I turned off some of my friends e-mail notification and I think it's but fair!

Well I suppose you do the right thing. It's a nuisance so find out that the discussions that you have left a comment, was left unattended. They just don't get the fun of discussion. There is no point for you to continue to have the notification from such discussions owner to be on. By default, all my friend's notification are turned off. I don't really have time to filter all of the list. But I do keep track of several good friends, where I will give my response when they started a new discussion! Happy posting!

I think thats fair, my inbox gets so full of friends discussions, and I can't look at all of them, and some of them aren't very interesting to me. Like there is one that I have, whose topics are always about politics, I don't like politics, I find it hard to understand at times, and its just not interesting to me, I may just turn that notification off, it sounds mean, but like you if its not interesting to me I won't respond. I haven't done anything to my friends list so far, I may go and clean it up some....Have a good day

Hi salonga, I don’t turn on all the notification of the friends in my friends list. It’s really annoying to see so many emails in my mail box daily. I don’t like to take the trouble to delete them daily. I prefer my mail box to look decent. Just like you, I keep only the buttons of notification of friends who are interested in my discussions, and always try to respond to some of mine. I would like to keep the notification butter of my friends who start discussions which I’m interested as well. posting and have a nice day.

Just like what you have done with your lists, I turned off some friends. It is really a waste of time reading notifications that we have no interest to and inbox bloods with that kind of notifications. Another reason is that some of my friends are not that active anymore (like me, lol) so I have to turned them off too, and also plans to delete them soon. Have a great day my friend...

hope u don't turn me off i thought we had had some good discussions, i have deleted a few , if it feels good to you then i'm sure u have done the right thing or what u wanted to. i am a big believer in doing what u want to do.lol

Hahaha!!! I think that is your personal choice my friend. Everyone has the right to exercise his/her will power hahaha... I hope you did not turn off mine.. Well, for me I just turn on the notifications of those who are always responding to my discussions. I think what we did is just fair. have a nice day my friend.

I think it's a member's choice if he/ she chooses to turn notifications off or on. For me, I have turned off some and turned on some. Anyways, I can still see discussions in the 'friends started". I responded to friends' discussions if they were of my interest or if I knew how to respond to. I commented back if I needed to, but if I did not, I just rated them positively.

Thats the right thing you did. I have kept on email notifications of quite a few friends who always respond to my discussions and so I would also like to reciprocate. Otherwise I respond to discussions of my interest only. Happy posting!

salonga its up to you but for me I have left mine w ell enough alone as I know I am behind in responding to the responses on some of my discussions as I got a lot more responses than I ever imagined I would get. I will reply to them in due time as I am trying to mylot and also pack to move.I try my best to respond to all my friends and also to reply to responses they make but I am only one person with only so many hours in the day. so right now I am leaving my friends list alone as i imagine other people get caught up in work and mylotting just as I have.the benefit of the doubt.

I think you did the right thing. I've been busy lately and just log on here on my free time. So I haven't done anything on my friends list so far aside from accepting friend requests. I haven't even commented on my some responses on my discussions lately. But I'm on my way there. One step at a time. HUGZ friend.

I don't see where you do anything wrong because I have done the same thing too. I have even deleted a couple from my profile because I say them here in mylot but they never respond to my discussion. I think friendship are both ways.

I have done the same thing so I think you did the right thing. I actually did this to a few people that started so many discussions I couldn't get through my email in the morning. I know it sounds mean but I had some starting like 40 a day I would wake up to 200 plus emails. I was so stressed about it all I had to do something lol.

Hi there! Well I think you have done the right thing rather than delete them. Besides, you have the right to decide whatever you like to do with your friend's notifications. I have also turned off some of my friend's notifications of those who kept posting discussions already been discussed before. It only floods my email. I am still thinking if I will turn off those who never replied to any of my post but I kept replying to their discussions. Though I don't obliged my friends to respond on my discussions but I think its unfair if they will never respond to my discussions.

I think that's ok. I dont think i have any notifications. HEehee. Well, that's because i respond to anybody with interesting topics. And i think it's a personal choice,too. I mean, for me, i dont want my inbox to be clogged with notification messages. I prefer to only have personal messages from my friends, family, colleagues, and other business corespondents in my inbox.

I always have notification off by default. I get notification, of course, of any responses to my (somewhat rare) discussions and to comments on responses I make but I find that I get quite enough email as it is without cluttering up my inbox with a lengthy mail every time someone posts something. These days I look first at the Digest, then at any responses/comments and then check the New, the Recent and the Friends Started tabs (usually in that order). I long ago gave up thinking I had to respond to every discussion from 'friends'. I now choose only those on which I feel that I may have something useful to say. This tactic seems to work for me. I seem to have increased my average daily earnings by about 60% since I used this routine (not that the money is my main reason for being here!) and spend rather less time on MyLot than I used to.

I confess I turned mine off for everybody, I just couldn't keep up with them...

Oh-Oh Salonga! Do I take the credit for this or the blame? I know who gave you this idea so should I duck or stand up proudly for what I believe in! I think you did the right thing! I told you that I do that because I don't like to have people use me for their own purposes and not care about my feelings. Like now I have started a discussion and I am watching carefully to see which ones of my friends ignore it as usual! I already know the ones that will! I will be turning off more notifys and with just cause! I know that the ones that I did turn off have no clue and don't even know that I am missing from their discussions. That alone is pretty pathetic! So obviously I did the right thing, only it should have been done a long time ago! You have to feel right with you choice, so I hope that you do.