How many of you are in your 20's and have dentures if so do you like them?

United States
January 6, 2009 6:54pm CST
I know it sounds bad but Im 25 and have alot of problems with my teeth. It is genetic and the dentist says i have to have dentures. I think it would make me feel alot better about my appearence and boost my self esteem. Are you in your twenties and have dentures or thinking about getting dentures or implants. If you do are you happy with them?
2 responses
@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
7 Jan 09
(Raises Hand) My pregnancies killed my teeth, along with not taking care of them properly. I still don't to be honest.. something I should work on. I didn't have a single cavity until I had my first child. While pregnant with him I ended up getting loads of cavities. I didn't get them taken care of right away, so they got worse with time. Eventually I went and got them all filled. Then I got pregnant for my twins. Most of the fillings fell out. It looked horrible. My front teeth were half rotted away, from the top down, and from the sides in. I was definitly self concious. I would be afraid to smile, hated having my picture taken, and would often cover my mouth when speaking to someone. Then I got pregnant again. During my pregnancy I took my 3 older kids for a picnic and packed apples. I bit into the apple and one of my front teeth broke off. I went to the dentist the next morning and he had to pull that tooth cuz the root was still there, and the one next to it (not the other front tooth, but to the other side of it) because it was rotted down to a pointy tip and it hurt. He couldn't use novicaine because of the pregnancy, and wouldn't do anything else because of the pregnancy. So I went a few months missing 2 front teeth. Now of course my confidence was even worse! So I went back after my son was born and had 5 more teeth pulled, all top front. It took a few weeks for my dentures to come in, so I had to live with not having any teeth for awhile. It made eating a bit difficult. Now I've been living with partial dentures for over 2 years. I'm 28 years old now. It definitly feels better. I don't worry so much about smiling or speaking to people. I never cover my mouth anymore. I actually show teeth in pictures taken of me. It's a whole lot better than it was. It was definitly worth it. My only problem now is some of the other teeth are starting to rot away. There is one you can see if I smile wide enough, it looks pretty gross. I worry that I'll have to have more teeth pulled, which would mean new dentures, which could mean going toothless for awhile again. I don't really want to go back to that, so I've been putting off a dentist visit. Although I think I should probably make one anyways. I might be able to just get some fillings and be okay for awhile.
• United States
7 Jan 09
Yep, I totally understand where you're coming from. I used to stand in front of a mirror practicing talking without showing my teeth. Trust me you'll feel so much better once you get this taken care of. When I first started losing my teeth, I wouldn't let my husband kiss me. Like a peck was okay, but not a deep kiss. Obviously he knew I was missing teeth, and he could see it when I spoke, but I was worried about how it would feel if he kissed me like that, and if we were intimate that's all I'd think about, it would be a distraction. I wouldn't feel comfortable or at ease, or sexy because of it. So long as he didn't kiss me, I didn't have to think about it, and could ignore the lack of teeth and that would help me to feel sexy and kept me in the mood. He wasn't able to kiss me until after I'd gotten my partials. And even now when I know we're going to be intimate where I'd expect deep kissing, I make sure they're firmly glued in place. It just helps make me feel more confident.
• United States
7 Jan 09
thats exactly how i feel too. i hate it though i cry about it like a big baby. but it will be so nice to smile again. does the glue stuff make it uncomfortable or can you not tell it?
• United States
7 Jan 09
im not kidding when i say this but my back teeth have always been rough but my front teeth didnt start doing that until after i had my son. huh oh and i been putting this denture thing off for a year now. they get worse everyday and i try to not talk normal so it cant be seen i feelso ugly ya know. then i worry what my husband will think he says he dont care that teeth dont matter to him but it does to me cause its hard to smile. i havent smiled in so long i may have forgotten how. thank you for telling me now i dont feel so alone being young with this problem.
@lynnemg (4529)
• United States
7 Jan 09
I am not in my twenties anymore, but I was about your age when I had to get my dentures. My problem was also genetic. Getting dentures was on of the best things I ever did. Not only did it really improve my appearance and self-esteem, I no longer have those horrible tooth-aches that I used to have. I am a lot healthier too. My advice is to go for it. You won't be sorry if you do.
• United States
7 Jan 09
thanks. i am worried about being able to talk and eat and they fall out or something! ha im really nervous about it but its gotta be done i just gotta be brave!
• United States
7 Jan 09
Ethansmommy- It does take some getting used to, eating with them. But in about a week or so you'll be totally used to them. Just be careful because certain things stick to them, like gum, tootsie rolls, and bread! Since mine are partials, they sort of wrap around my real teeth, so I don't have to glue them in if I don't want to, so sometimes I get bits of food inside them, between them and my gums. The tiniest food particle can drive you nuts!