 teenants here and my husband is not here.the young teenants has a party just now and very noisy.we have an agreement that he can party till 10:30 pm but since its past 11:pm shall i go down and tell him or just ignore them since its sunday tomorrow.
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10 responses
@ellie333 (21016)
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27 Sep 08
Hi Bombshell, Here in the UK the noise level has to be turned down between the hours of 11pm and 7am. If you feel comfortable going down to say to quieten the noise you are within your rights too but if you feel uncomfortable go with it and let your husband have a word when he returns about ettiquette. Huggles. Ellie :D
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
27 Sep 08
i dont know.usually he ask my hubby a permission but limmited time just like i said we have given him till 10:30.or they can carry eating or talking but no shouting or loud music because we have many old neighbors here.but i will tell to my husband tomorrow.thanks Ellie
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
27 Sep 08
thanks Ellie.i am not comfortable because my daughter is already asleep and the youngster are very noisy.i even ashame with our neighbors.but i will observe it first til midnight but if they dont stop i will talk to them i will swallow my shyness .or shot up the light.
.or shot up the light.1 person likes this
@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
27 Sep 08
[i]Hi bombshell,
Wow...you must be living in a mansion! LOL!
ANyway, you have to remind him really because if you will just ignore this, he might do it again and that is not good!
It's not good to tell and remind him because he agreed that on the first place![/i]
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
27 Sep 08
hmmmmm mansion
.its just a normal house but down stairs its appartment for single one only and we live upstairs.thanks Che. if they dont stop till midnight i will go down and talk to them.i dont care my very poor german language hehehe.i told already to the russian young lady coz i heared the door bell so i told them not to play it coz my little girl is already asleep and at least she said sorry in english
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.its just a normal house but down stairs its appartment for single one only and we live upstairs.thanks Che. if they dont stop till midnight i will go down and talk to them.i dont care my very poor german language hehehe.i told already to the russian young lady coz i heared the door bell so i told them not to play it coz my little girl is already asleep and at least she said sorry in english.1 person likes this
@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
29 Sep 08
hahahaha...that's cool! just mix it with English..LOL! ANyway, hopefully, you had a great night and they didn't bother you much! How many bottles of olives did you eat? LOL!
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
27 Sep 08
If your daughter cannot sleep because of him yes I would definitely remind him of the signed agreement. It is not fair on you or on other neighbours.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
27 Sep 08
she is alreday asleep but i dont want to disturb her sleeping. i agree and thank you. i will go down if they dont stop till midnight.its soon anyway.
@littleowl (7157)
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27 Sep 08
Hi bombshell..I hope they will clear all the mess up too for you..I would go down and stop the party now its getting late for one and the tennants have abused your agreement already so go tell them the party is finished after all IT is your home they are sharing...hugs littleowl
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
27 Sep 08
thanks dear.well its almost 1 am here.the light still on but only talking i guess thats ok.
@trisha_nava82 (1379)
• United States
27 Sep 08
I think that you should go over and let them know that its well past 10:30 and its time to shut down the party. You're not being mean and plus you did inform of the rules and they knew what was going on. Or if you don't feel like bugging them, leave them a note and let it go this once. But I think it probably be best to ask them to shut down the party.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
27 Sep 08
thanks but huhuhu i am too shy to do it.but i will observe it first .if they dont stop till midnight i will go down or shot up the light
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
27 Sep 08
thanks.i will observe it first.if they dont stop till midnight i will call a cop.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
28 Sep 08
I would have to say something since it was an agreement. I would also say something, especially if it was disturbing the peace and getting on my nerves.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
28 Sep 08
How could you be a fun spoiler. Since tomorrow is sunday I don't mind letting them enjoy their partying. Even my pub closes at 2am for weekends. People only feel the thrill at later hours when they are intoxicated and start merry making then. But of course we have to be very careful as not to give them free hand as the drunkards can be troublesome.
@iyah10 (4115)
• Kuwait
28 Sep 08
If that would be the case of the situation then for sure it is not annoying to tell this young tenants that although you understand the situation but the time is late and for sure to remind him of the agreement and he could make the sound low for a child already asleep.....
