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highfiveulation (34)   ranked 1,159 out of 2,678 in woman 4 years ago

I have been planning on getting a breast augmentation for a couple years now. I have the money, but I want to spread out the time until I turn 21 to be sure I truly want this change to my body forever. I've asked plenty of guys what they think and the general consensus is they like boobs, but doesn't really affect their view of me as attractive or not. I'm already fairly good looking, if I do say so myself. It's just a personal opinion of my "womanliness," not my self-confidence.

What I really want to know is how girls' view other girls with implants is affected? Is it negative or positive? Do you automatically judge a girl by her "fake" outer appearance?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 81/100. NuclearRabbit (509)   ranked 988 out of 2,678 in woman   4 years ago

I think they look terrible and yeah you can tell. If I were you I'd wait longer because by the time you hit 23 you're probably going to gain quiet a few pounds and you'll fill out. I did anyway.


highfiveulation (34)   ranked 1,159 out of 2,678 in woman  4 years ago

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myLot reputation of 81/100. NuclearRabbit (509)   ranked 988 out of 2,678 in woman  4 years ago

I'm sure they can make it look more natural, I've never asked any women how much they paid for their boob job. Maybe there is a website where you can ask people who have had it done. Did you ever talk to a plastic surgeon to see what you can have done?

Yeah at around 22-23 you matibolizism will start to slow down. All thoughtout my teens and very early twenties people thought I was anerexic, but I wasn't. And I gained weight at 22, a lot of weight, A LOT of weight. But I lost most of it but I'm a size B, as opposed to being no size at all.

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2. myLot reputation of 92/100. Angelwriter (1833)   ranked 274 out of 2,678 in woman   4 years ago

Well, I wouldn't get them myself, but it's ultimately up to you. It shouldn't be a poll of either men or women. I wouldn't go under the knife for cosmetic reasons, but it's a personal choice. I'm also the most unobservant person there is, so I probably wouldn't even know if someone had implants, so I couldn't judge anyone on that. But, in general, I believe that someone who would never get implants could still be the "fakest" person ever, and someone who would could just as well be a truly genuine person on the inside. It all depends on the person. I would just make sure that you know all the facts and any issues important medically.

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3. myLot reputation of 79/100. soooobored (666)   ranked 32 out of 2,678 in woman   4 years ago

I'm really proud that you are waiting to make sure you want them, too many girls rush out and get them right away!Personally, I am against implants. You lose almost all your nipple sensitivity, and for me, form should always follow function. My boobs are almost non-existent, I'm an "Almost A", I have really broad shoulders, and really big butt, so I can look really disproportionate (or as you say, I don't have great "womanliness"). But I'm comfortable with it so it works. thumbupYou may think about it and still decide to get them. There are tons of reasons not to, but at least you are thinking about it!Good luck!


highfiveulation (34)   ranked 1,159 out of 2,678 in woman  4 years ago

Thank you! I'm trying to be smart here. It's huge and I've done a ton of research on the side effects, as well as other things such as mammogram interference and maintenance afterwards. Too many girls in here are like "Oh, my boobs are already huge but you shouldn't do it anyway." I'm glad you're happy with your body and I'm not unhappy, I just think I can improve on the design.

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4. myLot reputation of 94/100. skywolfcel (5050)   4 years ago

that makes your body looks better but you should be aware for the consequencies you might get from it because some failed to this and just suffer.

that is great to look but there's no feeling.
spend money before and after for the maintaince.

key: be happy with what you have

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5. myLot reputation of 90/100. 3cardmonte (1799)   ranked 684 out of 2,678 in woman   4 years ago

You are very sensible to wait until you are 21,your body will change drastically. I had a AA cuo until I was 18 years old and then suddenly as I turned 18 I developed onto a D cup,I am now an E cup. I think if you go too big then they will look fake,but if you dont try and go too much too soon,then you might get away with it. No one can tell you what to do,think long and hard about it and if you still want to do it then good luck!

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6. myLot reputation of 92/100. donna22 (972)   ranked 486 out of 2,678 in woman   4 years ago

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myLot reputation of 75/100. JoMarch (2195)  4 years ago

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7. myLot reputation of 95/100. cbreeze (941)   ranked 376 out of 2,678 in woman   4 years ago

I think if it makes you feel good, you should go ahead with it. They look terrible when they are overdone. You know what I mean...exaggerated, too big for your body. I don't think they should be beyond a C or D cup. And from what I've seen on TV, you have choices about shape in order for them to look more natural. If I had the money, I would definitely have cosmetic surgery. Not for my boobs because I'm already a D cup, but I would have some body sculpting done. I think the results would make me a more confident person. So if you want it, do it.


highfiveulation (34)   ranked 1,159 out of 2,678 in woman  4 years ago

Exactly! I'm glad someone shares my views that it isn't necessarily vain or overdone, just to make yourself feel more comfortable in your skin. And I would of course keep it in check, I don't live with Hugh Hefner I don't need boobs I have to carry around in wheelbarrels!

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myLot reputation of 93/100. aslanlight (1622)  4 years ago

I just think that inner beauty shows when a person is content with themselves as they are.

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9. myLot reputation of 93/100. belk89 (1031)   ranked 128 out of 2,678 in woman   4 years ago

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highfiveulation (34)   ranked 1,159 out of 2,678 in woman  4 years ago

Oh I would definitely keep it in proportion to my body type. I'm just board flat with an "athletic body" right now, and I'm just not the feminine looking, legs aside.

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10. myLot reputation of 75/100. JoMarch (2195)   4 years ago

if you want to get more chances of breast cancer, go ahead...your boobs not mine...but really i dont get it...i have normal boobs and if it was for me i'd get them removed totally...i want to be judged for my brain not for what i have under my shirt...besides as i said, it increases chances of getting breast cancer...also think of all those poor ladies who have big boobs and get ill because of that...not to mention that if good old mother nature gave you THAT breasts maybe it meant that you are supposed to stick to that since THAT is waht suits you better...i must be stupid but i always try not to mess with what mother nature chose for me...i never dyed my hair or got a tan for the same reason adn guess what those are also very haelthy choices ... unbalancing what mother nature decided is never good and always brings bad consequences... and you are not more woman just because you have more boobs...tahts rather machist view honestly and its sad that a woman should judge womanlyness on boobs... i hate fake boobs honestly... they look disgusting and fake...and unproportioned... and im a lesbian so its like a guy's view more than girl...but still... i prefer a girl with small breasts but real than an all-fake-breasts one...


highfiveulation (34)   ranked 1,159 out of 2,678 in woman  4 years ago

Okay, good points but you're kind of angry. Calm down, to each girl her own!

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