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As a woman should you cut your hair short when you are past 40? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 93/100. SketcherD (382)   ranked 89 out of 6,545 in mother1 year ago

My Mom and I have argued this point for years. Mainly because I am a hair stylist but the other reason is because I believe in free choice!! One should do with their hair what they want! Not what everyone else wants.

That being said I have cut my hair short and I am past the 40 mark. I did it about a year ago. I am thinking of growing it to shoulder length. So it is half way between the short that I have and long version had a year ago. I miss my longer hair. I like my present cut but it doesn't let me get the many different styles like I have been able to do almost all my life. You know where it in a braid, french roll or just down and flowing.

What do you think?? Should a woman get a short haircut after 40??

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 96/100. ShellyB (3008)   ranked 812 out of 6,545 in mother   1 year ago

I am 39 and I am not planning in cutting my hair in less than a year so I am not sure if it is the fashionable thing to do but like you say I also believe it is my choice wink


myLot reputation of 93/100. SketcherD (382)   ranked 89 out of 6,545 in mother  1 year ago

Ya that is what I keep telling my Mom.


myLot reputation of 96/100. ShellyB (3008)   ranked 812 out of 6,545 in mother  1 year ago

Great minds think alike wink

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2. bebeth (70)   ranked 4,038 out of 6,545 in mother   1 year ago

my mom is over 50 and has long hair. she looks pretty with long hair..


myLot reputation of 93/100. SketcherD (382)   ranked 89 out of 6,545 in mother  1 year ago

So you wont get bothered by her saying you should cut yours then eh?? And good for her.

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3. myLot reputation of 89/100. tuyakiki (1326)   ranked 2,272 out of 6,545 in mother   1 year ago

It is not necessary to cut hairs short after 40. Short hairs looks bad. But if the person is some how invalid,for instance,paralyzed or an able to move,then its better to cut the hairs short.as she cannot maintain long hairs on her own.


myLot reputation of 93/100. SketcherD (382)   ranked 89 out of 6,545 in mother  1 year ago

I agree totally. I am on disability but I can still do my hair, well most days anyway. But I think if I can't some days it would be nice to just put in a pony tail instead of a short cut just laying flat because I can't stand up to style it.

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4. myLot reputation of 98/100. checapricorn (9975)   ranked 70 out of 6,545 in mother   1 year ago

Hi Sketcher,

I don't think so, whatever a woman wants long or short, it's okay! But, my Mother loves to have a short hair when she was 40 and until now, she used to have a very long hair before but she loves this time to just wash and wear! LOL!
She doesn't like to spend a lot of time fixing it and now she is maintaining her short hair which looks fantastic with her also! LOL!
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5. myLot reputation of 98/100. palonghorn (3741)   ranked 187 out of 6,545 in mother   1 year ago

I don't think it has to be cut real short. I'm 48 and my hair is about shoulder length maybe a bit shorter. I don't, however think that women over 40 should have hair down to their bottoms like I did when I was much younger. I just don't think that is a good look for older women, unless they keep it tied back or put up someway.


myLot reputation of 93/100. SketcherD (382)   ranked 89 out of 6,545 in mother  1 year ago

Oh I agree totally. I myself don't like the hair super long if it isn't nice hair to begin with. But again each to his own I say.

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6. myLot reputation of 78/100. Mare73 (877)   ranked 530 out of 6,545 in mother   1 year ago

It's a woman's choice, just like anything else to do as they please with THEIR HAIR. I'm 34 and recently cut ALL of my hair off! It's time to go back for a trim and make it 'pretty again' but I like the short hair.

I think women over 40 with long hair - look older as the hair pulls their face down (hey I read that in a magazine and I totally agree). I will NOT be growing my hair long again. It's short and it's staying that way.


myLot reputation of 93/100. SketcherD (382)   ranked 89 out of 6,545 in mother  1 year ago

Yes you are right if it looks good on the person then they can do it. But if for any reason the long hair makes you look older (why would anyone want that??LOL) then maybe a shorter cut would be better.

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7. jmabie (9)   ranked 4,058 out of 6,545 in mother   1 year ago

I am well over 40 and have had both short hair and long. I really like it both ways but I tend to not go to the beauty shop very often. When I do go I usually have it cut short, saying "it will grow back". So I don't think it really matters, it's everyone's choice and not anyone else's business.

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8. myLot reputation of 97/100. sunshine4 (6288)   ranked 19 out of 6,545 in mother   1 year ago

I have been told that you look younger with short hair, but saying that, I am over 40 and just for the first time got my hair cut short and I HATE it!!

I have always had at least shoulder length hair and always have had very stylish cuts. Last haircut was with someone new and I will never go back to her again. I asked for long layers and she chopped it!

I say it is up to the person how they like their hair, age doesn't matter.


myLot reputation of 93/100. SketcherD (382)   ranked 89 out of 6,545 in mother  1 year ago

Oh that is too bad. I hate it when my hair gets cut too short. I have always cut my own being a stylist myself but since this shorter cut I can not do it. The last time I went to a stylist I used to work with to get a trim she didn't trim she cut off about 1 1/2 inches. THAT is not a trim.

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9. myLot reputation of 92/100. belk89 (1039)   ranked 1,872 out of 6,545 in mother   1 year ago



Most women cut there hair short when they reach 40 since it makes them look younger. But cutting your hair is a choice.My inlaw is on her late 40s and she has a long hair. But still she looks young and long hair looks good on her. Sometimes she do a lot of style that i dont even knew how to do it lol. So personally i think you should choose a style that will make you happy.

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10. myLot reputation of 47/100. MSV1313 (2243)   ranked 251 out of 6,545 in mother   1 year ago

I'm 36 and have no intention of cutting my hair short ever. My hair is also about 60 percent white now, and I refuse to dye it. Having short gray hair won't make me look any younger. LOL I like my hair, my grandma had her hair down past her butt well into her 90s and she was beautiful!
It's really a too each their own thing. I have a kind of young looking face, but it doesn't matter, my hubby loves me just the way I am and THAT's what really matters. My little girl likes my hair too, and even says she thinks the white is pretty. If the people I love like how I look and I don't hate how I look, it really doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.


myLot reputation of 93/100. SketcherD (382)   ranked 89 out of 6,545 in mother  1 year ago

You are exactly right.

I happen to colour my hair because I have tons of freckles but my natural hair is brown. Weird I know. So I colour it red to match my skin tone. I don't have more than a few grey hair but I colour it because I want to.

Again each to his own.


pfeinberg (1)  11 months ago

My compliments to you wonderful ladies!!! Thank you for your independent mindsets and for embracing beauty the way that you do! I, as a man, applaud you and thank you for taking the time to look the way you do. Long hair on a lady is nearly always attractive, very feminine, and 99% of the time makes a woman look better than she does with short hair. In fact, the "over-40" chop is truly unpopular among men, who are usually turned off by this! It really does matter to them deep down! I got married at the age of 44 (I am now 47) and my wife is 45. She has beautiful long hair which looks absolutely lovely on her!!! I guess one has to be careful to evaluate whether or not the reason for a woman having gone short was really an unwillingness to "bother" with maintaining long tresses. I think some resort to that "age appropriate" talk as a means of excuse to not have to work at their beauty, which is really absurd after all. I know of almost nothing nice that doesn't require some kind of price, including maintaining things like an attractive home, a beautiful lawn, a beautiful car, an athletic body shape, an organized financial portfolio, etc. Everything nice has its price!!!


myLot reputation of 93/100. SketcherD (382)   ranked 89 out of 6,545 in mother  11 months ago

Thank you so much for a mans point of view. I really appreciate your insight on this matter.

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