Will it be "yes" or will it be "i'm sorry"?

It happened to me but I knew it already that he is not good looking guy as such compare to my expectations but what I like dis his love and care about me. As we met in real I found that he is just having fun and to fulfill his sexual desire he behaved like that. So it is obvious that saying I am sorry is good idea then saying yes even though one neglect looks and all one can not neglect idea behind some one's behaviour.

simple, you just be nice for that moment you are with them and after they're gone you delete everything about them if you didn't like them. I once met someone on the net, a lady, and she always sent me photos with sunglass on and she looked pretty beautiful with her sunglass on, but when i mey her i realised that she only had one eye.At first i thought maybe i was dreaming,ha!ha!ha

After she left i had to laugh and not just any laugh but Laugh Out Loud, i never phoned her since then and she never phoned either

Something like happened to both my bestfriend and I a few years ago. Well, actually, the guy wasn't my boyfriend yet. He was courting me and we decided to meet. He was so different in person from the one he was trying to portray online! He wasn't very ugly, but he wasn't good looking as well. Online, he really seemed so sure of himself, but in person, it was the exact opposite. Good thing he wasn't my boyfriend yet. I decided right there and then that I just wanted him for my friend and nothing more.

For my bestfriend, though, it was a different story. They became a couple online even before meeting in person. When they finally met in person, my bestfriend was frustrated. But she was already inlove with the guy so she made a go for it even if the guy was shorter than her and looked about 10 years older than her. (Un)Fortunately, they didn't last long.

That's the reason why I don't engage myself in online relationships. I don't want to have regrets and risk having a relationship I am not sure of what to feel when I meet him in person.

Falling in love being apart is different from relationships where you see each in other person. Yes good looks isn't that important but still, you wouldn't know the real feeling once you see the person face to face.

Ciao!

i never really have any particular preference when it comes to looks. i usually settle for me whom i know would take care of me and will love me unconditionally (as if!). i dont really engage in online dating because like you said, its very risky plus the fact that i already found the guy who loves me unconditionally. if ever there were men/ boys who's trying to show or let his feelings known, i would tell them right away that im engaged!:)

I've had that happen. A few times, not a lot, but a few. You tend to know right off the bat if it's going to work or not. Or at least if it's worth a shot. So I'd sit and talk for awhile and then politely say "I'm sorry....."

i think it would be yes, inspite of the looks, anyway im not after with the looks im more on the personality, and maybe i should have known ans seen his pics already before meeting up, and as long as he is nice to me and repectful that would just be fine with me!!!

I would not make any difference to me what he looked like because looks would not have anything to do with what I thought of him. Since I would already know him I would not care that he might look exactly what I thought he did.

ok, for starters, i would not be meeting anybody i thought of as a 'boyfriend' without first seeing an image (hopefully a true pick of himself/herself)
If he were not attractive, i would not be a total biatch to him, however, i would be offering a drink rather than offering myself;)
on the flip side...i really dont think the internet is the right place to try to find 'love' stats show that only 24% YUP 24% of internet relationships work out once the people meet.
Its a fantasy land on teh web, you never know if the person is full of crap or not, i would sooner meet someone from my local area where ateast i can find out from other people if he is a buttnut or a good person.
thats just my 2 cents though..i know there are people out there who try to find love on the web..i am just not one of them, and i encourage people i know not to 'look for love in all teh wrong places'

when i saw the guy using other photos and when i finally see them it wasnt him or he is ugly but have a great character it will be a YES but when he is ugly and got ugly attitudes that will be im sorry i cant keep you.